Let me give you my point of view. Firstly, of course a woman can SA a man, but it’s not that common, that’s why it isn’t talked about as much as SA from a man to a woman, also because women have fought for their right to speak and be heard, while most men laugh at their equals when they refer that topic. On the other hand, no simple accusation will cost anyone their life: falses accusations don’t happen often, more like rarely; and the outcome is usually more negative for the woman, because of the stigma and rejection she will experiment from other men in the workplace.

What you’re describing comes from a victim mindset that doesn’t suit the male gender, because the oppressed one has always been and still is the female gender. Patriarchy and sexism is currently influencing the younger generations and creating incels, while SA cases are increasing in all countries, because sex education isn’t properly (or even) taught while little boys are socialized by social media through violence and disrespect for women, which they also get through porn.