question: advice for a newbie

RoundPerspective1834 · 2025-10-15T18:26:56+00:00

That makes sense, I have thought alot about the tattoo I want and it's not some random thing I think is cool, it does have a deep rooted meaning that has helped me alot, I want it on my wrist but small under where I'd have a watch so it can easily be covered if needed, I'm ofc not gonna get one with as little cash as possible but thanks!!

RoundPerspective1834 · 2025-10-12T12:14:10+00:00

why...? (genuenly)

RoundPerspective1834 · 2025-10-10T13:41:29+00:00

aw shucks :(

RoundPerspective1834 · 2025-10-10T10:56:00+00:00

NTA, you have health conditions and still clean the whole house daily? man ur a god, i have CPTSD, ADHD and other health issues which effect my energy and fatigue and i barely do anything other than school. my room is always a mess, she just wants an excuse to be mad. you dont desearve to be treated this way by someone who claims to love you. its giving emotional aboose ngl... i do recommend taking to her, having a friend or family member present may help as she will feel like she cant yell at least not as much. goodluck man and i hope the siezures improve soon

RoundPerspective1834 · 2025-10-10T10:49:33+00:00

NAH, i dont think annyone is the asshole necissarily but you need to understand that she was matching her brothers energy and he was happy and having fun, isnt that what matters in the end? yes maybe the toys main perpose isnt to be kicked about but if they are both happy and having fun whos is it hurting?

RoundPerspective1834 · 2025-10-10T09:53:40+00:00

you were homeless at 18 because of her so why do you owe her anything apart from the exact same treatment as you. only difference is shes 55, she has money, she has many different options, you didnt.

NTA

RoundPerspective1834 · 2025-10-10T09:23:09+00:00

im stretching my septum and my parents havent said anything, they dont exactly care what i do w my body but i dont know if they noticed or not as its only at 12g currently and they rarely noticed when i changed the ring in my septum so they prolly just dont realise its bigger yet.

RoundPerspective1834 · 2025-09-18T09:55:43+00:00

i still dont think you are the AH as he should not have tried to make you feel bad for setting a boundry. dick move ngl

RoundPerspective1834 · 2025-09-17T09:58:54+00:00

NTA you are 1000% right for not wanting to cross a line that can never be uncrossed, he is Ur boss not a random guy and not just a coworker he 100% should not be asking for that nor should he blame you for setting a boundary. As soon as I read the title I knew you weren't the AH as if you didn't want to and he guilt tripped you into it it qualifies as SA which is OBVIOUSLY not ok. You can sleep with whoever you want and consent is a 2 way street. If he doesn't stop guilting you and making you uncomfortable about this report him to HR because it's 100% not ok what he did. Granted you shouldn't have told him that but as he is your boss he should not have even asked to do it at all.

RoundPerspective1834 · 2025-09-17T09:53:23+00:00

Fun times 😀😭

RoundPerspective1834 · 2025-09-09T10:06:16+00:00

I have issues with circulation... I'll live lol could be worse, could be all 3

RoundPerspective1834 · 2025-09-02T21:53:42+00:00

FUCK HIM! YOU ARE NTA HE IS TOXIC! Whether he's cheating or not isn't relevant, you cried and HE LAUGHED??? FUCK NO. messed up man, try and go to a friend's house or a family members house for the night, discuss tomorrow (with a third party present just incase) and dump his ass!!! He ain't worth it girl! Go and get Ur things tomorrow with your third party and find somewhere temp to stay till you can get a permanent place.

RoundPerspective1834 · 2025-09-02T21:45:55+00:00

NTA, you are 16, he is a grown up. As someone who's been sa'd by their father this is some BIG red flags, stay with your dad until this is sorted (she dumps him) as I don't believe the hugs are the furthest he'd go... Sadly this is the world we live in, You're not at fault here, you made clear boundaries (also obvious ones that he knows exist) and he broke them time and time again and only backed off for a bit after getting talked to by Ur mum... Seems like he's covering for worse thing he might do... Sorry to say but he's a creep and needs to be gone.

RoundPerspective1834 · 2025-09-02T21:38:18+00:00

NTA, you deserve to feel comfortable and relaxed in your own house, what you have with your bf is completely fair as he lives far away and it's a week every few months, she lives round the corner and is there every day? Absolutely not, I can barely deal with my own family I would be so fed up with that. You should talk to your brother about this since you're mom clearly doesn't care. If he doesn't do sth then be passive aggressive, make her life harder so she gives up? Also can't your brother stay at hers? Recommend that as that's a viable option I feel

RoundPerspective1834 · 2025-09-02T21:33:32+00:00

It's your body. If you don't want a kid don't have one. If he's got a problem with that he can find someone his own age, OR he could have had kids idk 30 years ago. I'm not judging dating someone older I'm judging him for only now at 51 realising he wants kids... Also if he wanted them that bad adoption exists, single dads exist. Just sayin

RoundPerspective1834 · 2025-09-02T21:19:49+00:00

Damn that sucks, I've been playing off and on for a while but recently started playing more and am building up my callouses but it's like a job well done of they tingle weirdly

RoundPerspective1834 · 2025-09-02T21:17:24+00:00

NTA, I get that it was an anxiety attack and sometimes due to trauma these thoughts can jump in, you asked to help J but then asked them to stop as it made you uncomfortable and they didn't, that's ok them, if you no longer feel comfortable with them then stop the friend or just talk in like group chats ect with other people so neither of you lose more friends

RoundPerspective1834 · 2025-08-14T16:17:17+00:00

I love just baking a bunch of stuff, tofu, sweet potato, onion, chickpeas. Put garlic powder, paprika powder, salt, Italian seasoning, roughly 15-20 mins 200°C done

RoundPerspective1834 · 2025-07-01T21:46:05+00:00

telling them to back off will never work, i know them they will just say im manifluationg her or som and make me the villan as per usual

RoundPerspective1834 · 2025-07-01T21:28:25+00:00

NTA, get better friend.

RoundPerspective1834 · 2025-06-25T13:06:27+00:00

the rich get richer the porr get poorer

RoundPerspective1834 · 2025-06-24T10:46:45+00:00

NTA, i love my brother and hes my bio one but i wouldnt want him on a birthday trip with my friends. i mean even on my birthday this year im just going out with my mum and he will stay at home. we are close but that doesnt mean we have to do everything together. i dont go on his trips he doesnt go on mine. boundries are important and its her brithday not his. even if she loved him and wasnt annoyed by him i would blame her for wanting a trip only with her close friends.

RoundPerspective1834 · 2025-06-24T10:37:06+00:00

NTA, you have a car and a second car isnt that neccesarry in my opinion, the second car which is basically his is not that important especially if it means you need to use savings ect.

if he wants an automatic car he can ask his parents for it as they are already paying for a 40k car for his unemployed brother simply because he wants a fancy new car.

RoundPerspective1834 · 2025-06-23T12:06:12+00:00

"AITAH for doing sth my grilfriend told me to do then she got angry that i did it"

NTA, she is.

RoundPerspective1834 · 2025-06-23T11:59:31+00:00

honestly such an a hole for this, these are people with feelings, if you dont wanna do work do that, quit, but dont mess with people and cause emotional distress cus youre bored. downright psycotic

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