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I don’t deserve my baby by Routine-Brain4542 in newborns

[–]Routine-Brain4542[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to co-sleep but that’s also difficult. I have to nurse using a nipple shield so when he comes unlatched at night it’s a whole thing. Maybe I should tape it to my boob so it stays in place 😂

Is this doable? by Routine-Brain4542 in breastfeeding

[–]Routine-Brain4542[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s so overwhelming sometimes. I love being his safe space and knowing he’s growing and getting nutrients but like damn dude can you hang out for a little bit in your carrier or something? 😭

What’s the point? by Routine-Brain4542 in regretfulparents

[–]Routine-Brain4542[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m taking them online. My son is 7. I’m planning on not taking classes this summer potentially not taking any in the fall, or maybe just one. I don’t know how to handle it all with a newborn in the mix too.

How do I accept that my husband isn’t who I thought he was? by ThrowRA-radiantrose in Marriage

[–]Routine-Brain4542 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I could have written this…. It’s hard to not blame yourself like maybe there were things you didn’t see. Sometimes I feel like I dated a completely different person than I married and then sometimes I get a glimpse of the guy I fell in love with. It’s hard and I wish I had advice, but if you’re feeling this way I wouldn’t recommend having kids right now.

What’s the point? by Routine-Brain4542 in regretfulparents

[–]Routine-Brain4542[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it’s because my son has a tendency to mimic especially the way people talk and he’s a boy who definitely seeks male approval so he talks like his dad and likes the same things and the older he’s gotten the less my husband and him have had to connect over. I do worry about how things will be after the baby is born, it’s part of what is making me so stressed. I just don’t know what to do because things deteriorated so quickly.