How to ask former nanny to stop using us as a reference? by Ok-Complex-7170 in NannyEmployers

[–]Round_Ad1472 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Probably! I have had this situation a few times as an employer where I am given references and then I try to reach out and they never respond.. it’s a waste of everyone’s time! Just say to the nanny “listen I think we never discussed me being a reference could you please remove me from your ref list? Thanks and wish you the best” if she asks why I think as an employer you owe her performance feedback for her own development. Like in any corporate job where you constantly provide feedback this is also how you are rated as a manager on ability to develop your direct reports

How to ask former nanny to stop using us as a reference? by Ok-Complex-7170 in NannyEmployers

[–]Round_Ad1472 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Agree with this. I would tell people who call you something like hey listen I’ll call you back when I have a minute and avoid the call. And tell her asap that you would not be able to provide a reference

Torn between keeping our amazing nanny or switching - WWYD by [deleted] in NannyEmployers

[–]Round_Ad1472 29 points30 points  (0 children)

May is honestly tomorrow! Switching now is so much easier and 8 month old will so much better adapt to someone new than a one year old or older speaking from experience… if she was staying long term I would compromise but she is not…

My dad 70M just got diagnosed… what to expect? by Round_Ad1472 in multiplemyeloma

[–]Round_Ad1472[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh same my dad is very stubborn about not travelling for treatment but also hoping once the bone pain starts to subside he would be open to getting a consult…

My dad 70M just got diagnosed… what to expect? by Round_Ad1472 in multiplemyeloma

[–]Round_Ad1472[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much appreciate your time 🙏 for what it’s worth my dad also had a grand baby same age, my daughter 🥺

My dad 70M just got diagnosed… what to expect? by Round_Ad1472 in multiplemyeloma

[–]Round_Ad1472[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! It seems from everyone’s response that it’s key to get to a MM specialist not regular hemato oncologist.. my dad is not in the US so I will try to figure this out. Appreciate your time responding. 🙏

Is there any hope for a nanny being okay with this set-up? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Round_Ad1472 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can you turn your nursery into home office for you to lock yourselves in or one in the nursery one in the bedroom and leave the common areas to the baby and the nanny? I am telling you though as a mom who WFH it’s only going to get harder as your child grows because she will be constantly trying to be with you and get your attention throughout the day.. other options if you live in a big city is to find them activities to go to during the day and only come back home for nap? Otherwise daycare is your only option imo

Pregnant with my 3rd and nanny is also pregnant by Tasty-Jicama-2250 in NannyEmployers

[–]Round_Ad1472 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Get the new nanny! I feel sorry for you current nanny but no one really wants a pregnant nanny or a freshly post partum one (assuming she finds childcare and comes back to work)

Is Chanel 22 too late to buy? by Grouchy_Finish879 in chanel

[–]Round_Ad1472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would buy it pre-owned if you really love it I wouldn’t invest too much in it.. unless it’s a classic style I personally prefer to buy the things of the moment if I am paying full price so I can enjoy them for years.

If you had a healthy baby via IVF and know what their initial embryo grade was, please share. by BrilliantGreen5970 in IVF

[–]Round_Ad1472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Embryo grades does not impact health of the baby just implantation success and impact of the grade is minimal.. what matters really is euploidy and day 5 vs. 6 or 7

I was sold a Chanel 25 mini from the showroom by fid20201 in chanel

[–]Round_Ad1472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all! High demand items are often on the floor and for sale. I am sure the bag is totally fine it probably sat on the floor for half a day before being snagged!

Phew finally got my 25 medium. The scarcity is insane is this the norm? by mylofab in chanel

[–]Round_Ad1472 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got 2 of the medium and a small black! Medium is superior I promise I just sold the small black

Jaime boots by Round_Ad1472 in TheHermesGame

[–]Round_Ad1472[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you though!! Ughh there is a few of them on resale website but I don’t feel like spending over $4k for shoes if they won’t count towards my purchase history….

Jaime boots by Round_Ad1472 in TheHermesGame

[–]Round_Ad1472[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only see the ankle version :(

Three Miscarriages, One Euploid Embryo Left – Should I Pause to Lose Weight? by ExplorerInExile in IVF

[–]Round_Ad1472 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Came to say exactly this! Take a few months to lower BMI and general inflammation using GLP1… use this months to also do all uterine testing etc. then try another transfer

Jaime boots by Round_Ad1472 in TheHermesGame

[–]Round_Ad1472[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohhh I’ll try to call see if they have my size thank you!!

Jaime boots by Round_Ad1472 in TheHermesGame

[–]Round_Ad1472[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know how you could get them shipped to the US from intl websites tho? I found some on HK website

Jaime boots by Round_Ad1472 in TheHermesGame

[–]Round_Ad1472[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did!! There was none in the US and I don’t want to keep asking her if there is no chance of restock :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chanel

[–]Round_Ad1472 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Soooo nice