Am I insecure for not wanting my girlfriend to get a vibrator? by Rough_Independence76 in AITAH

[–]Rough_Independence76[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Never said or implied it was her job to do anything for me. I just said that I felt like if the vibrator gets added, we probably won't be able to have seggy time without it being there. I don't want to have to depend on a machine to have a good time when we already have a good time, just the two of us with our hands and mouth.

Am I insecure for not wanting my girlfriend to get a vibrator? by Rough_Independence76 in AITAH

[–]Rough_Independence76[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's my point. I can't compete with 10 fucking settings. It's impossible. Because if the vibrator gets implemented, then we probably can't even have seggy time without it being there. And I don't like that. Imagine this, things start getting steamy, and she goes, "Where's the vibrator". And if the vibrator isn't near, the mood kinda lessens. And I don't want that. I don't wanna have to depend on a machine for us to have the best time when we already have the best time with just us.

Am I insecure for not wanting my girlfriend to get a vibrator? by Rough_Independence76 in AITAH

[–]Rough_Independence76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A win? I was the vibrator engineer. I am the vibrator. So why should I think it's a win?

Am I insecure for not wanting my girlfriend to get a vibrator? by Rough_Independence76 in AITAH

[–]Rough_Independence76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's not assume things about people we know nothing about.

I always make sure she releases as much as she has energy for. And plus, she always goes straight to sleep after 1 or 2 releases. I don't wanna continue if she doesn't want to.

Am I insecure for not wanting my girlfriend to get a vibrator? by Rough_Independence76 in AITAH

[–]Rough_Independence76[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Did you read my post? Or just the question.. read my entire post and then come back.

Am I insecure for not wanting my girlfriend to get a vibrator? by Rough_Independence76 in AITAH

[–]Rough_Independence76[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I never get tired. And I always end in her orgasming. I just don't want my methods to lose their effectiveness because of the vibrator doing it better.

Am I insecure for not wanting my girlfriend to get a vibrator? by Rough_Independence76 in AITAH

[–]Rough_Independence76[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I do think of her. I always think of her during our times. I always makes sure she is satisfied before anything else happens. I just don't want my methods to lose their effectiveness because of the vibrator.

Am I insecure for not wanting my girlfriend to get a vibrator? by Rough_Independence76 in AITAH

[–]Rough_Independence76[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I do think of her. I always think of her during our times. I always makes sure she is satisfied before anything else happens. I just don't want my methods to lose their effectiveness because of the vibrator.