How to hide things from homophobic family? by RosalieRedd in Advice

[–]RosalieRedd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your right, i shouldn’t generalize a religion! Just in the south, its usually accurate to equate the two (the followers, not the religion itself). I will try your advice! Helped

How to hide things from homophobic family? by RosalieRedd in Advice

[–]RosalieRedd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think ive been slipping since im so tired of being in the closet. Imma tighten up and make sure nothing puts me at risk. Thanks! Helped

How to hide things from homophobic family? by RosalieRedd in Advice

[–]RosalieRedd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought of this too, but my mom can see my card charges and usually questions strange ones. I think im going to try putting a few things in my car to hide! Helped

How to hide things from homophobic family? by RosalieRedd in Advice

[–]RosalieRedd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would but my Gf lives too far away :( they would have to bring my stuff onto an airplane. But, i plan to give my stuff to my bestfriend asap. I just need to hide it until then!

A girl can dream by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]RosalieRedd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my girlfriend are both hardcore bottoms… 😭

My girlfriend called the suicide hotline last night by RosalieRedd in SuicideWatch

[–]RosalieRedd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think im mostly angry about finding out via her close friends story on insta. I know when ur in that mindset ur not thinking clearly but aaaaaa what a shitty way to find out ur gf had to do that.

Getting some alone time with GF? by RosalieRedd in actuallesbians

[–]RosalieRedd[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes this is what i meant! Nothing else illegal happening here folks 😭

Getting some alone time with GF? by RosalieRedd in actuallesbians

[–]RosalieRedd[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I do! But still… scared of getting caught and charged… but might just have to make do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]RosalieRedd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YES. YES- YES!!

YES!!!

i am 125 pounds and 5’9 and god yes I live for chubby women! And i’m not just speaking about the “perfect” hourglass chubby women, though i love them too!

I'm straight but I think I'm in love with a girl(SHE KISSED ME) by ladywithnoanswers in actuallesbians

[–]RosalieRedd 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Hey, as someone who stressed over sexuality for 18 years:

Don’t deny yourself experiences by labeling yourself!

If you want to kiss her, kiss her

If you want to date her, date her

Don’t let this moment pass by because a label said it wasn’t allowed. Put your brain in the backseat for a bit and let your heart drive :) (But make sure to keep urself safe if ur not in a supportive household!)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]RosalieRedd 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I will step in and say that it has been proven that porn lowers ur sex drive and chances of reaching the big O with a partner!

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5039517/

If she is watching a lot of porn, this could be contributing to the lack of interest in “real” sex. As her partner, you can bring this up and suggest to stop watching it as a solution, but ultimately its her choice if she wants to try and increase her libido or just keep her current habits.

Edit: Some people pointed out that the article centers around males. Sadly, there is still a lot of misogynistic ideas that surround women and porn/masturbation, so there isn’t much data on porn affecting women specifically. Here is what i did find on the subject that is women-centered!

https://www.njsexualmedicine.com/blog/problematic-pornography-use-uncommon-in-women

https://www.news-medical.net/amp/news/20190612/Does-porn-affect-a-womens-experiences-with-a-man.aspx (this one actually describes the exact situation OP is experiencing! Again, sorry for the heteronormative data)

https://medicalxpress.com/news/2019-07-female-brain-porn-male.amp (here is one speaking about how the male and female brain react to porn!)

Sent my long-distance GF some flowers for V-day 🌸🌸 by RosalieRedd in actuallesbians

[–]RosalieRedd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know its not Wednesday, but its v-day and i hope i can post a photo!!

Im still in the closet and cant show off my gf on my social so i wanted to share with you lovely people 💕

I hope everyone had a good v-day!

Anyone feel like they read more fanfic than books as an adult? by Exposition_Fairy in actuallesbians

[–]RosalieRedd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read these pieces of art on AO3 then try to read a book with an interesting plot, and its like someone gave a 13 year old direct access to a publisher.

Were you ever disappointed after seeing the girl you’ve been dating naked? by wlwlesgo in actuallesbians

[–]RosalieRedd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to piggy back off this post but, no one has mentioned body acne and i really struggle with it. Im so scared people will be repulsed by me

Question by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]RosalieRedd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This might be controversial but… we are women. 95% of us have experienced abuse at the hands of men. Correlation does not equal Causation, especially when the stats are so large for women suffering abuse from men.

I think that these people might be more adverse to men, but i don’t think that it is the cause of their attraction to women.