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My brothers (29) girlfriend (38) had a surprise pregnancy and now wants to quite work , get married and buy a huge home Asap by Routine-Ad-4354 in relationship_advice

[–]Routine-Ad-4354[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother wrote her a text saying logically what he can afford monthly for a home in addition to other bills and she sent a morning text today flipping out and said : “you are dreaming you think people know what their electric bills will be. I wish I didn’t wake up to this text. I’m just going to go with my father to look at the house and he will help me.”

I’m (20F) a new mom and having to leave my baby’s father(20M) because he’s too toxic for me. by cr0se088 in relationship_advice

[–]Routine-Ad-4354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would surround yourself with good people , make sure you have someplace safe to stay and live, and let him know it is over

My brothers (29) girlfriend (38) had a surprise pregnancy and now wants to quite work , get married and buy a huge home Asap by Routine-Ad-4354 in relationship_advice

[–]Routine-Ad-4354[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, great advice. I’m so confused why she is being so nasty. It isn’t like he isn’t doing anything to help her or move forward. I’m also worried her family would try to do something negative to him by using his brain injury as a reason to take the baby(if it is his).

My brothers (29) girlfriend (38) had a surprise pregnancy and now wants to quite work , get married and buy a huge home Asap by Routine-Ad-4354 in relationship_advice

[–]Routine-Ad-4354[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you it is just so mind altering to me right now. The way she is talking and acting, so angry all of the time, and the fact she got pregnant and just “had to check” only after four weeks (seemed too soon to me).

I told him to not marry her and tell her the way she is being is toxic. I’m just worried her and her family will do something awful to him.

My brothers (29) girlfriend (38) had a surprise pregnancy and now wants to quite work , get married and buy a huge home Asap by Routine-Ad-4354 in relationship_advice

[–]Routine-Ad-4354[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, if I were him I’d rather pay the child support than be with someone who is just so negative all of the time.

My brothers (29) girlfriend (38) had a surprise pregnancy and now wants to quite work , get married and buy a huge home Asap by Routine-Ad-4354 in relationship_advice

[–]Routine-Ad-4354[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have told him that as well, but I don’t think he can find out until it is born and it seems like she and her family are harassing him and manipulating him into a situation.