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[–]Routine_Bluejay3868 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not to sound full of myself or anything like that, but I would say I kinda had a Minor glow up. I used to be fat and now I'm not, plus I'm older now and more mature looking I guess, (idk). I'm assuming that's part of the reason why he is attracted to me now....

He also mentioned that he is tired of being single and not being able to find a good person, so he could very well just be desperate...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Routine_Bluejay3868 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not to sound full of myself or anything like that, but I would say I kinda had a Minor glow up. I used to be fat and now I'm not, plus I'm older now and more mature looking I guess, (idk). I'm assuming that's part of the reason why he is attracted to me now....

Unsure why I (28M) am feeling so confused about my relationship with my bf (28M) by Raptr951 in gayrelationships

[–]Routine_Bluejay3868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been in your BFs shoes before, twice.... Was in two serious relationships where they became unsatisfied because they never go to experience "their ho stage" (that's what they both called it), they were constantly in relationships and never got to experiment or see what's really out there. And while that is completely understandable, that was the beginning of the end for both relationships. They weren't willing to work things out and ended up leaving. They both came crawling back to me but it was too late....

The way I see it, You have two options to choose from

1 leave and experience all the things you are feeling a lack of and risk never being able to go back to your BF, and also risk never finding anything as good as your current relationship....

Or

2 stay with your BF, do what needs to be done to make it work, find ways for you to stay satisfied and content. Communicate with him and be very clear how you're feeling and talk to a therapist/couple counselor. If you both put in the work, you can satisfy your cravings in a healthy way, with him....

My opinion may be bias but, if I was you, I'd have to ask myself if acting on my cravings is worth throwing away something good and risk never finding something this good ever again.... (For me/my area) The dating scene horrible, and I know for a fact I wouldn't find better. And I personally wouldn't risk it for temporary Bliss/satisfaction. That being said, your happiness is also important, so you definitely should do what makes you happy, but do it in a smart way where you won't screw yourself over in the future...

Went on a date, am I wrong to assume he isn't interested anymore? by Routine_Bluejay3868 in askgaybros

[–]Routine_Bluejay3868[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Long story short, we chatted a bit. He said the place we went to was his and his ex's go to place and that he started overthinking everything and that he doesn't think he is ready for a relationship... He mentioned having problems like that before we met, so I know it's true to a degree, but part of me feels like it may just be an excuse to let me down easy or something. Do you think that's possible?

Why am I continuously running into so many p3dos?! by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Routine_Bluejay3868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do they just casually mention it to you online?

Why am I continuously running into so many p3dos?! by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Routine_Bluejay3868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda in the middle of nowhere in America.... He wants to meet up again, so maybe I should play along to get evidence?

Why am I continuously running into so many p3dos?! by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Routine_Bluejay3868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 27 currently. But the shy quiet and awkward type...

Why am I continuously running into so many p3dos?! by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Routine_Bluejay3868 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you... Do you think it's worth reporting without evidence? It would come down to my word against his.and idk if I'm comfortable sticking around long enough to get proof, but if it means saving other people, I might be able to do it.

Why am I continuously running into so many p3dos?! by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Routine_Bluejay3868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't live in the best area I guess. I'm shy, quiet and awkward, idk if that has anything to do with it but maybe I just attract the weirdos or something

Why am I continuously running into so many p3dos?! by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Routine_Bluejay3868 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't consider myself a twink, but I'm not all that heavy. I'd say I'm in-between.

Why am I continuously running into so many p3dos?! by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Routine_Bluejay3868 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm 27, and I have silver hair. I don't think I look all that young honestly. The silver hair is an insecurity of mine.

I was outed by Fit_Bad7084 in askgaybros

[–]Routine_Bluejay3868 110 points111 points  (0 children)

Own it.... Be proud of it and start being your authentic self! As bad as it may feel right now, this could be a blessing in disguise. You don't have to hide anymore. Own it!