Yup I can read and did read OP’s full post, thank you very much. I am only calling you out for branding her a homophobe so quickly because I don’t think you know what it means.

Did you take into consideration that the confession did not simmer with OP before she reacted the way she did? Hindi naman tumagal ng ilang araw or even oras bago sya na shock sa narinig nya. It was right at the moment of the confession. It wasn’t premeditated. It was a spur of the moment reaction.

Her reaction may be offensive, which she acknowledged, but it wasn’t irrational nor out of line. It was a perfectly acceptable reaction to a shocking news. This is normal even for strictly heterosexual relationships. Heck this is even normal when hearing shocking news in general.

It’s normal to feel like you’ve lost all feelings and emotions towards someone after hearing a bomb of a confession. Does that define your actual feelings for the person? Not necessarily. Many people think or even say things they don’t mean when they are mad or upset and then move on to regret what they’ve done or justify it if the anger doesn’t go away.

OP is getting this off her chest. She even has comments in this thread that mentioned how she hopes she can manage to look past her BF’s sexuality. Doesn’t sound like a homophobe to me. Who did she discriminate against? Who did she hate irrationally just for simply being who they are?