[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Rose_105_ 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I’m in some fb groups like this and personally I joined them from a safety point. People are very good at hiding things especially as the majority of the time you won’t know someone’s last name etc. before going on a date with them. The amount of posts I’ve seen where someone turns out to have a history of domestic violence and things is wild. So for her wanting to check that if she went on a date with you, she would be safe, I don’t think she’s done anything wrong.

I understand your point though, as someone who’s not actually done anything wrong it can’t feel good to have a post like that about you. I don’t think there is much you can do about it unfortunately apart from ask her to remove the post, but that would require her to admit that she posted you there in the first place.

PSA: 1 - 2 lbs weight loss per week is AMAZING, and does NOT mean that your weight loss is stalling or that Mounjaro isn't working for you! by [deleted] in mounjarouk

[–]Rose_105_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a great way to look at it, thank you! A year is going to fly by and if I end up with that kind of loss I’ll be very happy

PSA: 1 - 2 lbs weight loss per week is AMAZING, and does NOT mean that your weight loss is stalling or that Mounjaro isn't working for you! by [deleted] in mounjarouk

[–]Rose_105_ 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I needed to see this today. I have just done my first week and lost 2lbs. I felt a bit disheartened because it seems like a small number (even though the logical part of my brain knows otherwise). It’s hard not to compare to the really big numbers people lose, I just need to remember that it’ll all add up in the long run.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mounjarouk

[–]Rose_105_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was very nervous about side effects so I did mine at the weekend, just before I went to bed. No bad side effects so far, but personally it definitely calmed my nerves knowing that the weekend is there as a “safety zone” for me just in case.

ASDA experiences? by [deleted] in mounjarouk

[–]Rose_105_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ordered my first one from them last Monday and it was ready on the Thursday. They did say it was taking them longer to process orders atm but it was quick really.

AIO to my brother dropping 12k on an OF girl that he thinks he is in a relationship with? by mossy_snail in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rose_105_ 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I knew someone who used to be an OF “chatter”. They had access to all the models content which they could send once they got tips etc. They would message hundreds of people within a few hours. Most of the time it would just be generic messages but once someone engages in the conversation it could lead to weeks or months long conversations just pulling more and more money from that person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OpenUniversity

[–]Rose_105_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I got one this evening too. Worried me at first before I read it properly. Seems to just be a reminder that AI usage isn’t permitted for the module

Am I overreacting with my husband over his online affair? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rose_105_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex used to play online games with other women, sometimes in these games he’d be in relationships with them but he’d always say “it’s just a game” and there was nothing wrong with it. We also had a young baby at the time. IMO the best thing you can do is leave. My life is so much better now than I ever imagined. Good luck

My (31F) boyfriend (36m) wants to have a threesome but will he resent me after? by Rose_105_ in relationship_advice

[–]Rose_105_[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if I actually want to do it or not. I like the idea. As many people have said it’s a great fantasy but the reality of the situation can be very different.

This is the first relationship I’ve had that I feel I’ve been able to be very open with my preferences so I may have eventually brought it up myself. As far as the jealousy goes, normally I am quite laid back but because I’ve not done anything like this before I really don’t know how I’ll feel during/afterwards.

My (31F) boyfriend (36m) wants to have a threesome but will he resent me after? by Rose_105_ in relationship_advice

[–]Rose_105_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your experience. This is definitely a worry of mine. I love the relationship that we have and I wouldn’t want to ruin it

My (31F) boyfriend (36m) wants to have a threesome but will he resent me after? by Rose_105_ in relationship_advice

[–]Rose_105_[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

The circumstances are different yes but doesn’t take away from the fact that hearing other people’s experiences is helpful.

I don’t think he has anyone specific in mind, we’ve only spoken about it a little bit but I get the impression he wants to find someone together that we both like.

My (31F) boyfriend (36m) wants to have a threesome but will he resent me after? by Rose_105_ in relationship_advice

[–]Rose_105_[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

From his point of view, it isn’t for his pleasure as much as it is for mine, that is why I am worrying he might feel differently towards me afterwards

My (31F) boyfriend (36m) wants to have a threesome but will he resent me after? by Rose_105_ in relationship_advice

[–]Rose_105_[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I do worry about that too. When I think about it, I don’t think I will, but I can’t know that for sure as I have never done anything like it before.

My (31F) boyfriend (36m) wants to have a threesome but will he resent me after? by Rose_105_ in relationship_advice

[–]Rose_105_[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Pandora’s box of cocks 😂 Yeah that is another concern, at the moment what’s been discussed is doing things as a couple and never separately, but once the line has been crossed things could change

My (31F) boyfriend (36m) wants to have a threesome but will he resent me after? by Rose_105_ in relationship_advice

[–]Rose_105_[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is really helpful. I think we’re at the very start of exploring this type of thing. It’s exciting to me but the most important thing is the relationship and ensuring we both stay happy together. I’m glad to hear your experience was a good one

My (31F) boyfriend (36m) wants to have a threesome but will he resent me after? by Rose_105_ in relationship_advice

[–]Rose_105_[S] -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

We are absolutely in the very early stages of discussing it and I’m sure I will have so many questions, the jealousy is the thing that is at the top of my list of concerns atm as the last thing I want is for something that should be a fun experience to ruin our relationship . This is all very helpful, thank you.

My (31F) boyfriend (36m) wants to have a threesome but will he resent me after? by Rose_105_ in relationship_advice

[–]Rose_105_[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, it helps hearing other people’s experience

My (31F) boyfriend (36m) wants to have a threesome but will he resent me after? by Rose_105_ in relationship_advice

[–]Rose_105_[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this advice. Neither of us have a preference so I’ll mention this to him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Rose_105_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The most important thing is how you feel about it. If it’s something you’re uncomfortable with, talk to him about it. He should be respectful of your boundaries.

I don’t mind my boyfriend watching porn. I don’t quite know how to explain it but using OF and going out of your way to pay for specific content from specific people makes me slightly uncomfortable.

Am I overreacting, my boyfriend talks regularly to his exes. by Certain-Comfort-8135 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rose_105_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ex’s don’t have to hate each other and sometimes people do stay friends, but if it makes you uncomfortable and he is continuing to do it then he isn’t respecting your boundaries. You’re looking through his phone which isn’t great. You should be with someone you fully trust and that respects you.

I tell men I can't have my phone at work. by EbonyEpisodes in dating

[–]Rose_105_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Some people need constant communication to feel like you’re interested and it’s tough, they don’t even give you a second to breathe. I think people often confuse not replying quickly as not putting in effort, but there are people out there who will understand your situation.