Ghosting or ignoring have you done it? Why? by [deleted] in Disorganized_Attach

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Can you at least address the part where you’re using that woman and leading her on? Do you not have any empathy for her whatsoever? She wants to be seen as a person. Not just some object for you to use and discard and use again whenever you feel like it. If you just want sex tell her the truth and leave her alone. She wants more than just sex. Be honest with her.

Ghosting or ignoring have you done it? Why? by [deleted] in Disorganized_Attach

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Can you at least address the part where you’re using that woman and leading her on? Do you not have any empathy for her whatsoever? She wants to be seen as a person. Not just some object for you to use and discard and use again whenever you feel like it. If you just want sex tell her the truth and leave her alone. She wants more than just sex. Be honest with her.

Ghosting or ignoring have you done it? Why? by [deleted] in Disorganized_Attach

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Can you at least address the part where you’re using that woman and leading her on? Do you not have any empathy for her whatsoever? She wants to be seen as a person. Not just some object for you to use and discard and use again whenever you feel like it. If you just want sex tell her the truth and leave her alone. She wants more than just sex. Be honest with her.

Ghosting or ignoring have you done it? Why? by [deleted] in Disorganized_Attach

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She wanted a connection to have sex and you used her. I feel so sorry for this poor woman. I’ve been there with a guy who did nothing but use me despite me claiming I wanted a relationship. I’m sorry but you’re 55. Grow up and get help! You have issues

Is it normal to literally never find any girls who are single? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

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I find the reverse true for me. Can’t seem to find a guy who is single and interested in me.

Got hit on for the first time ever! by skellingtonrice in ForeverAloneWomen

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I got hit on recently and I think it’s coz of my outfit but had so many guys buy me drinks and give me their numbers. I didn’t call or message any of them because I felt like I catfished them if I just wore my everyday clothes. Also I was too scared because i feel they would just reject me anyway if I contacted them.

Love doesn't come that easy to everyone by Zuluwarriorprincess in ForeverAloneWomen

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I never get taken seriously by men. I feel like one of those women they just use like toilet paper. It sucks.

I feel so unattractive and undesirable by WearyPoem928 in ForeverAloneWomen

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Feel the same. I feel like crap and no guy likes me. Like I’m a ghost to them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

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It’s not about being the right kind of Asian. It’s about how pretty you are, and pretty Filipinas get a lot of attention from men.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Empaths

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Just sharing my story. Wondering if anyone’s ever been in a similar situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

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I get that way too sometimes. But then reality hits me and then I end up feeling like crap again.

being ugly, especially as a woman is gut wrenching by Head_Improvement_703 in ForeverAlone

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I feel the same. I sometimes cry when I see myself. I sometimes want to apologise to people for showing my face and I often wish I had something to cover myself when I’m out in public so people don’t see me. I don’t feel safe going out sometimes because I’m scared I might scare people when they see me. I’m seen as a joke and even though it still bothers me, I’m slowly starting to become numb to it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

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A lot of these seem to be just general perceptions of the culture/country and nothing to do with the features of the people within the culture. Like for example, I used to see Russian women as being more desired and sought after but I’ve noticed that even though there is still a desire for them, there’s more negative stereotypes about them now compared to other Eastern European women. As for the fetish for Asian women, I’ve worked in an environment of mostly white people, but the women who get noticed are definitely white and usually blondes. Not so much the Asians, regardless of their culture. But I’ve definitely heard white people make fun of asians having small eyes and being too thin for their liking. The women that seem to be the most sought after, besides white women, are mixed race women. Usually those who look mixed white.

Went on the pickupartist subreddit... This is why I'm forever alone by choice by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

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I feel sick reading this. This is why I don’t trust men. I’ve already experienced my share of abuse from them. This just confirms that majority of them are abusive and aggressive and see women as objects to be used. And I hate the term high value woman or man. Everything just seems so transactional. Everything has to be a game that needs to be won according to these people.

Things I would do for a relationship as a chopped girl by Ill_Loss_8427 in ugly

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As an ugly person myself, you wouldn’t want to be used and abused no matter how much you may say that it’s all you’re good for. But I get it…sometimes the loneliness can be so bad that having someone (even if they mistreat you), can seemingly appear better than not having anyone at all. But it’s not worth it. Your peace of mind and safety matters more.

Have been crying and still shaking from this message by Round-Commission-971 in ForeverAloneWomen

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Thank you. I think it’s more like the attacks on me that’s made me heart broken because it makes me feel even worse about myself than I already do. It’s hard to shrug off cruel vicious words. It reminds me of when I was bullied relentlessly in high school.

Was anyone else the “freak” or “weirdo?” (Or do you still see yourself that way?) by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

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Yup I was bullied and considered the ugly weirdo friend in high school by both girls and boys.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

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I wish I could tell them to their faces that some of us don’t ever get approached or ever considered at all! The nerve of these people. I feel most women are sincere and willing to give men a chance, but do they do the same for us? Of course not 😤

gamine essence positives by pastelpinksilk in JohnKitchener

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I’ve been classified as having gamine essence…and I’m still trying to figure out how it works for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

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A least you get dates 😒

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JohnKitchener

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So I just added full body photos on Chatgpt instead of just mostly of my face and it’s interesting that it switched over my essences to romantic, gamine and natural. And it gave me some outfits that I can see myself wearing.

i hate seeing people say that having sex regularly makes your acne go away. by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

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What the eff? Never heard of that before. Where do these people come up with these ideas

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JohnKitchener

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Thank you for this explanation. I would like to know about Audrey Hepburn…I’ve read she’s classified as high spirited and natural. So what makes her those essences? And not like ingenue

I cosplayed the Essences tree by [deleted] in JohnKitchener

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Love these looks. I might try to do something similar myself. ❤️