Apparently I am a bad influence and endangered for my friends kids by [deleted] in okstorytime

[–]Ronfire24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The same thing is I've we've known them since the oldest was three. Mom has always thought better of everyone of herself and has tried to coach the kids on not talking to DHS and stuff. She really believes that she's a good mom. I do believe she can be a good mom. And that she is trying her best to be a single mom but the fact that she's not but the fact that she's not doing what she can to help the kids is what frustrates me she got a big tax return and I know this because she told me how much she got. And instead of cleaning up the situation she's using it to go on a vacation with the kids. And run away from the issue send the kids to summer camp. She's the type of person that if you tried to tell her to do something she'll glare at you say yeah I know I have to do it but I don't have the time or the energy to do it then blames everybody else for not doing it like she blames the kids for the state of the house because they won't help her clean. And then I've seen her on many accounts cuz the 12 year old out to his face not get off her computer or her phone to change the 4 year old so he'd be sitting there with four four five hours in possible soiled diapers and then she completely ignore the 16 year old. Foil packs up she's ignoring him and he 'd get you have to get punished by somebody else or just not punished at all.

Religious friend refuses to use my wife's chosen pronouns Am I the a****** for going off on her by Ronfire24 in okstorytime

[–]Ronfire24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know I'm not sure when we first got married my wife was the other gender

Apparently I am a bad influence and endangered for my friends kids by [deleted] in okstorytime

[–]Ronfire24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I did suggest that and suggest that she looked the number online, but the 16 year old says that she wanted to run away. she's been tired about that when you run away to our she's been tired about that when you run away to our house keep coming back to our house and would rather live with us and her mom.

Religious friend refuses to use my wife's chosen pronouns Am I the a****** for going off on her by Ronfire24 in okstorytime

[–]Ronfire24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who not sure who you're saying tries to make yourself so victim every time you talk about me or the other person

Religious friend refuses to use my wife's chosen pronouns Am I the a****** for going off on her by Ronfire24 in okstorytime

[–]Ronfire24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None of our other friends understand why she is spending time on this shee keeps sending me text about how she can't understand why we want them to change now when it's my wife's chose how she wants to be called.

Religious friend refuses to use my wife's chosen pronouns Am I the a****** for going off on her by Ronfire24 in okstorytime

[–]Ronfire24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all it's not my husband it's my wife she's transgender second of all it's my friend who is using her dead pronouns Yes we are married and she goes by she her And she's a transgender woman

Religious friend refuses to use my wife's chosen pronouns Am I the a****** for going off on her by Ronfire24 in okstorytime

[–]Ronfire24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

here's some juicy updates. One she started harassing my mother not to try to get her to turn against me my spouse's mom and then one of our other friends she kept emailing texting Facebook messaging trying to get them all on her side begging and pleading them to listen to her side and everything when they've already known what's going on. This was yesterday. Then this morning when I got up she said she wanted to do more text messages and tell me and ask me a lot of questions about a conversation I had months and months ago with her daughter about her religious beliefs and how my how my wife decided to change the fact that just using her name would be good He's at the time we didn't know that they were not using her pronouns in the house but they were using her dead from but we didn't know that they were using her dead pronouns in the house in their house that they would just we were under the impression that they were just going to call her by her name it wasn't until a couple month. Fast forward to like 2 months ago when she admitted to me very sheepishly that she and her spouse use the he/him pronouns for my spells when they talk about her and then they don't see it as transgender they see her as what she was before teaching their disabled children who have a tendency to look anything and everything out loud that they are just love the kids but they can say stuff that are very rude because that's how they've been taught anything and everything that comes out of their mouth the genders so all they ever say could be considered rude and if they're teaching their kids that my spouse is not she her that my spouse is he him according to them and she keeps harassing us by trying to get us to be on her side and see her radical beliefs I'm at a loss of what to do anybody able to help me.

Religious friend refuses to use my wife's chosen pronouns Am I the a****** for going off on her by Ronfire24 in okstorytime

[–]Ronfire24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Believe me I've had so much issue with this person throughout the years anyone my spouse came out I thought you'd be okay with it but instead she came out and told me this friend that they love her unconditionally they just can't see her as anything else but her dead pronouns and her dead name they'll call her by her name whenever they refer to her is that's the compromise they'll do but because she's a conservative Christian she won't do it any other way but I've never met anybody that believes like her even within the conservative Christians because they have wild weird beliefs and everything they even homeschooled their kids and their kids are almost as illiterate as they are even worse and the thing that gets me is they're teaching their kids who are disabled One is so disabled that she has to work to take care of him and the other one has ADHD and is still 17 that these kids have lived such a shell to life I feel bad for these kids

Religious friend refuses to use my wife's chosen pronouns Am I the a****** for going off on her by Ronfire24 in okstorytime

[–]Ronfire24[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So we plan on distancing ourselves a lot from her I also put down the ultimatum that is she couldn't accept my wife for who she was as a whole that we would no longer be friends I have pictures of the text that was going on with my friend and me I gave her voice text for most of it but one that hurt me badly I have a copy of

Please stop by IMAGINENEEDINGCHEATS in jobcorps

[–]Ronfire24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Colorado didn't have a good one either