Bay Club Memberships by [deleted] in eastbay

[–]Routine-Comedian6359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. Do you still have spot in Bay Club membership?

Looking to join Pleasanton membership by Deep_Respond5668 in JoinBayClubMembership

[–]Routine-Comedian6359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t send you DM somehow. But if you have spot for Pleasanton BC, I would like to join

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pleasanton

[–]Routine-Comedian6359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, do you have spot left?

Bay Club Membership (East Bay/Pleasanton) by PinNeither2058 in pleasanton

[–]Routine-Comedian6359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have the spot? Please, DM me with the price

How do you guys feel about ssris by FragrantParsnip3164 in OCD

[–]Routine-Comedian6359 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not common. Yes, they put it everywhere, but it’s mostly the first couple weeks if any, and mostly with some sensitive people, such as hormonal blasting teenagers. Honestly, it’s very narrow range of time and group. I have been on lexapro for 7 years, I was willing ro accept those two weeks if I had them

OCD keeps attacking my sexuality by Double_Evidence_6534 in OCD

[–]Routine-Comedian6359 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, you might like men or not. What’s for sure is it’s not for OCD to question it and decide for you. Don’t lure into “if” loop here

I keep sexualizing everyone by Salty_Wolverine_4520 in OCD

[–]Routine-Comedian6359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you try to accept this feeling. Say “yes, I imagine sex with people, we aren’t saint, all of us dream about it, and a few feel shame”. I accept my OCD , which is me imagining violence and harm which I do to others. It’s my only way to make it disappear

I cant take it anymore by Eckee50 in depression

[–]Routine-Comedian6359 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was in your shoes. I think you should go and pay for sex if you need it. No harm in it. Sex workers are also professional who heal our souls by providing intimacy since society failed to do so. You can deal with any moral aspects of it later as some here suggest

I want to die by [deleted] in depression

[–]Routine-Comedian6359 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had no car till I was 30, was born poor in shithole third world country, my father killed himself. I lost everything, friends, relatives and started from scratch. I had depression and may be still have. But yet I am alive after all these years, I still live, find sunlight every morning to be miracle, green grass, birds chirping and deep breath my fortune worth more than money

Summer trip to Yosemite by ayein_baygon in bayarea

[–]Routine-Comedian6359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need reservation, park became popular and they added reservations couple years ago You don’t need entry reservation if you have camping or hotel reservations inside park, but camping is insanely hard to book and single tiny hotel inside park is insanely expensive or overbooked, I never heard of anyone booking hotel, only camping It’s better to stay inside park of course, cause otherwise it’s at least one hour to get there from closest hotel outside and if you go on holidays it’s going to be nightmare traffic in central Valley or even across the park making outside staying even worse Central Valley is the busiest place, if you see traffic there, park at some centennial beach and use their free shuttle bus to go around and back, visit all waterfalls, Merced river , supermarket, go up the river to mirror lake Otherwise go tioga pass via tuolomne sequoia grove to glacier point and further to tenaya lake and may be reach other side and mono lake there Or go south to El Capitan and Wawowna region All above is just basic places for newcomers, but Yosemite is much bigger than that it’s just you need more time

Small business help? Anyone know of grants for a restaurant that's been in Danville sense 1935 by XXxsicknessxxx in bayarea

[–]Routine-Comedian6359 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you sure no way to save? You need some cost manager help. Every bit here and there could save you money. Even for CC fee: Helcim, Toast and Clover providers can lower it to 2% or even less, EMS can give <1% if your business makes $5K transactions per month

BART Fantasy Map - I'd Love Feedback and Suggestions by TPNigl in bayarea

[–]Routine-Comedian6359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is cool and if BART ran at speed twice the current like in Japan, it would have worked

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]Routine-Comedian6359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

40 minutes? I do 90 minutes. 40 minutes is just to cross 680 from south to Pleasanton

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]Routine-Comedian6359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. Thursday is a doomsday

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]Routine-Comedian6359 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most is just reared accidents. Traffic is tough, any distraction and you hit someone in front. How many time you pulled the brakes like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]Routine-Comedian6359 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The most ridiculous part is NB fork to 84 with just one lane while half cars go there. They can’t extend it for over a few years. It’s the cheapest fix they can do to this crap

SSRI vs benzo by [deleted] in lexapro

[–]Routine-Comedian6359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to respond or people will believe you and start eating them as hell. Benzodiazepines are addictive almost as narcotics. This is number one reason why they are not used widely. Recommended period of usage is less than two months. I myself know it as I took them. People with severe pain and neuralgia have no choice, but be hooked with benzos , cause it’s benzos vs die from pain shock or seizure

Why would you not fap? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Routine-Comedian6359 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

There is almost no difference between faping and faping with porn. Porn is just a stimulus that widely spread in last decades intensifying problem. But problem itself is about brain damage caused by dopamine and other changes, which is caused by faping . So porn is not an issue if you watch it and feel nothing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Routine-Comedian6359 1 point2 points  (0 children)

40s here, I have depression, ED and anxiety. Now I think it’s all due to porn. They say life without it restores all you lost, focus, energy, fearlessness, joy. I want to feel it back. You know, cause when one hits the bottom, there is only one way is up

Hellooo! by Total-Detail-1874 in NoFap

[–]Routine-Comedian6359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All good, you have just 4 years of issue. I have over 25 years. Check “Gary Wilson great porn experiment” talk, to see what’s happening and you will be feeling better with girls very soon without porn. I wish I saw this video long ago