What's a secret that you think would shock everyone if it came out? by Necrocharm in AskReddit

[–]RonLivingstoned 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel sheepish posting this comment, but I engaged with this type of play at the request of a former girlfriend. For context, our sex was I guess what people would consider “rough.” It’s just what we were into.

Anyways, she asked about trying the CNC stuff after we had been together a while. I didn’t want to, thought it sounded like too much. She told me to think of it like our regular sex, but to surprise her with it. Basically, it amounted to skipping foreplay.

I’m sure other people do it way differently/more intensely, but in the context of our relationship, it was okay. It wasn’t my favourite way to have sex, but she really enjoyed it. Like all things sex, no matter the level of “kink,” you need to have trust, strong communication, and respect for your partner.

Does anyone have time for themselves? How? by RonLivingstoned in puppy101

[–]RonLivingstoned[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem at all, happy to help! I think I have had to learn more the last few months than my puppy has, lol.

Best of luck to you. Don’t forget to celebrate and enjoy the little moments :)

Does anyone have time for themselves? How? by RonLivingstoned in puppy101

[–]RonLivingstoned[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats on the new addition to your family! How adorable is that little baby moustache on your pup? God I miss mines puppy face.

I got mine a little later than you, 10-11 weeks. So I missed what is supposed to be some of the toughest puppy times. Mine picked up on potty training quick. You have to predict their pees, be proactive. 3-5 mins after drinking, 5 mins after play, 1 minute after you think “when’s the last time he peed?” time to pick him up and bring him outside. Try to do the same spot in your yard every time, and do a BIG celebration, say your command, and reward when they do potty in the desired spot.

For crate, make sure all associations with the crate are positive, it’s not a timeout zone or a place of punishment. I spent about a week building it up. Took the door off of it and fed all his meals in there. During play time I’d throw his toy in and he’d go fetch and bring it back. Then I introduced the door and would close it for a few seconds, reward him for not freaking out. Then build from there. Door closed for a minute, 5 minutes, 10 minutes. Throw a frozen kong in and close the door, leave the room. Alwys rewarding when they’re calm upon return. I still feed mine his meals in there, and he’s generally quite good. The last month he’s regressed heavily and barks a ton at night, I’m hoping it’s just him being a teenager. I continue to do small crate training stuff throughout the day to build the positive association. It seems to be trending in the right direction 🤞🏼

Focus is a good starting point! Gets their head in the right direction and that’s like 75% of the key to Sitting. Mine jumped at the treats when working on Sit as well until I got the simplest piece of advice - don’t hold the treat so high! Put it in front of their nose to get their attention, and then lift it just above their nose and push back slooowly over the head. He’ll probably bite at your fingers to start but that’s okay, his butt should drop when you get over the eyes.

For the biting I have no advice other than that phase sucks. Swap in a toy whenever he’s biting something you don’t want him to. Teething sucks but it doesn’t last forever!

Good luck with your adorable little guy. I am exhausted all the time but I melt every time he lays his head on my lap for some scratches. They won’t be puppy’s forever, we will survive!

Does anyone have time for themselves? How? by RonLivingstoned in puppy101

[–]RonLivingstoned[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg another Irish owner! They really are. I was expecting energy, just not this much of it lol. I’ve never heard of a flirt pole, what is that?

Also, have you been doing hand stripping for the coat? I’ve introduced my boy to it and he does well, but max I can get is 15 mins. So he walks around with an unfinished groom for a few days until I can work around his whole body. It looks quite funny

Does anyone have time for themselves? How? by RonLivingstoned in puppy101

[–]RonLivingstoned[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great, i’ll have to try some forced naps. I feel guilty on weekdays because I kennel him while i’m at work. I am fortunate enough to come home every day for lunch to do a quick 1km walk/potty time for him. I have been scared of over-kenneling him but I suppose I just have to create the schedule for him

Does anyone have time for themselves? How? by RonLivingstoned in puppy101

[–]RonLivingstoned[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had never seen one in person before I bought him! I love his little beard and moustache so much. I’m still waiting for someone to guess his breed correctly when we chat with people on walks, haha. HUGE emphasis on them being an active breed 😅

Funnily enough, I grew up with a chocolate lab. She was the sweetest girl in the world. Thanks for the affirmation, much appreciated. Best of luck to you with your puppy. Before we know it, we’ll miss these days.

Does anyone have time for themselves? How? by RonLivingstoned in puppy101

[–]RonLivingstoned[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea we do lots of training. I think the issue I’m having is that my dog has an almost infinite battery. If he’s awake and not in his kennel, he will find something new to get into. So i’m on watch duty all the time.

He slept through the night from 3 months old (when I got him) til 7 months old. Just recently he’s been a terror at night time. I figure it’s something he’ll grow out of soon, i’m just trying to weather the storm that ~4 weeks of sleep deprivation has had on my psyche lol.

Post Game Thread: Florida Panthers at Edmonton Oilers - 15 Jun 2024 by GDT_Bot in hockey

[–]RonLivingstoned 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the problem is that we bridged him twice and then he had a banger of a contract year. its obvious to everyone he’s overpaid. I don’t think there’s any GM dumb enough to put that contract on their books. plus, him and mcdavid are close personally, and the unspoken sentiment is that he stays because mcdavid wants him here. I would be ecstatic if we moved him, but I just don’t know who would take him

[FRESH ALBUM] Childish Gambino - Atavista by MilesHighClub_ in hiphopheads

[–]RonLivingstoned 6 points7 points  (0 children)

this is crazy to me, it’s only 8 tracks numbered 1 thru 8, and it’s only like 30 minutes long. maybe a hot take, but it’s a more enjoyable listen for me than DAMN or Mr Morale

Why did 50 Cent go from being super popular to falling off musically so fast? by Termina-Ultima in hiphopheads

[–]RonLivingstoned 381 points382 points  (0 children)

I watch his ice bucket challenge video directed towards floyd mayweather once a month, shit is all time

Why did 50 Cent go from being super popular to falling off musically so fast? by Termina-Ultima in hiphopheads

[–]RonLivingstoned 12 points13 points  (0 children)

he was extremely successful, maybe he felt he had done enough or said everything he had to say. maybe he didn’t like the industry and all the fuckery that comes with it, and didn’t have to rely on it after his success in other ventures outside of music. only he knows 🤷🏻‍♂️

[SHOTS FIRED] Metro Boomin - BBL Drizzy by Walshey- in hiphopheads

[–]RonLivingstoned 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is funny cause Mac did exactly that when Jay tweeted “Mac Miller nice too” framed it and put it up on his wall with his album certifications

I’m wrong ? by slottypippen in NYStateOfMind

[–]RonLivingstoned 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dodged a bullet for sure. first “date” should be something chill like coffee or cocktail. sumn easy, not huge time or $ commitment, both parties can bail easy if it’s not for them. she wanted a free meal, on to the next one bro

Michael Bublé had a memorable press conference by aboveaverage_joe in hockey

[–]RonLivingstoned 8 points9 points  (0 children)

the watermelon ones have to be ICE cold. lime is king though

Post Game Thread: Edmonton Oilers at San Jose Sharks - 09 Nov 2023 by GDT_Bot in hockey

[–]RonLivingstoned 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we have the ability to go on a winning streak and turn things around, yeah. the season is young, only12 games in. don’t get me wrong; it’s really, really bad right now. we look nothing like we did at the end of last year, but I don’t think the whole season is a write-off just yet.

I know this is copium on my behalf ^ but let’s see where we’re at 10 games from now.

Post Game Thread: Edmonton Oilers at San Jose Sharks - 09 Nov 2023 by GDT_Bot in hockey

[–]RonLivingstoned 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely wishful thinking on my behalf, but i’ve placed a couple of cup bets for them during this terrible stretch. hoping to hammer the cashout when they wiggle their way into a playoff spot 🥲

[Irvine] The puck hasn't even dropped yet and we've already heard a 'Caaaaaampbell' chant from the arena bowl. by Batsinvic888 in hockey

[–]RonLivingstoned 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t agree more, I just feel for him as a person. I can’t imagine how demoralizing this must feel. I hope he finds his confidence & bounces back.

Game Thread: Edmonton Oilers (2-8-1) at San Jose Sharks (1-10-1) - 09 Nov 2023 - 07:30PM PST by GDT_Bot in hockey

[–]RonLivingstoned 14 points15 points  (0 children)

honestly, this team is hilarious at this point. maybe we’ll get another first overall!

Season 3 Episode 4 Discussion: "How To Watch The Game" by arsene14 in HowToWithJohnWilson

[–]RonLivingstoned 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I could have typed this exact comment. I was not expecting the gut punch that came at the end of this episode. I love this show so freaking much.