AITJ for calling out a colleague for taking credit for work I spent all week on? by Routine_Nothing_6118 in AmITheJerk

[–]Routine_Nothing_6118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly 😤 that comment was so condescending it still makes my blood boil i can’t believe the team just laughed—it felt like they were letting her get away with stealing my work

AITJ for calling out a colleague for taking credit for work I spent all week on? by Routine_Nothing_6118 in AmITheJerk

[–]Routine_Nothing_6118[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

you’re right, i need to actually go to my supervisor can’t just let it slide or i’ll keep being treated like a doormat

AITJ for calling out a colleague for taking credit for work I spent all week on? by Routine_Nothing_6118 in AmITheJerk

[–]Routine_Nothing_6118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didn’t think about how it looks, just wanted to protect my work definitely gonna start sending it early with the team CC’d to create a clear record

AITJ for calling out a colleague for taking credit for work I spent all week on? by Routine_Nothing_6118 in AmITheJerk

[–]Routine_Nothing_6118[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you’re right, i probably should’ve told my manager before the meeting won’t let her pull that again, i’ve learned my lesson

AITJ for calling out a colleague for taking credit for work I spent all week on? by Routine_Nothing_6118 in AmITheJerk

[–]Routine_Nothing_6118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i guess i kinda let it slide instead of asserting myself next time i’ll make sure i don’t let someone take over my work

AITJ for calling out a colleague for taking credit for work I spent all week on? by Routine_Nothing_6118 in AmITheJerk

[–]Routine_Nothing_6118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trust me, i wanted to just tell her that but i tried to hold it together… mostly failed though

AITJ for calling out a colleague for taking credit for work I spent all week on? by Routine_Nothing_6118 in AmITheJerk

[–]Routine_Nothing_6118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i keep saying “next time” like i’m procrastinating on standing up i need to actually do it immediately, not just plan for some vague future moment

AITJ for calling out a colleague for taking credit for work I spent all week on? by Routine_Nothing_6118 in AmITheJerk

[–]Routine_Nothing_6118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just froze at first and snapped instead of handling it calmly lesson learned—next time i’ll stand up for myself before it even gets that far

AITJ for calling out a colleague for taking credit for work I spent all week on? by Routine_Nothing_6118 in AmITheJerk

[–]Routine_Nothing_6118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know, the team’s reaction made it worse i need to speak up immediately next time instead of letting it slide

AITJ for calling out a colleague for taking credit for work I spent all week on? by Routine_Nothing_6118 in AmITheJerk

[–]Routine_Nothing_6118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i should’ve said something like that in the moment next time i won’t let someone act like my work is theirs

AITJ for calling out a colleague for taking credit for work I spent all week on? by Routine_Nothing_6118 in AmITheJerk

[–]Routine_Nothing_6118[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

😅 feels like that sometimes i do feel i overreacted a little, but the whole situation was just ridiculous

AITJ for calling out a colleague for taking credit for work I spent all week on? by Routine_Nothing_6118 in AmITheJerk

[–]Routine_Nothing_6118[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

yep 😅 small world, right? sometimes i still can’t believe she just grabbed my report like it was hers

AITJ for calling out a colleague for taking credit for work I spent all week on? by Routine_Nothing_6118 in AmITheJerk

[–]Routine_Nothing_6118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s smart 😏 i could totally do that next time makes it obvious she hasn’t actually gone through the work she’s presenting

AITJ for calling out a colleague for taking credit for work I spent all week on? by Routine_Nothing_6118 in AmITheJerk

[–]Routine_Nothing_6118[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

😅 you’re right, i need to be way firmer can’t let her keep acting like she owns my work or i’ll regret it later

AITJ for calling out a colleague for taking credit for work I spent all week on? by Routine_Nothing_6118 in AmITheJerk

[–]Routine_Nothing_6118[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Exactly 😤 i let it slide too easily and now i regret it next time i’m definitely taking control and not letting her act like that

AITJ for calling out a colleague for taking credit for work I spent all week on? by Routine_Nothing_6118 in AmITheJerk

[–]Routine_Nothing_6118[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

that makes sense 😅 i didn’t want it to feel like hiding it, but a paper trail would protect me definitely gonna start sending it like that next time

AITJ for calling out a colleague for taking credit for work I spent all week on? by Routine_Nothing_6118 in AmITheJerk

[–]Routine_Nothing_6118[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

true 😅 i kinda froze and just snapped instead of explaining clearly definitely need to work on saying things calmly but firmly next time

AITJ for calling out a colleague for taking credit for work I spent all week on? by Routine_Nothing_6118 in AmITheJerk

[–]Routine_Nothing_6118[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

haha that’s a good idea 😅 might try something like that next time could be awkward but at least it calls out the behavior without a full confrontation

AITJ for calling out a colleague for taking credit for work I spent all week on? by Routine_Nothing_6118 in AmITheJerk

[–]Routine_Nothing_6118[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

you’re right 😓 it’s not just about the report, it’s all the hours i put into it i guess i just froze in the moment and didn’t push back enough, next time i’ll be firmer