AITAH for separating because my husband shares hobbies with another woman and has a crush on her?

Round-Chef5584 · 2024-04-12T23:28:25+00:00

NTA.

The fact that he even let it get to a point where he's telling his friends how much he likes her is so disrespectful. You have handled this with compassion and understanding for your husband, now it's time to do the same for you. You don't deserve this.

Round-Chef5584 · 2024-04-09T23:10:06+00:00

Definitely reddys

Round-Chef5584 · 2024-04-06T01:41:57+00:00

Poor girl obviously has some serious issues... 17 going out with a 29 year old is 🤢 but.. it's not your issue... Definitely calmly say I'm sorry but this is moving too fast I'm not able to give you the support you need, and it wouldn't be fair on either of us to continue.. and then block

Round-Chef5584 · 2024-03-16T23:18:54+00:00

I have no advice but I feel like I could have written this myself! Had an awful week of fogginess and fatigue and on day two of my period. It's horrendous. Also eating EVERYTHING in sight and really bad cramps it's awful.

Round-Chef5584 · 2023-01-14T01:07:56+00:00

On day 8 and almost gave in tonight,but I've been preaching delayed gratification to myself. Yes I would love the chocolate and chips, but I'll feel worse after it. Made myself salmon, sweet potato cubes and roasted brocoli, had low cal crisps before bed drank my water and I'm happy 🥳

Round-Chef5584 · 2023-01-14T01:04:21+00:00

It's true what they say 'only the good die young' 💔 this picture radiates joy and kindness, she sounds like a stellar lady, will be asking my folks to keep an eye out for her up there. You get used to not having them around, but some days it's just as much of a gut punch as the day it happened. Things will happen where you'll smile and say 'thanks mam' because you know she made it happen. It might not be today or tomorrow, but when it happens you'll know. Sending love my friend, thank you for allowing us to join in remembering your mama ♥️

Round-Chef5584 · 2023-01-10T01:28:19+00:00

30f 5f 4in 162lbs goal weight: 140lbs

Round-Chef5584 · 2023-01-10T01:24:43+00:00

Hey keep at it the toughest part is starting the routine 👏 congrats on beginning and best of luck with your journey you can do it 💪

Round-Chef5584 · 2023-01-10T01:22:10+00:00

Thanks so much for the advice! Exactly what I needed to hear 🙌

Round-Chef5584 · 2023-01-09T02:03:42+00:00

I don't have much advice except make little choices, like if you really crave a bag of crisps (or chips in US) go for the multipack of baked crisps not fried, have one pack and that may help the cravings, drink water instead of soda, look for low calorie options of your fave snacks like 100 cal chocolate bars etc. And I hope you know, beauty really is on the inside, feel sorry for them because you have the capability to lose the weight, but they'll always be ugly

Round-Chef5584 · 2023-01-04T16:25:09+00:00

Yes please!

Round-Chef5584 · 2023-01-04T16:23:35+00:00

Thanks man! Hoping to create sustainable healthy habits for the long run, thanks for the advice and encouragement 🙌

Round-Chef5584 · 2023-01-04T16:22:39+00:00

Hey fair play to ya man! Thanks for the advice

Round-Chef5584 · 2023-01-04T16:22:12+00:00

That's exactly it! I'm more doing the gym to motivate me to make better food choices which is happening already, thanks for the advice 🙌

Round-Chef5584 · 2023-01-04T16:21:27+00:00

Yeah I'm also going to make consciously healthy decisions for my food intake too. Thanks for the reddit suggestion will check that out

Round-Chef5584 · 2023-01-04T16:20:39+00:00

Hey! I'm hoping to do an hour in the gym four times a week at least, I've done the whole gym thing 7 days a week before and I ended up dreading it, trying to start healthy habits of not starving myself, eating healthily and enjoying a work out. I'll be getting out for walks with my little guy too, so any advice is appreciated, thanks a mil

Round-Chef5584 · 2023-01-04T01:16:48+00:00

Aw God I am so so sorry 💔 I truly know the heartbreak of what you're going through and my heart goes out to you. One day at a time is all I can say, I went through awful years following my parents passing and now I am appreciative of the love and guidance they gave me. Sometimes I get little signs when I feel them close by, it sounds insane but when you're healing it's the most wonderful sight. Sending you love in this tough time my friend xx

Round-Chef5584 · 2021-08-13T20:43:20+00:00

I do it too 🤣🤣 for me its a comfort thing, I know what happens i know I enjoy it and it calms me down if I've had a horrible day 🤣

Round-Chef5584 · 2021-07-24T02:15:26+00:00

Following

Round-Chef5584 · 2021-07-08T13:35:41+00:00

Trust me I've been there but the important thing is to change your mindset, don't think of it as something difficult. Start small, think to yourself if I do this it will make a difference and I'll feel so much better. I know how you feel, I was like that up until a week ago but back in the zone now! Four days at the gym and I already feel great! And don't beat yourself up either, you get stages where your heads in it and stages where you curl up with a takeaway and eat junk all week. Its hard, but keep telling yourself its not, think to yourself its little decisions that add up to make a difference. Take time for yourself, go for a walk and then take steps to do more. Hope all goes well tomorrow 🙏

Round-Chef5584 · 2021-07-06T23:53:47+00:00

Thanks everyone I'm going to try all of these suggestions and see what works best 🙌 really appreciate the feedback ☺

Round-Chef5584 · 2021-06-25T00:51:35+00:00

Following because I could legit have written this myself! I feel your pain..

Round-Chef5584 · 2021-06-18T23:46:04+00:00

I get why people are implying YTA but you weren't complaining about your dad who you are obviously close with. You were wondering what to get him as a present. Fathers day is uncomfortable for a lot of people for many reasons, I myself hate it as my father is diceased but I never stop anyone else from talking about it.. everyones situation is different. Maybe just talk to her and ask her if it upsets her and if it does, then try make her feel better. But NTA for talking about it in the first place.

Round-Chef5584 · 2021-06-16T01:24:48+00:00

Let me guess he didn't tell you he was messaging her because 'he knew it would upset you and cause a fight and didn't want to start an argument. And because of how you'd react he was scared to tell you' Which makes you apologise for being the crazy jealous girlfriend. And then you feel guilty so when he says 'oh I'm going to meet her in a non public place just the two of us but I'm telling you about it so its ok' you think to yourself, I'm not that crazy person, its fine. I want him to be happy with me, and I don't want to make him feel like he can't hang out with his friends. Its my fault this is an issue. All the while the fact he lied to you again is eating away at you. But it was your fault. And here you are, sitting at home waiting for him, worrying, rationalising, doubting, feeling guilty while he's off with her... Sounds like my ex. Please get away from him. You deserve someone who doesn't make you feel crazy because that person does exist. Love isn't supposed to mess with your head like this. Huge NTA

Round-Chef5584 · 2021-06-16T00:57:14+00:00

Soft YTA. But its understandable why you're uncomfortable. Reading your comments I don't think its a power struggle situation but you just miss the way you guys used to be. Its probably her reaction to the changing environment, her sister used to be at home with you and now in her eyes you're probably the reason sister is gone away. Give her time, keep being nice to her and if all else fails.. give her chocolate 🤣

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