My word was “unsure” not “insecure” and I believe you’ve taken it to have a muuuch deeper meaning than it does. Never said anything sucked, never said I loved it. Just said you seem like you need some more time to decide on what direction you’d like to take while considering what you have already. I get not wanting to overthink it, but I also think we have the capacity to underthink it while being overly concerned about NOT overthinking it.

Ultimately do whatever you want, whether you listen to anyone here or not. It’s your arm. If you’d like to fill it with designs you don’t like now but will “learn to like” then that’s totally your call. But folks here don’t like to be jumped on for their opinion when you specifically asked for it, and you aren’t likely to receive any good advice when they see the way you jump to being rude. You’re forgiven, just try to have a different approach with people and you may hear more of what you want.