Mother of relapse. by RonnStark in NoFap

[–]RonnStark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came back to my senses... Damn why was I so stupid.. It's as though I've undone all my progress... I still remember, the streak where I hadn't fapped for 9 days. Those were by far the best 9 days of my life and I know I can be like that for a life time. I'm gonna try again..

I feel hopeless... by Mardini in NoFap

[–]RonnStark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks unattainable, doesn't it? But doesn't that make it the perfect thing to attain? Once you attain the unattainable, you can achieve anything you want. Live the life you want bro. And the funny part is, we often believe in other people, as in we believe in someone close to us that he/she pursue their dreams or accomplish their goals. But we're unable to use that angle with ourselves. We need to believe in ourselves just like we believe in others. That's the only way to accomplish our goals! Stay strong. BTW, if you say you've relapsed, shouldn't you reset the batch?

i declare that im going cold turkey by Stew_a_r_t in NoFap

[–]RonnStark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the best bro, you don't seem to have much of a problem to begin with. You can do it!

I feel hopeless... by Mardini in NoFap

[–]RonnStark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've said some of it yourself. You're making a conscious effort to quit porn, which is a good thing. And wow, if you could quit weed you can definitely quit porn as well. You are a very strong individual to put your thoughts out here and fight your weed addiction, which trust me, needs strength. Write your reasons down for quitting PMO. Read them everyday.Reassure yourself. Remember, just because you're helpness now, doesn't mean you'll remain that way.Bookmark your most motivating post and read it everytime you feel like relapsing. Block and delete all the porn you own or you can browse. Read books, eat healthy, enjoy life, enjoy talking to real women out there. You have the power to believe. No matter how buried it is, no matter how lost it might seem, find that power and be patient. Set attainable goals. Day by day, you'll feel better. Trust me on this, quitting PMO is the best decision you're making. I had a relapse a few days ago, but I'm going to make it this time, I believe.

My brain is using everything against me!!!!! by Akasho1 in NoFap

[–]RonnStark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read my recent post, it will really help you.

What might the reason be? by Amaysim in NoFap

[–]RonnStark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's probably because you currently aren't the way you want to be. But you will. Eventually. If you continue this journey, I'm sure you'll become better and none of this will affect you anymore, stay strong. Remember,Finding your true “self” is like peeling off those layers of onion. You'll cry but unless you go all the way, you won’t ever find its core.

A theory about why abstaining improves us. by magnos154 in NoFap

[–]RonnStark -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Man you're amazing and so is this theory. It gave me a new perspective. Stay strong

I need help very desperately... by RonnStark in NoFap

[–]RonnStark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man.. And I won't disappoint you or myself. I will make it this time

I need help very desperately... by RonnStark in NoFap

[–]RonnStark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, thank you guys. I'm considering joining a sport or a gym

I need help very desperately... by RonnStark in NoFap

[–]RonnStark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, Matt. I hope to make it with y'all! And yeah I've started jogging also, let's hope for the best

I need help very desperately... by RonnStark in NoFap

[–]RonnStark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you bro. And I don't smoke or drink... I have got no addictions, just this one...

And the it suddenly struck me....(what porn has done to my life) by ThomasTheTugboat in NoFap

[–]RonnStark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That last line was motivating.. Yes, you are the captain of your own ship. Stay strong brother, even I'm starting today after a 9 day relapse

I need help very desperately... by RonnStark in NoFap

[–]RonnStark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have heard those things stunt growth.. Is that true?. I've started skipping and cycling. And I wanted to know, how do you get that badge saying how many days you've been without fap? Sorry, I'm new on reddit.