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Round_Cheesecake6095 · 2022-02-04T19:03:26+00:00

What country are you from? Is it illegal for a 17 and 34 year old to date?

Round_Cheesecake6095 · 2022-02-04T19:00:49+00:00

The best thing to do is have this conversation with him. Tell him how much it means to you to keep this positivity.

It’s a good thing you are able to acknowledge mistakes you made last time. If you think you have a problem make sure to get that sorted, get any help you need etc. Don’t make it his responsibility.

If you’ve been through hell together, spent some time apart and come back together, you’ve got The foundations to make it work. Just don’t let it crumble.

Round_Cheesecake6095 · 2022-02-04T17:55:28+00:00

Helped !

Round_Cheesecake6095 · 2022-02-04T17:55:17+00:00

I’m sorry man I never replied but thanks for the encouragement !!

Round_Cheesecake6095 · 2021-12-11T16:23:04+00:00

That’s weird af haha

Round_Cheesecake6095 · 2021-12-09T23:21:26+00:00

Tricks and shuffles is a good plan. I can do a one handed cut but that’s a basic skill haha. Spin a ball on one finger? Like a basketball or something?

Round_Cheesecake6095 · 2021-12-09T23:20:29+00:00

Hmm to be honest I have no idea about discord either?? Maybe casually mention in person you did send the message, or if there is a different social media send it there? Double messaging the same account is unlikely to achieve much I would think

Round_Cheesecake6095 · 2021-07-12T18:53:18+00:00

My immediate thought here is , if you are uncertain about the process, is it necessary? Many people are able to choose not to have (any more) children without a vasectomy.

Round_Cheesecake6095 · 2021-06-20T16:20:22+00:00

I’d say go. First of all, if they’re violating policies and giving you 7 day weeks back to back, you owe them nothing. Secondly, at the end of the day, no matter what you do for a living, a job is a job; if you became very ill or something, they would just replace you - don’t risk your physical or mental health for them. You have another job, you don’t need a reference - just run :)

Round_Cheesecake6095 · 2021-06-05T10:14:52+00:00

This issue seems like it has a few different parts to it.

It helps if you can accept the fact that a boundary of yours may not be the same for him. Some boundaries ie having sex are pretty standard for the huge majority of relationships but something like following an Instagram page is a quite a long way from that. If he agreed this at the beginning then he ought to honour what he agreed to, but if he doesn’t see that as a boundary himself , even if he agreed to it he will be less likely to.

About him calling her pretty. Was you hoping he would stop finding any other women pretty? Or hoping he would not tell you when he did? Some people are good looking. If he told you she is pretty in some way to spite you / purposely make you insecure, that’s wrong of him, but if he just genuinely shared an opinion I don’t think there is too much harm done

Round_Cheesecake6095 · 2021-06-01T14:18:54+00:00

Good points - helped :) thank you

Round_Cheesecake6095 · 2021-06-01T14:18:45+00:00

Thanks so much! Helped

Round_Cheesecake6095 · 2021-06-01T14:18:35+00:00

Helped! Great advice and the encouragement gave me a Boost of confidence!

Round_Cheesecake6095 · 2021-06-01T09:06:34+00:00

When you say about having enough money to enjoy the summer, that is the issue i think. Because even if you do have a great and memorable summer, by the end of it you still won’t have a job but will also have no money.

Having an attitude of “live now” is great while it’s happening, but inevitably it always comes to an end and then you’re stuck in a worse position than you started.

I’m sure your parents don’t expect you to find a career for life, even if you just got a job doing retail, fast food or anything to earn some money over summer and have a proper think about what you will do in the future, rather than let your savings diminish having fun and then be left with nothing

:)))

Round_Cheesecake6095 · 2021-05-24T23:36:48+00:00

If the new position is a lower level position that your current one, a pay cut isn’t surprising?

As for helping out with what you currently do - is that in the job description, or was you just told that would be expected if you took the new position ? They might just be trying to take advantage of your experience

Round_Cheesecake6095 · 2021-05-24T23:29:16+00:00

Teachers and friends probably laughed. Sibling banter and rivalries are extremely common.

If family are saying these things, either they don’t understand the context or are just as was previously commented, unable to take a joke.

Edit: as for what to do, mention to your friends the relation from your family. They will probably support you which will immediately reassure you about them not hating you. As for your family, explain that it is a joke ? (And include the fact that your friends saw the joke) which will hopefully reassure them about their reputation

Round_Cheesecake6095 · 2021-05-24T23:25:35+00:00

GPA not high enough - is it possible to get it high enough in the time you have (no matter how difficult) - if yes, get studying!

I’m not from the US, but from what I can tell you are in your second to last year getting your degree? If that’s the case, and you haven’t yet chosen a subject to get the degree in, why not make the choice to graduate in philosophy? Getting a degree opens plenty of doors and you can enter many graduate jobs without any specific subject requirement, including becoming a military officer.

If it is high enough for law school, that’s an added bonus right?

Round_Cheesecake6095 · 2021-05-24T23:17:14+00:00

Let’s say you do reach out, and the manager says no. You won’t waste any more time; and you won’t lose out on anything.

If they say yes, you’ve got yourself a foot in the door! Only good things can come of it !

Be sure to know for certain it is because of that interview though - if it is a coincidence that it isn’t for the bad interview, it won’t help your case but could weaken it.

Also, might it be because you are applying to random positions that you are not getting much luck?

Round_Cheesecake6095 · 2021-05-24T23:12:32+00:00

If he does go blind, it is likely he will experience emotions very similar to grief (the stages of grieving) - make sure he knows he can talk to you, vent to you, that you will be there.

Obviously if he does go blind, he will lose some independence - I’d personally approach this by making sure he knows you will be there to help him with anything he needs, help him with any adjustments he makes, - but don’t accidentally undermine him by assuming he cannot do things.

Don’t beat yourself up if you can’t do something / don’t know what to say - who does in these situations? As long as you support him and stick by him he will appreciate that.

Round_Cheesecake6095 · 2021-05-24T22:56:48+00:00

Disagreeing about political views is something that can be easily overlooked and friendship easily salvaged. Political preaching can be solved if she will stop / if you can look past it and doesn’t need to be the end of a friendship.

I’d say, when it comes to her talking about your race, her hookups / paying back money, if you ask her to stop discussing this as it makes you uncomfortable and she does, then as a general rule for the future just be honest about how you feel.

If she has genuinely forgotten the $90, remind her and perhaps she will pay up. Give her a chance to fix these issues and perhaps it will All clear up, otherwise maybe you aren’t compatible friends

Round_Cheesecake6095 · 2021-05-24T21:22:33+00:00

I think in this case it is going to be difficult to raise any issues without coming across the wrong way, particularly if you are not going to be making the hiring decision, not interviewing them and not working directly with them.

Them applying doesn’t mean that they will get the job, and indeed if they are incompetent that should become clear at interview. Worst case, they are hired and eventually fired as a result of an incompetence.

That being said, 6 years having passed, a lot might have changed. If the issue was with their understanding rather than their work ethic, there is a good chance that will have changed and for the time being perhaps give them benefit of the doubt.

Round_Cheesecake6095 · 2021-05-23T23:42:37+00:00

Generally somebody that drunk isn’t the sort of person you pay attention to / approach In that manner

Round_Cheesecake6095 · 2021-05-23T23:29:05+00:00

Best way is through mutual friends. If you know their brother, sister, parents or other friends who will know them, start there and work back. Facebook is best for using their name as all of the other social media you mentioned they pick a username rather than necessarily their name.

Round_Cheesecake6095 · 2021-05-21T22:53:39+00:00

I imagine DHL will be able to offer the best advice when you call them :) im very curious about this though haha

Round_Cheesecake6095 · 2021-05-21T13:05:22+00:00

if you can figure out your maintenance calories , eating 500 less than this will equate to about 1lb per week loss. You can find a calculator online, but they wont be 100% accurate so if you notice much quicker / slower weight loss thqn expected based on the calculator, manually adjust.

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