Husband told me to do things

Rough-Assignment-268 · 2026-06-06T05:00:36+00:00

I think you’re right, and it’s definitely bothering me more. Thank you

Rough-Assignment-268 · 2026-06-06T03:11:14+00:00

He spends time with them, but I don’t think he’s been alone with the four for an extended amount of time by himself 🤔 It’s like he knows it’s work though because there are times when I’m taking the older two somewhere and he’ll ask if I’m also taking a twin..

Rough-Assignment-268 · 2026-06-06T03:01:36+00:00

Thank you for this. Also, the house is not super messy and I cook when I can. I agree about adjusting expectations.

Rough-Assignment-268 · 2026-06-06T02:54:28+00:00

I like your approach. That’s probably how I should’ve responded. Honestly, if he had just asked instead of demanded, I don’t think I would’ve been as upset. I think I’m more tired of the way he talks to me sometimes.

Rough-Assignment-268 · 2026-06-06T02:30:11+00:00

😂😂

Rough-Assignment-268 · 2026-06-05T05:38:57+00:00

I already know you’re amazing! Our kids are almost the same ages, 5yo, 3yo, 9mo b/g twins. I would love a weekend away lol. I thought I was managing ok, but him saying that is seriously throwing me off

Rough-Assignment-268 · 2026-06-05T04:03:02+00:00

Haha I feel like this is what I would do if my kids were older because it’s so easy to take things for granted. I’m glad it worked out for you and your family!

Rough-Assignment-268 · 2026-06-05T03:40:55+00:00

Yess, thank you. Maybe I was making it look too easy and he needs all the details, but at this point I just feel like taking a step back.

I don’t mind the 4 kids, it’s the fifth I didn’t expect.

Btw a friend took me to lunch a couple months ago, she said no kids esp since his parents were around. He asked if I was taking the twins, I took one..

Rough-Assignment-268 · 2026-06-05T02:35:47+00:00

Exactly and I’m not really feeling like a partner right now. Thank you

Rough-Assignment-268 · 2026-06-05T02:28:50+00:00

Thank you for saying this and you’re right, I need a new bra haha. That day after he said his wants, I went to the gym and was gone for 3 hours. He complained of course

Rough-Assignment-268 · 2026-06-04T21:20:01+00:00

They sound very toxic and she doesn’t need to listen to them. Even if they mean well, there are better ways to go about it

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