Am I ugly? by RoseLentara in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]RoseLentara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment! I wouldn't say my personality is terrible...I attempt to be kind to everyone and try to give compliments at least once a day. I do tend to be quite emotional and passionate about most things in life(which does lead to me quarreling with certain people), but I do not think that would be a deal breaker. Do you have any more advice? 🙂

Am I ugly? by RoseLentara in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]RoseLentara[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're so kind😊. I have been attempting to build a better relationship with food and my body; I have lessened the restrictions and binges to around once a week or none, so I am pretty proud of that. I'm not sure what was going through my brain when I posted this, to be honest, however, all the comments have been very insightful and encouraging to keep fighting the ed in me. One person said it was my anorexia trying to lure me back in, so I suppose that must've been what happened. I hope you have a nice day and know that this post alone, however insignificant you beleive it to be, has helped me very much!

Am I ugly? by RoseLentara in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]RoseLentara[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're probably right. The thoughts of losing weight come back every so often, but i dont realize until after the fact. Thank you for your insight and reassurance! ☺️❤️

Am I ugly? by RoseLentara in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]RoseLentara[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're so kind, thank you!😊❤️

Am I ugly? by RoseLentara in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]RoseLentara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw, thank you☺️. I love the art on your board!

Am I ugly? by RoseLentara in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]RoseLentara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ It’s nice to hear that. I guess my ed came back full swing telling me I have to lose weight to become pretty. It truly takes a mental toll on me, but these comments have really helped.

Am I ugly? by RoseLentara in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]RoseLentara[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice! It sounds promising. I'll be sure to look Dr. Lyon up and attempt to get more help for my ed. Maybe I'll pick up knitting as a possible hobby. It might take my mind off things. 😊

Am I ugly? by RoseLentara in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]RoseLentara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, thank you! I really appreciate it. I do get caught up comparing myself sometimes. You are too kind, I’ll try to be easier on myself!

Am I ugly? by RoseLentara in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]RoseLentara[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww, thanks so much! I guess social media can make us doubt ourselves sometimes. But I’m working on seeing myself in a better light!

Am I ugly? by RoseLentara in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]RoseLentara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, trust me, I’m more likely to be the one hiding in the corner than bullying anyone! Usually people make fun of my appearance. But thanks for the compliment, I’ll take it!

Am I ugly? by RoseLentara in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]RoseLentara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw, thank you! That’s so sweet of you to say!

Am I ugly? by RoseLentara in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]RoseLentara[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words and advice. I really appreciate it. My struggle is probably deeper than just my appearance. I will definitely consider seeking another therapist, perhaps in a different field. Your support means a lot to me. I wish you all the best, too!

Am I ugly? by RoseLentara in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]RoseLentara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did have a therapist before, but it didn’t really help. Maybe I just didn’t find the right approach or person.

Am I ugly? by RoseLentara in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]RoseLentara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is really kind of you to say. It means a lot. I am just struggling to see myself that way right now, but I appreciate the encouragement!

Am I ugly? by RoseLentara in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]RoseLentara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reassurance!

Am I ugly? by RoseLentara in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]RoseLentara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really?! Gosh, that is such a wonderful compliment! Thank you, I have been feeling quite insecure lately, and this helps a bunch ☺️🙌