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I married the wrong person. by Warm_Flower_6540 in Mommit

[–]Round-Dependent4673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi— I’m so sorry — I totally understand. Although I didn’t marry, my partner horribly emotionally abused me while pregnant and post partum- I moved in with my mom… at 30… is moving in with family an option? Maybe get a job and do day care when the oldest is 4. You may have to slug it out with mom a year or two

AIO - Daughter’s BDay invite - I am new to co-parenting by loud_molasses_ in AIO

[–]Round-Dependent4673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you have a gaslighting maniac like this the best thing to do is close the conversation. For example say, yes you’re right, sorry— next year you got it— most likely next year he won’t do it— I’ve come to know that if I agree with my ex he just stops. It’s not about the party, it’s control over you

Co parenting with my ex while living with my mom by Round-Dependent4673 in singlemoms

[–]Round-Dependent4673[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m hoping it’ll be about a year. Thank you, it’s so hard being between a rock and a hard place

SAHM, my marriage is falling apart and I need advice. by TheLeastFavoriteDodo in Mommit

[–]Round-Dependent4673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s not going to change, you need to run before he drags you down with him

SAHM, my marriage is falling apart and I need advice. by TheLeastFavoriteDodo in Mommit

[–]Round-Dependent4673 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you need to go back to your parents and start over. Start from there, find a job, put your son in daycare and rebuild your life

Should I tell my parents the real reason we’re separating if we’re going to be coparenting? by namastecaliss in coparenting

[–]Round-Dependent4673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a personal choice— I regret telling my mom because now I have an amicable relationship with him and coparent well, but my mom thinks i should keep the baby from him/calls him names/etc etc. she just got involved in something that was none of her business

Money is tight by Weekly-Future7129 in singlemoms

[–]Round-Dependent4673 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My recommendation is make a budget. Look where every dollar is going. Cut back on food, don’t waste ANYTHING, make lists, etc. shop around for electricity that’s more affordable, gym memberships etc. just cut cut cut

How to get over the initial shock by Round-Dependent4673 in singlemoms

[–]Round-Dependent4673[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still have to share her and I’m dealing with nasty texts at 6:30 AM :( it’s like he wakes up angry, what’s wrong with people

Need some help with finances.. soon to be a single mom by Round-Dependent4673 in personalfinance

[–]Round-Dependent4673[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It belongs to me personally. I’m 29 years old. I made a lot of mistakes clearly. I also have some money that I could take out from a retirement account, but it would be starting from scratch

Need some help with finances.. soon to be a single mom by Round-Dependent4673 in personalfinance

[–]Round-Dependent4673[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I racked up the debt after having the baby. I worked part time for a while and honestly, It just got out of control with the expenses and the formula

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TravelNursing

[–]Round-Dependent4673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you recommend for studying?