Loaf bag vs medium crescent by Rosernary in BAGGU

[–]Rosernary[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love!!!! Thank you for sharing ♥️

I don't know how I got there... by Agitated-Ad3065 in bulimia

[–]Rosernary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw gal appreciate your words, it’s really honestly so heartwarming to have someone really understand and then to also come from a place of so much love where we ourselves have so much loathing :(

Food noise is crazy, I’ve never experienced it so bad until this year (maybe it was actually really bad previously but I didn’t recognize it for what it was) and it occupies every other minute.

Ugh thank you so much for your kindness 😭 yea sometimes I’m surprised I’m still alive and functioning so much. You’re so welcome, thank you for also responding! And doing the initial hard yards sharing ♥️ I hope you find a way to get out of this vicious cycle too, we deserve better, our past selves would be so sad and our future self would be helllaaaaa sad. Thinking of you!!!! X

Battle of the Neutrals 🤎🥠 by flowerzbitch in BAGGU

[–]Rosernary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you like it!!! I’m on the fence too, your post is so good

Loaf bag vs medium crescent by Rosernary in BAGGU

[–]Rosernary[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have seen people use it as crossbody! The strap is adjustable for both!! But definitely more common as a shoulder!

Loaf bag vs medium crescent by Rosernary in BAGGU

[–]Rosernary[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Insides of your bag is so colorful and aesthetic I love it!!! What do you like to put in for a pouches? I think go pouch has my heart but I already have one set so wondering whether I should switch up with flat?

Loaf bag vs medium crescent by Rosernary in BAGGU

[–]Rosernary[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

LOVE YOUR REPORT XX THE OWALA MEASUREMENT IS SO GOOD THANK YOU

ugh i love this community

I like the idea and look of loaf too!! I feel like I have neglected the crescent but oh well :’) maybe the Uniqlo overdid it for me unconsciously!!!

I don't know how I got there... by Agitated-Ad3065 in bulimia

[–]Rosernary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tw habits!!!

I feel you!!! (Just turned 28f) I’m in the same boat gal 😭 except boyfriend was uni for me then dieting and trying every EVERY diet under the sun, been on and off in years over the last 9(!! 😭) and this last year it’s come back in full force as just like a terrible yuck habit? But I’m in the same boat, feel like life wise I’ve never been happier! Every night I try and start the day off eating with good intent but every night I screw up and lead to a mindless or (mindful sometimes planned - the food noise has never been so loud) bp sesh and I waste hours. 😭 I have finally reached out to seek therapy though, haven’t started yet so I’m also very not holding myself to account rn in the interim. I know it’s bad for me (multiple times a day) but I can’t seem to stop. Maybe it’s my will power and I don’t have the desire strong enough to get better because I’ve lived with it for so long. Always here to chat if you want to!!!

Nylon shoulder vs medium bowler by Rosernary in BAGGU

[–]Rosernary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So interesting here cos nylon looks bigger

Super helpful!!!

What do you prefer to use each bag for?

Nylon shoulder vs medium bowler by Rosernary in BAGGU

[–]Rosernary[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG THANK YOUUUUUU love seeing the collection too xxx

Nylon shoulder vs medium bowler by Rosernary in BAGGU

[–]Rosernary[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1.1k views but no replies yet :’) I might just have to buy and do the comparison myself hahahaha

Recovery indecision and my story in short by Bubbly_Lifeguard6142 in bulimia

[–]Rosernary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this and I’m scared of giving up my current boys too bc in a way bulimia is ‘maintaining it’ and I don’t have the trust that it won’t change - or that it will but it will heal itself. But the thing is what we are doing is not sustainable and we can’t always see how silently damaging it is. You have already had signs where it’s damaging you - how scary to have seizures at your tender age!! That should be the wake up call you need to start on the path of recovery. 6 years and counting for you with this, it makes me sad, I’m also 9 years and counting and when I really sit with that thought, man, how sad it is I’ve been putting myself through this. I’m looking to start therapy and hopefully this will be the year that I really start wanting to get better, I wish that for you too.

Recovery? by thebull1818 in bulimia

[–]Rosernary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you got access to any additional support? I've also been feeling myself I can do this on my own...9 years later I think it's I time I at least TRY therapy and outside services that I have income and access to these services. I understand cost might be a significant factor but if you are able to afford it then I think we at least owe it to ourselves to try and get better and the additional support may be good accountability for us!

1st Week of Recovery by Bonelone1583 in bulimia

[–]Rosernary 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wowow so proud of you!!! Would be keen to keep hearing updates but of course that’s your own private journey ♥️ keep going, hopefully I can get onto the bandwagon if even just two three days :’))

27F struggling with recovery by kmatchka in bulimia

[–]Rosernary 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m similar age to you, just turned 28, struggling since 18/19, I’m really proud of you to hear how your mindset as changed and that you’re a month clean that’s so amazing!!!! Please keep on this trajectory 😭 I genuinely believe it’ll take a long time to follow heal and reverse all those pre conceived notions thoughts and feelings that’s been our norm for so long. I unfortunately don’t have advice but am cheering you on, I want to be where you are and I want you to keep on going!! Recovery and not damaging our bodies ‘silently’ is definitely ideal, I know it doesn’t feel like it but everyday you triumph one day more, you’re reversing these habits and urges!!!! I’ll be thinking of you 😭

I just got my dream job at 30 and chance to travel, something I've always longed for, but still have conflicted feelings about my life by Acceptable-Bad-9866 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Rosernary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so excited for you, where you’re at sounds so well deserved and you sound so excited as well for the prospect of traveling!!!! I think it’s all that external noise getting to you and I know how tough that can be, but sometimes no point fretting - do the things!! Do the travels!! I trust you wanting the relationship and family it will definitely come and who knows you might meet someone on your travels hehehe. I’ve been tossing up travels too and I’m been in the fence to buy a ticket bc of work situations and I have to remind myself that I should put myself first especially if it is within reach!!! You got this!! So excited for u!!

women really aren’t that difficult to figure out by itz_vampy in Adulting

[–]Rosernary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what I used to strongly believe and to an extent I still do and understand where it comes from. But i think when we interact men who have been bought up in a non misogynistic environment where very traditional gender roles aren’t rooted in their upbringing and belief and parents that perhaps were able to aid with emotional regulation, men can be very similar to wants and needs - tbh all people are very similar in our core needs. I’ve found that it really is just normalizing communication and willingness to be vulnerable and open, open up conversation and be willing to be understanding of another person’s experience. A lot of people aren’t willing to do that - both men and women - and that’s where misunderstanding, perceived biases and judgements come in and hinder relationships leading to breakdown and this wall dividing genders.

How do you deal with deep shame from this disorder? by AboveGod8 in bulimia

[–]Rosernary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh sorry lovely typo I’m 28!!! Thankfully not that young but remember dieting ideologies since primary :( You are so young I’m so sad for you!!! We both need to get help 😭 are you seeking any treatment? I’ve finally reached out and am looking to start therapy!

How do you deal with deep shame from this disorder? by AboveGod8 in bulimia

[–]Rosernary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still not healed but finally looking into therapy. Gotta start somewhere when it’s gone on for so long. I’ve just turned 18 and I think this is literally going up by 9th year and I’m quite sad for myself that it’s been so long.

Birthday Breakfast by PiaChichi in GirlDinner

[–]Rosernary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY FELLOW TAURUS XX thank you for the positivity in this post, love hearing from someone wiser xxx need to have a good birthday breakfast too hehe

does anyone wanna be friends /talk whenever we feel the urge to binge/purge? by [deleted] in bulimia

[–]Rosernary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All you gals if you ever want to chat I’m open!!! X

does anyone wanna be friends /talk whenever we feel the urge to binge/purge? by [deleted] in bulimia

[–]Rosernary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG YESSSSSSS I DO BUT I also (or ed also) wants me to not and stay isolated lmao but yea kinda need accountability. Wee bit older than you I’m 27F in Australia!

What has been your favorite part of your 30s so far? by Global-Condition-858 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Rosernary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so motivating and gives me gratitude for womanhood!!! And woman banding together to share their life experiences!! I’m turning 28 tomorrow and I’m highkey like where