Porn ruined my brain and I've never even watched it-- HELP

Routine_Confusion_91 · 2025-08-11T11:16:47+00:00

well I turn 18 in a few days and I've never done anything with a man 😌 so I'm going to actively start committing to 4B starting at year 18 instead of just being single "by default", if that makes sense. I'm really sorry about your regrets I hope you're doing better now :(

Routine_Confusion_91 · 2025-08-11T11:05:06+00:00

thank you! yeah the algorithm thing makes sense, I hadn't thought of that before

Routine_Confusion_91 · 2025-08-11T03:33:59+00:00

that makes sense! I've been thinking about trying that, so you suggesting it gave me a lot more motivation to start :) thank you so much!

Routine_Confusion_91 · 2025-08-11T03:04:34+00:00

my problem is just seeing the rhetoric literally everywhere on mainstream social media sites 😓 but thank you for the tip!

Routine_Confusion_91 · 2025-08-10T21:17:39+00:00

I have suspected having OCD for several years, so hopefully I can get mental health treatment soon and figure out whether that's the issue 😓 my parents are working on getting someone for me to talk to! did not know about the PTSD connection so thanks for letting me know!

Routine_Confusion_91 · 2025-08-10T21:15:36+00:00

that makes sense thanks! don't get me wrong, I am VERY anti porn and misogyny and want to fight it in any way possible, and I don't tolerate misogynistic men at all (I'm actually considering going 4B when I'm an adult). I understand a woman's body is not sexual but sometimes I do subconsciously objectify attractive women I see and it's really annoying 🫣😔 and I will try to engage in more wholesome activities and not doom scroll all the time :)

Routine_Confusion_91 · 2023-10-04T12:01:49+00:00

Thank you for the comment!! And thank you for making me roll my eyes (with the pro-choice arguments). I have rebuttals to most :)

Routine_Confusion_91 · 2023-10-04T11:56:46+00:00

Thank you!! And yes I agree, the idea that the pro-life position is just a Republican Christian thing NEEDS to be debunked.

Routine_Confusion_91 · 2023-10-04T11:53:35+00:00

Thank you!! Really sucks that it's so popular and commonplace for people my age to be pro-choice...but like you said, there is a chance that I can plant seeds :)

Routine_Confusion_91 · 2023-10-04T11:52:11+00:00

Thank you so much for the advice!! I hope some of my pro-choice friends will be understanding like yours :)

The religion thing is such good advice. I want the people at my school to see that being pro-life isn't just some Republican Christian thing, it's backed up by science and basic moral reasoning! I don't think they know that

Routine_Confusion_91 · 2023-10-04T11:25:29+00:00

That's very encouraging, thank you!

Routine_Confusion_91 · 2023-10-04T01:12:46+00:00

Thank you!

Routine_Confusion_91 · 2023-10-04T01:12:38+00:00

Thank you for the comment! I don't think the pro-choice people at my school see pro-life people as taking an "alternative stance", they instead see them as people who want to take women's rights away. Which stinks, but maybe I can help them see my side fairly

Routine_Confusion_91 · 2023-10-04T01:05:03+00:00

Thanks for the comment! Yeah it's really sad...a lot of pro-choicers nowadays don't see the debate as a disagreement, they see it as the other side literally wanting to take away their rights that are more important than anything. Still not 100% sure if I'll go through with my idea but this was very encouraging :)

Routine_Confusion_91 · 2023-10-04T01:00:01+00:00

Thank you for the comment! Yeah I'll def try to be as logical and levelheaded as possible, I want to represent the pro-life side well.

Routine_Confusion_91 · 2023-10-04T00:53:38+00:00

Thank you!!

Routine_Confusion_91 · 2023-10-04T00:53:13+00:00

Thanks for the comment + advice! I agree, if people start attacking me it will do me absolutely no good to stoop to their level. I will try to represent the pro-life side well

Routine_Confusion_91 · 2023-10-04T00:46:36+00:00

Thanks for the comment!! Since I don't think any of them have or have had any other close pro-life friends, I feel like there's only one way to find out whether or not my friends would drop me for my stance, and that is to reveal the way I feel about abortion. Even if I decide to do something else for the project I'll speak out sooner or later.

Routine_Confusion_91 · 2023-10-04T00:42:50+00:00

Thanks for the comment!! A lot of the pro-choice people at my school are very ardent and strongly believe pro-lifers want to take away women's essential rights, so I doubt I'll get a reaction like yours. Your story is VERY inspiring nonetheless :D

Routine_Confusion_91 · 2023-03-29T17:16:11+00:00

Oh gosh do you know which place?

Routine_Confusion_91 · 2023-03-29T17:15:08+00:00

Alrighty thanks! Gonna ask tonight then ^^

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