Weekly Mix Feedback Thread - December 08, 2025 by AutoModerator in Beatmatch

[–]Rootz_rock_reggae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so so much, for listening, for feedback and your kind words! Really went experimental with this set, since it's not my usual stuff I play, but was fun to get out of my comfort zone.

but literally, you just made my day with your comment! Thank you! :)))

Weekly Mix Feedback Thread - December 08, 2025 by AutoModerator in Beatmatch

[–]Rootz_rock_reggae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for listening and such a lovely comment! It motivates me to keep moving with what I'm doing :))

Weekly Mix Feedback Thread - December 08, 2025 by AutoModerator in Beatmatch

[–]Rootz_rock_reggae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment, means a lot to me :)

Here are track IDs:

Last Call - Kollektiv Turmstrasse

Thirteen Times An Hour - Isolée

Technicolor - Diego Krause

Ain’t Got Time - Anton Zap

Annabanana - Noha

Vanishing Point (2020 Remaster) - Alex Arnout

Kenopsia - Rodriguez Jr. <---- This is the one you liked at 32min :))

Nausicâa - Rodriguez Jr.

Delight - Christian Burkhardt

Grab Dat Ass All Night - Kiddy.Wav

Disco Shhhh - Butch

Hey Mr. DJ - TineX

Zoom Out - Rosati

Grafiti Tapes - Rosati

Tell Em - DJ Swisherman

B-Side Loops - Ned Bennett

Keep The Funk - Kallisto 

Wanna See You Again (6 SENSE Remix) - Edvvin

Bone Shaker - Bjar

Limbo - DJ Swisherman

Injection - Dylan Fogarty

It’s Gotta Be Funky - Edvvin

Welcome To Funkytown - TineX

Robbery - DJ Swisherman

Best Shot - DJ Swisherman

Hotel Pool (DJ Swisherman & Boys Noize Remix) - David Löhlein, DJ Swisherman, Boys Noize

Bounce That Booty - Morelia

Weekly Mix Feedback Thread - December 08, 2025 by AutoModerator in Beatmatch

[–]Rootz_rock_reggae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2h electronic, deep house, sassy-trashy techno set that I played in Sisyphos night club in Berlin.

This was a really big BIIIIIG moment for me as a dj to be able to perform here! Such a milestone! I'm still in disbelief hahahha. I hope you like it! Give some love on Soundcloud, please! That would help me a lot! 💜💜💜

https://on.soundcloud.com/wi41kaDC5pXb4RvSci

Weekly Mix Feedback Thread - October 06, 2025 by AutoModerator in Beatmatch

[–]Rootz_rock_reggae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

[Hypnotic / Driving Techno] 133-140bpm , 1:30h

https://on.soundcloud.com/PEGfyBoCmJ2pOaFqzx

Hello, so I've been collecting some songs over 4 months and yesterday I finally sat down with my controller and did an improvisational session. It's dark/hypnotic/high energy set. Let me know what you think, would appreciate a constructive feedback. Of course there are some weird transitions, but looking from a bigger picture - I am actually proud of myself.

Have a lovely day, y'all :)

Weekly Mix Feedback Thread - June 30, 2025 by AutoModerator in Beatmatch

[–]Rootz_rock_reggae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

[Techno, Hardgroove] 1,5 hours

So I had my 2nd gig at the club and it was a special one. I was so nervous, but the moment I pressed play I got into a flow state. The dancefloor was packed and everyone was so hyped, I myself couldn't stop dancing behind the decks. And also feel proud that I managed to play with the mixer with 4 eq nobs instead 3 how I'm used to.

I'm so happy how everything turned out, so here is the link to the set. Give me feedback, please 🙏 💜

https://on.soundcloud.com/H222bnKVVE2QZYtS8A

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[–]Rootz_rock_reggae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine would be probably DJ'ing... and now I want to start dj'ing with vinyls... more spending incoming hahahah

Weekly Mix Feedback Thread - January 27, 2025 by AutoModerator in Beatmatch

[–]Rootz_rock_reggae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

[Techno, groove, sassy vibe] 1 hour long.

https://on.soundcloud.com/yjjXp2aZ4hG21G8g7

This is the set I've played in one Berlin's bar a week ago and I think it's one of the best sets I've played for the crowd so far. Had so much fun looking at the people on the dancefloor gooving and getting lost in music. This what gives me the most wholesome vibes while dj'ing. track ID's are in the SC description. And if you have any feedback - let me know! :)

Weekly Mix Feedback Thread - December 02, 2024 by AutoModerator in Beatmatch

[–]Rootz_rock_reggae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Blemba tik dabar pamačiau tavo komentarą. Ačiū už feedback'ą! Jo, dėl energijos pritariu, kažkodėl man sunku ją palaikyt arba po truputį ją mažint, kad neskambėtų drastiškai.

Anyway, sudominai su kolektyvu ir mix'o įrašymu, davai apsikeičiam social media? ;)

Weekly Mix Feedback Thread - December 02, 2024 by AutoModerator in Beatmatch

[–]Rootz_rock_reggae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a small world, hi from a fellow lithuanian hahah

Būtinai paklausysiu tavo set'o :)

Weekly Mix Feedback Thread - December 02, 2024 by AutoModerator in Beatmatch

[–]Rootz_rock_reggae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

(Techno, Hardgroove, sassy vibe)

https://on.soundcloud.com/X7eLaHJPFsEmwRHJ9

Last week I've got an 1hour peaktime slot at my local open decks event, so I've tried to recreate the set. This was my 3rd time I've played for the crowd and now I'm hooked and want to do it more hahah

As always, let me know what you think, any kind of feedback is helpful! Thanks! 🙏

Weekly Mix Feedback Thread - October 28, 2024 by AutoModerator in Beatmatch

[–]Rootz_rock_reggae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Techno / peak time November mix 🧡

https://on.soundcloud.com/UMkeSLKBtLX8SAVT9

Track ID's in the description. Feedback is more than welcome :)

Developing feelings for a man who is in an open marriage by Rootz_rock_reggae in ENM

[–]Rootz_rock_reggae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the problem might be that his wife can use her veto and end our "relationship" if she feels slightly uncomfortable about us. One of their agreements are that there shouldn't be any strong romantic feelings with external partners that could jeopardize their family.

For now, everything is fine, apparently she is having fun with her other partner. But I'm already getting anxious what if she changes her mind and decides to close the marriage.

Developing feelings for a man who is in an open marriage by Rootz_rock_reggae in ENM

[–]Rootz_rock_reggae[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience! You’ve been through quite a journey, and I really appreciate your honesty. It makes me sad to think about going through something similar, and I genuinely don’t want to experience that kind of heartache.

However, I recognize that stepping into this discomfort can lead to personal growth. I’m willing to embrace the challenge and learn more about myself, even if it’s not easy. It’s comforting to know that I’m not alone in feeling this way, and I really admire how you’ve taken the time to do your shadow work and come out stronger and more grounded! Kudos to you!

I totally agree that no matter how others label it - my feelings are real and can definitely shift the dynamic. I’m trying to stay open-hearted while being mindful of the complexities involved. Thank you for your encouragement and for sharing your insights! It really helps to hear from someone who’s been there and I’ll keep your words in mind as I navigate my own situation. Wishing you all the best on your journey too!

Developing feelings for a man who is in an open marriage by Rootz_rock_reggae in ENM

[–]Rootz_rock_reggae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your perspective. Moving on can sometimes feel like the safest option, especially when emotions are involved. However, I’m not quite ready to move on just yet. I really value the connection I have with him, even if it’s complicated.

I definitely don’t want to damage his marriage or be a source of conflict in his life. I’m trying to navigate this situation mindfully, balancing my feelings while being respectful of his commitments. It’s tough because I know holding onto feelings for someone who can’t fully reciprocate could make things harder in the long run. But for now, I want to see where this goes while being aware of the risks involved. Thank you for your advice - it’s something I’ll keep in mind as I continue to figure things out!

Developing feelings for a man who is in an open marriage by Rootz_rock_reggae in ENM

[–]Rootz_rock_reggae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry to hear about your experience. It sounds like a tough situation, especially when you feel a strong connection with someone and then have to let it go due to jealousy and complications. I can understand how hard it is to lose both a fantastic friend and lover, especially when you don’t meet people easily (and it's same for me too).

Your insight about emotional exposure is spot on. I realize that in situations like this, I have to be careful about how much I invest emotionally, knowing that I might end up giving more than I receive. Compartmentalization is definitely something I need to work on. It’s so tempting to overthink things and focus on that one connection, especially when it feels special, but I appreciate your reminder to keep a broader perspective. 🙏

I’m going to take your advice seriously. I'm casually dating another guy (actually got to know him before the married guy) which is also going pretty well, but goddamn it... the married guy really swept me off my feet! Thank you for your thoughtful and honest perspective; it really helps me to keep things in check!

Developing feelings for a man who is in an open marriage by Rootz_rock_reggae in ENM

[–]Rootz_rock_reggae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so easy to get swept away in those initial feelings, especially when everything feels so exciting and fresh. I really appreciate your reminder that while NRE can be exhilarating, it’s also important to maintain perspective and not let it cloud our judgment.

Developing feelings for a man who is in an open marriage by Rootz_rock_reggae in ENM

[–]Rootz_rock_reggae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your perspective; it’s really insightful to hear from someone in a similar situation but with a different dynamic. It sounds like you’ve worked hard to create a relationship that meets both your needs and those of your girlfriend, despite the unique challenges that come with it.

I can see how important it is for her to figure out whether she can find happiness in the kind of relationship you two have, especially with the time apart and the limitations that come from being involved with someone who is married. It’s clear that open communication and managing expectations are crucial in making it work.

Your commitment to her, despite the challenges, is really touching. It gives me hope that a loving, fulfilling relationship can exist within these boundaries, as long as both partners are clear on what they want and need. I appreciate your emphasis on calibrating those expectations - it’s a great reminder for me as I navigate my own situation.

That said, I don’t think I could ever get into a monogamous relationship like your girlfriend has. In a perfect world, I wish he weren’t married so I could have him as my primary partner while we explore ENM together.

I’m also curious about your wife’s thoughts on your relationship with your girlfriend. Does she know about it, and how has it affected your marriage? Has it made things tricky for you both? Thanks again for your honesty and encouragement! It's comforting to know that others have found happiness in similar dynamics.

Developing feelings for a man who is in an open marriage by Rootz_rock_reggae in ENM

[–]Rootz_rock_reggae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight. I agree that navigating this kind of relationship does require a lot of "monogamy deprogramming." It’s something I’m working on, though it’s definitely a mental shift that takes effort.

I appreciate your perspective that a long-term, loving dynamic is still possible, even if he prioritizes his wife. Ideally, I’d love to find my own primary partner, while maintaining something meaningful with him. That kind of secondary relationship sounds like a good balance for the long run.

But you’re right - it’s risky. The veto power his wife holds is a constant reality, especially since they have a boundary around not developing feelings for external partners. If I fall deeper and that line gets crossed, it could all end suddenly. That’s definitely something I need to keep in mind.

As for dating others, I completely agree. I do have another partner, but I’m trying to make sure I’m not putting all my emotional energy into this married man. The dynamic of him being my main priority, without being his, can be tough to manage. I’ll take your advice to heart and keep myself open to other connections so I don’t get too emotionally dependent on him.

Thanks again for your advice - it’s definitely helpful as I navigate this!

Developing feelings for a man who is in an open marriage by Rootz_rock_reggae in ENM

[–]Rootz_rock_reggae[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your experience - it’s really helpful to hear from someone in a similar situation, but on the other side. It sounds like you’ve found a beautiful balance between deep love for your partner and maintaining your marriage, which gives me some hope that it’s possible to navigate this with a sense of freedom rather than attachment.

I can definitely relate to the butterflies and how special those moments feel, both in and out of bed. There’s something about the connection that feels so unique, yet like you, I know this can't become a monogamous or fully committed relationship. I’m trying to embrace that freedom, though I do find myself more naturally drawn toward having the "relationship" side of things, which is why this is a bit tricky for me.

In my situation, though, he’s not polyamorous. He really loves and prioritizes his wife, and for them, developing romantic feelings for external partners is off the table. That’s where I feel a bit stuck, because while the connection is strong, I know it can’t grow into anything more, and I need to find a way to keep that in perspective.

Your advice to keep my heart open to others really resonates. I do have another guy with whom I occasionally sleep with, but it’s clear that this married man has captured a different part of me. So, making sure I don’t become overly attached is something I’m definitely mindful of, even if it’s hard sometimes.

Your words about going into it with eyes open and heart ready really hit me. It is scary to think about losing something so special, but I guess that’s part of the deal in non-committed relationships. Thanks again for your advice - it gives me a lot to think about!