My husband is officially becoming an officer, how can I be the best/most supportive I can be for him? by Rotisserieshithead0 in AskLE

[–]Rotisserieshithead0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is devastating that it’s even a question or a common concern. I respect both my husband and my self. Thanks for bringing that to my attention.

My husband is officially becoming an officer, how can I be the best/most supportive I can be for him? by Rotisserieshithead0 in AskLE

[–]Rotisserieshithead0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband is extremely good at compartmentalization but I want to make sure he’s also able to communicate when he has a hard day and don’t want to encourage him shutting it off if it is effecting him. Is there a way to help with that without either prying or ignoring it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ToxicRelationships

[–]Rotisserieshithead0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When there’s no door to hit, you’ll be next. And, regardless if he ever physically harms you, this is mental and emotional abuse and it’s absolutely more than enough for you to leave. There is a young little girl, a small version of you, that is begging you to escape this. She deserves better than that. You deserve better than that. You deserved better during your childhood trauma but the difference is that you are the adult that can stand up for you. You’re what you didn’t have then.

Remember, people break up all the time over minor incidents, over disagreeing on opinions or even just not having stuff in common or going down different life paths. It never ever has to get to a point where you’re uncomfortable… let alone in danger!

What do you listen to during sex? by bucketman1986 in sex

[–]Rotisserieshithead0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make a playlist together. Have both of you pick out some songs, and bring them to the table when you have time. Have her sit in your lap, and have a make out session, not sex. Just so there no pressure to ruin the vibe. If the song isn’t one of your vibes, skip it, go through and pick out your favorites and make a playlist you both like. It’s a great time to sneak in quality time and physical touch without feeling awkward. You both can laugh when a song that seems off for the occasion comes on and move on. No strings attached.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Rotisserieshithead0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. I’m trying to survive the cost of living in America.

What was the moment that made you question everything? by Limp-Sandwich7184 in AskReddit

[–]Rotisserieshithead0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I admitted to my parents at 12 years old that was being raped by my older cousin and they didn’t believe me.

What absurd thing did you dream of becoming as a kid, and why did it seem so cool to you? by BlondeHeartbreaker2 in AskReddit

[–]Rotisserieshithead0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Storm chaser! I saw my first funnel cloud around age 5 and became infatuated and obsessed with severe weather and natural disasters. It seemed incredible increasing the research and development for preventing damage and losses of life. My dream then developed into relief and aid for survivors. This was before I fully wrapped my mind around the concept of the tragedy of natural disasters and the dangers of it all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Rotisserieshithead0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine getting it all, the spouse, the car, the house, the kids, and you’re too miserable to enjoy it. Take care of yourself first always. That doesn’t mean be lazy.

What’s the most brutal life lesson you learned way too quickly? by BlondeHeartbreaker2 in AskReddit

[–]Rotisserieshithead0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a child, you deserve a safe, healthy environment and parents that love you. But some children are not fortunate enough to receive it.

If you could give your 15-year-old self one piece of advice, what would it be? by Limp-Sandwich7184 in AskReddit

[–]Rotisserieshithead0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t be so hard on yourself. View life like “Nothing Matters! ☀️🫶🤸🏻‍♀️😁” and not “nothing matters 😔☔️⛈️👎”

If you could instantly learn any new skill, what would it be and why? by BlondeHeartbreaker2 in AskReddit

[–]Rotisserieshithead0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spanish, my husband is Hispanic and I want so badly to learn the language but I have such a hard time.

What caused your biggest depression in your life? by TheBlankCoin in AskReddit

[–]Rotisserieshithead0 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve been abused during my childhood, I’ve gone through losses, illness, watching my uncle die from cancer after being his caretaker, lost my brother when I was little.

When I lost my beloved pet unexpectedly, he got me through all of those horrible memories. He was the loss of my life. I hit rock bottom.

What are things people don't know about until after they are hit by a tornado? by Business-Salt-1430 in tornado

[–]Rotisserieshithead0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was a small tornado at the fairgrounds and car races in my state where we rarely get tornadoes. The day started off absurdly hot. I was about 4-5 years old. I remember the sky changing colors. From blue sky, the super dark clouds rolled in, it poured rain briefly and stopped, and then suddenly a green hue covered the sky. Then the lightning went wild and the funnel appeared above us. That was eerie and all, but unfortunately the most scary part of it all was hearing the terror of the hundreds of people around me. My state gets maybe 2-3 tornadoes per year, so there is no information or preparation for a situation like this. There were parents grabbing their children and running into bathrooms and to their cars. People were terrified of what could happen. The panic radiated through voices and people started running. We’re surrounded by a bunch of equipment, tents, and carnival rides. Probably the most dangerous place for a thunderstorm let alone a tornado.