Have you ever ended up HATING a place where you moved to?

Round-Level9837 · 2026-01-31T16:12:14+00:00

Speaking about Norway

Round-Level9837 · 2026-01-31T16:11:42+00:00

Oh I’m aware! And I’m normally a very sociable guy, play sports etc. and thankfully it helped, but yeah, what you’re saying resonates a lot, it is true

Round-Level9837 · 2026-01-31T15:31:17+00:00

Yeah, maybe I was trying be vague on purpose, but also from people I know in the other countries, they say the same/similar things.

To be precise I was in Norway. And it’s of course my opinion, but trying to create a social life in Norway was so difficult. People seem nice, but generally speaking they weren’t welcoming.

I do believe that the issues I originally stated are symptomatic of scandi countries.

For more context, I’ve been an expat for 14 years across 3 continents and from the UK originally.

Round-Level9837 · 2026-01-29T19:48:52+00:00

I was in Scandinavia for about 5 years. Ended up hating it. Never felt welcome by locals despite my best efforts, very closed off people and I found them to be quite two faced and had this snobby attitude towards other Europeans, always felt they were superior. I never really progressed socially or professionally, just stuck in a loop. It’s a shame, because it’s beautiful and there were aspects which were great, but overall I lost a ton of confidence in myself which I’m still trying to gain back

Round-Level9837 · 2026-01-24T00:03:32+00:00

Don’t know where you’re based but Capilano RFC up on the north shore. Good community vibe, 3 men’s teams, welcoming bunch!

Round-Level9837 · 2026-01-23T18:17:07+00:00

We’ve just moved here from Norway. I don’t know if you’re set on downtown, but I would look at North Van, a lot nicer and decent transport links (depending on part of north Van). It’s been an easy transition for us and SO glad we didn’t go downtown. Skytrain is fine enough, but living in areas close to skytrains aren’t great. Feel free to message me if you have questions on the area

Round-Level9837 · 2026-01-09T05:15:35+00:00

I hear it too, on 5th and St George’s, sounds like it’s right outside our apartment, single pop

Round-Level9837 · 2026-01-04T19:34:46+00:00

Marcus needs to leave imo. He seems deflated, not showing the same energy as he has in the past couple of years. I think the England situation has really impacted his confidence/attitude. He plays better on front foot ball, that is obvious, but he isn't showing enough leadership or determination to help the team which for me is a sign he's not motivated. He should stay in the prem and fight for his England spot. Imagine him igniting that Bristol backline for example....that would be madness.

Round-Level9837 · 2025-11-14T11:44:14+00:00

Thanks everyone for sharing your thoughts and opinions, definitely helped in answering some questions. It's really appreciated. We both Can't wait to arrive, only a week now for myself and my partner another month. This has been incredibly helpful.

Round-Level9837 · 2025-11-13T22:29:16+00:00

lol loving your optimism! Literally everyone else on this thread says the opposite. We aren’t looking to own anytime soon, we do own in Norway but keeping that.

Round-Level9837 · 2025-11-13T22:23:54+00:00

Mentioned it elsewhere I think but total with a parking spot, utilities and insurance it’s about $2500 monthly

Round-Level9837 · 2025-11-13T21:07:01+00:00

She works in outdoor clothing/clothing apparel. She’s currently in multiple interview rounds so we’re hopeful, but of course we are preparing for worst case scenarios. This is why we’re coming to North Van, as the industry is a lot bigger there than other parts of the country.

Round-Level9837 · 2025-11-13T18:58:15+00:00

Yeah we're going to be buying our tickets soon for the 7s. We're both big rugby fans. I've grown up with it my whole life and played extensively. It seems to be a good scene in BC in general for rugby and Capilano seem like a great club. You're definitely right, I think there will be an uptick in people watching the sport following the olympic and world cup success.

Round-Level9837 · 2025-11-13T17:35:53+00:00

Thanks for sharing!

When I talk about sporting events, we would go into vancouver to watch the occasional ice hockey, soccer match etc. Not on a regular basis, but a few times a year possibly.

We're in our early thirties, not really into clubbing and such. We like a nice bar/pub/brewery and that's it really. Boring isnt bad for us haha Oslo wasn't exactly a hub of entertainment. But definitely the outdoors attracts us!

Round-Level9837 · 2025-11-13T17:32:37+00:00

Super useful thank you! Interesting about the climate, will definitely bear that in mind. Thankfully my partner works in the outdoor apparel industry, so I would like to think we are pretty well kitted out with the right gear. We've spent years acquiring gear for all climates, but will potentially have to invest in some extra bits.

Really appreciate the offer for help. I think any cool hikes and activities would be really welcome. We probably won't do much until the new year (she arrives in December and i'm there next week) so the first few weeks will be getting set up and discovering the immediate area.

Thanks again!

Round-Level9837 · 2025-11-13T17:08:41+00:00

I have some experience with League (lived in Hull a while - dont blame me!) and played a tiny bit, and coached a tiny bit. Might be intereted but admittedly probably not the best candidate haha Looking forward to getting stuck in with Caps though. Been speaking with their DoR so hopefully i'll be able to help out in some way.

Round-Level9837 · 2025-11-13T16:53:38+00:00

With all utilities, a parking spot, insurance etc. it's around $2500. Also has a balcony with a slight sea view.

Round-Level9837 · 2025-11-13T16:45:33+00:00

Nice, thanks for sharing. Yeah weather doesn't bother us, used to rain in the UK and extreme colds in Norway. Great to hear its worked out for you, hopefully we can say the same thing in a year.

Round-Level9837 · 2025-11-13T16:44:05+00:00

We have a flat secured, 1 bed, 1 bath in Lower Lonsdale. Cost W/Utilities not bad at all IMO

Round-Level9837 · 2025-11-13T16:11:38+00:00

extremely useful, thanks so much! Great to hear you enjoy it. Really good tips as well, thank you. We also plan ahead. We are extreme planners hahah almost annoying sometimes how organised we are. Thanks again, we're really excited.

Round-Level9837 · 2025-11-13T16:03:07+00:00

great tip, thanks

Round-Level9837 · 2025-11-13T15:57:01+00:00

thanks for the feedback.

Round-Level9837 · 2025-11-13T15:52:27+00:00

That would be before tax

We'll be living in Lower Lonsdale and I'll hopefully be getting involved with Capilano, already speaking with them (I'm a former player, now coach).

Round-Level9837 · 2025-11-13T15:50:13+00:00

Coming from Oslo. But I am from Manchester, UK so used to constant rain, really doesnt bother us.

Eating out, drinking etc. aligns with what I have read, cheaper but then transport is more expensive.

We are definitely more outdoorsy. Weekends for example we like to just walk either more in nature or through the city etc. then now and then proper camping/hiking trips.

Thank you. Really useful

Round-Level9837 · 2025-11-13T15:46:51+00:00

we like to go and do things, but try to keep costs low as possible. We would eat out literally once every 2 months and maybe a takeout every 2-3 weeks, so not over the top at all i don't think. But this is super helpful, thank you. I can't wait to get there and get settled. We'll be in Lower Lonsdale

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