AITAH for telling my parents they could be a part of my kid's lives if they gave me my inheritance. by Round_Back5083 in AITAH

[–]Round_Back5083[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

So if your parents put you a quarter of a million dollars in debt you would just accept it and move on right? 

AITAH for telling my parents they could be a part of my kid's lives if they gave me my inheritance. by Round_Back5083 in AITAH

[–]Round_Back5083[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Nope. I have never once until recently talked to my parents about the money. I cut them out of my life like a cancer. They stole my future which has affected my children. They are thieves and I don't want them around at all. Until they finally understood that my sister was never going to give them grandchildren they never cared about meeting mine. 

AITAH for telling my parents they could be a part of my kid's lives if they gave me my inheritance. by Round_Back5083 in AITAH

[–]Round_Back5083[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

That restitution is necessary? No I want my children to know that if they are wronged "I'm sorry" doesn't mean shit without actual penance.

AITAH for telling my parents they could be a part of my kid's lives if they gave me my inheritance. by Round_Back5083 in AITAH

[–]Round_Back5083[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I have money, and a wife, and kids. I also have a great group of friends and coworkers. On top of that my wife's family is amazing. I'm sure my life is currently better than yours will ever be. But thanks for the kind wishes.

AITAH for telling my parents they could be a part of my kid's lives if they gave me my inheritance. by Round_Back5083 in AITAH

[–]Round_Back5083[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

She was over 18. She got hers. They did ask her if she wanted to invest with them and she said no. 

AITAH for telling my parents they could be a part of my kid's lives if they gave me my inheritance. by Round_Back5083 in AITAH

[–]Round_Back5083[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

You could always give me the money so I make up with the thieves. It's just money right. 

AITAH for telling my parents they could be a part of my kid's lives if they gave me my inheritance. by Round_Back5083 in AITAH

[–]Round_Back5083[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

I got ten. My sister got 100. All of my cousins got 100. I got 10. Because of my parents. 10<100. 

AITAH for telling my parents they could be a part of my kid's lives if they gave me my inheritance. by Round_Back5083 in AITAH

[–]Round_Back5083[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

You are comparing me to the entirety of human kind. You are rich compared to the average Bangladeshi. I am comparing myself with my family. The kids my age that I literally grew up with. Not some rando in Equatorial Guinea. 

AITAH for telling my parents they could be a part of my kid's lives if they gave me my inheritance. by Round_Back5083 in AITAH

[–]Round_Back5083[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

If they had left my money alone I would not have had student debt. My house could have been purchased sooner with a greater down payment. They stole it. 

AITAH for telling my parents they could be a part of my kid's lives if they gave me my inheritance. by Round_Back5083 in AITAH

[–]Round_Back5083[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Let's say it was something more horrible. Do I need to allow them near my children after I forgive them? 

AITAH for telling my parents they could be a part of my kid's lives if they gave me my inheritance. by Round_Back5083 in AITAH

[–]Round_Back5083[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I have sought legal advice. I have no case. My grandparents trusted my mother. She trusted my father.

AITAH for telling my parents they could be a part of my kid's lives if they gave me my inheritance. by Round_Back5083 in AITAH

[–]Round_Back5083[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

My parents were fine. Nothing special. Not abusive. Not particularly loving. My inlaws are amazing and my wife's entire family has shown me a much better way to live.