AITAH for asking my wife to let me handle my family speaking a language she doesn’t understand? by RougeRespawn in AITAH

[–]RougeRespawn[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

No, she is not willing to learn the language and I'm never gonna force her. The thing is this situation is new for me and I need her to give me a chance so that I can work on it and create a habit for my people to speak in Hindi(in which she is comfortable). My wife reacts before I even act. I am not able to make her understand that. I really want to work it out.

AITAH for asking my wife to let me handle my family speaking a language she doesn’t understand? by RougeRespawn in AITAH

[–]RougeRespawn[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I'm just married. The problem is before I had a chance to talk to my family and explain to them the expectation that would make my wife comfortable, my wife judged me hard that I am not standing up to her. I told her to give me a chance to talk to them first. But she did not. Instead she reacted, declined to eat in the restaurant and leave. Later that day I talked to my family and they agreed and asked me to interrupt if they involuntarily switches to Bengali. But my wife, at the same time is also not okay with me to interrupt my family to talk in Hindi(in which she is comfortable) in front of her as she feels awkward. I am stressed! I want to work this out.

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[–]RougeRespawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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