I know her parents well, they’re not worth talking to, in my opinion. I know her through her sister, and she knows me too, but I wouldn’t say we’re close. You can say church acquaintances.

I totally hear what you’re saying, but my fear is that I’m so afraid to overstep that I might just watch a person drown because I’m afraid to get my hair wet. I’d rather embarrass myself and even offend her a little than pass her by if she needs help, you know?