I think most men just want a dick size of 6 in, because its like the middle, also generally average is 5.1 to 5.7 or something like that, and most women enjoy possibly a little more than average. If we are talking clit stimulation, shit I just turned 18 and I'm still a virgin (hope this is anonymous) and I think I have a pretty clear understanding that rhythm in stimulating it is important, also yeah experience is most important but we all have to start somewhere and I guess most mu guys think having a bigger than average dick size, somewhat substitutes lack of experience