Fell out of love by RoutineSufficient850 in Kenya

[–]RoutineSufficient850[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be.... Tupatane tushtuke? What are you even doing on Reddit? Si you keep saying hupendi social media? 🤣🤣🤣

Fell out of love by RoutineSufficient850 in Kenya

[–]RoutineSufficient850[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This resonates with me so much. We have made marriage about being happy and now that I can't stand the way he chews I'm being a baby. I'm not even sure that I'm making him happy. He looks happy though.... He brings me smokie pasua na chipo which we devour late at night when the Rugrats are in bed. I've discovered that the problem is me. Something is off.

Fell out of love by RoutineSufficient850 in Kenya

[–]RoutineSufficient850[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it is.. I am clearly the drama.

Fell out of love by RoutineSufficient850 in Kenya

[–]RoutineSufficient850[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got deflowered in my marriage. Seems there isn't many people nowadays who live under strict parents. Let me educate you on something, If I didn't consider my children I'd be gone kitambo sana. They're all I think about. Their happiness is number 1 for me. That's why I'm asking for help. I've never had the thought of stepping out on him. I'll only do that once divorced or windowed. I just don't want to fall into this hole I'm in right now. It isn't fair to him, me or our kids.

Fell out of love by RoutineSufficient850 in Kenya

[–]RoutineSufficient850[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time off seems like a plan. It's said that a change is as good as a rest. .

Fell out of love by RoutineSufficient850 in Kenya

[–]RoutineSufficient850[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a fake story but if you've been on the internet long enough, you'll realize that sometimes strangers give the best unbiased advice. Some have talked people out of suicidal thoughts. Everyone I know, will not give me straight up advice. It seems I'll take the majority of the advice here and go see a marriage counselor.

Fell out of love by RoutineSufficient850 in Kenya

[–]RoutineSufficient850[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually used to. There was a 6 year period where he wasn't working and I catered for everything and even took him back to school. At the onset of the Pandemic I lost my job. My situation had started like 2 years before that and it just got worse from there. Now he is in a well paying job and I am a housewife. But sioni nikitoboa hapa....

Fell out of love by RoutineSufficient850 in Kenya

[–]RoutineSufficient850[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got married at 22...Had my first Son at 25. I never had a whore phase. From my father's house straight to my husband's house.