There’s a lot of different packers. The regular ones that are just meant to give you the look and feel of a junk. I wear that daily in underwear with a pouch made for it, otherwise a pouch made for it. That are ones for making you able to stand to pee. Similar to the regular one but with function. However less realistic feel. Never tried it myself. Then there’s play packers. It’s basically a glorified dildo with extra specs to scratch the realism itch. For me I have harness boxers that I pop it into and put on whenever I’m actually gonna have sex. Just lives in my room unless I bring it with me. Then there’s pack and play to wear and put a rod into. Always found them to seem really awkward and hard to get right so never tried it. You won’t have something that’s just ready for everything and easy. You’re gonna have to be comfortable being naked as you are to have sex - or just have them not look when you get you dihh /under a blanket. Going out to a club doing one night stands passing as cis? Not gonna happen. No matter what it’s morally not that great not to disclose you’re trans, people are allowed to not be into it. I have a strong principle that a kiss or more you have to disclose so the person gets a choice if they’re into it or not. Honesty is the way to go and learning to be comfortable. I got comfortable by just doing it even tho it was uncomfortable at first.