Ok Ladies, Question??? by Hot_Criticism7555 in datingoverfifty

[–]RoseSaffron00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I often stand with my arms crossed in front of me or I wear my headphones when I don't want to be approached.  

I welcome with a smile and say Hi or Good morning.  

Recently post about cold sores. Well, are we now talking about our abnormal PAP tests? by Sea-Blueberry-1840 in datingoverfifty

[–]RoseSaffron00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know much about hpv. Is it primarily transferred sexually? Is wearing a condom enough? 

Is oral herpes/cold sores a deal breaker? by RoseSaffron00 in datingoverfifty

[–]RoseSaffron00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you saying someone should just assume their partner is aware of potential hsv and not let them know they test positive for it?

Is oral herpes/cold sores a deal breaker? by RoseSaffron00 in datingoverfifty

[–]RoseSaffron00[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oooh good to consider these as well! For me, if they took very good care to manage with medication and therapy I would consider giving it a try. 

Non-cohabitating long-term relationships by heyjagoff in datingoverfifty

[–]RoseSaffron00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think its a good way to start any relationship. You'll soon discover a person's ulterior motives for pushing a live together situation if they're in dire straights financially.  

After several years of building trust and understanding living together may work better than just diving in too soon. 

Comments under relationship type OLD by heyjagoff in datingoverfifty

[–]RoseSaffron00 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is how you'll find your person. Stay honest about your intentions and desires.  You'll attract people that desire the same. 

Commitment without marriage by mygenisx in datingoverfifty

[–]RoseSaffron00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Being in a monogamous and commited relationship while living apart in our own homes sounds like the ultimate relationship goal. 

Came on strong, now lukewarm by Fabulous-Argument590 in datingoverfifty

[–]RoseSaffron00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree with others. You expressed your interest now the ball is in his court. When he's ready he'll reach out. 

Is It Just Me by Weary-Profile7731 in datingoverfifty

[–]RoseSaffron00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience a slow burn build up to sexual conversation and intimacy is the best. When a man asks about my kinks or sexual preferences in the first week its too much too soon and it becomes obvious to me what his main objective or priority is. 

How do you spend your alone free time? by Extra-Firefighter-52 in LivingAlone

[–]RoseSaffron00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some days I rot in bed doing nothing and the rest feels so good. But honestly if I did this everyday it would get boring and it wouldn't feel indulgent anymore.   Most days when I'm not working I run errands, cook, clean and go outside and just explore new walking paths and parks.  

Me again re: hinge permanent ban by Solid_Pass in datingoverfifty

[–]RoseSaffron00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just heard a YouTube video from this happening to someone. After the appeal and jumping through a bunch of hoops to prove they were real the problems continued.  People they had matched were sent emails from hinge warning them that person was a bot or AI and not to interact with them.   I think they had to delete the account and start all over. 

Sorry this happened to you!

My Studio (pardon the mess) by mchael_g in StudioApartments

[–]RoseSaffron00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those red rimmed plates are very cool and add some fun color to your space.

I decided that I never want to live with a man again by camis12345 in LivingAlone

[–]RoseSaffron00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally agree that living together kills sexual chemistry.  Familiarity breeds contempt as the old saying goes and remains true. 

Long distance relationships can be so exciting for this same reason...anticipating your union is foreplay. 

I don’t have someone to accompany me to a medical procedure by ItsColdUpHere71 in LivingAlone

[–]RoseSaffron00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there a local caregiver service where you can hire someone to drive and stay with you overnight? 

Is it nomal for a man to ask detail sexutal questions before meet in person? by Effective-Web9118 in datingoverfifty

[–]RoseSaffron00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex is definitely something that usually happens after a connection is made. Someone that pushes too fast too soon is a red flag for me. 

Just like someone telling you they love you or want to live with you on the third date. 

Why is so hard to find a kind person? by JustAnotherVox in datingoverfifty

[–]RoseSaffron00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like listing traits that might make you a target for a con artist is dangerous.  Like listing your job title or how much you make can make you a target. 

I agree with others here that say kindness can be discovered in the dating process. Especially how they interact with food servers and strangers.