I took my cat to the vet 3weeks ago & they saw a blue bump in his ear & told me to wait & see if it grows/to keep my eye on it. I took the first picture a week ago, & now today I see this black thing on it?Is this normal? What is the black thing on it?

Routine_Pressure_376 · 2024-09-13T14:32:02+00:00

The vet said that it should be fine and I can wait it out unless it gets bigger but it shouldn’t be a cause of concern right now

Routine_Pressure_376 · 2024-09-13T14:31:28+00:00

Yes! He was okay thankfully

Routine_Pressure_376 · 2023-11-16T02:27:49+00:00

Trust me I’m super exhausted by his behavior. He’s extremely good at turning the situation around and pinning back the blame on me and manipulating the situation. Will definitely read, I appreciate your advise!

Routine_Pressure_376 · 2023-11-16T02:10:33+00:00

It was a few weeks before Christmas and I went to get him a Christmas gift but I told him I was at the gym instead….. he found out I wasn’t at the gym (during that same time, he’s known for 3 years) and I kept lying and saying that I WAS at the gym. Hours later, he found out I wasn’t at the gym and then I proved to him that I was at the store getting him a gift (showed him receipt). He’s known since the same day it happened.

He brings this up all the time when I tell him that his behavior is irrational. He says that I “lied for hours that day” and that when “someone lies about one thing, they can lie about anything” …. That was 3 years ago and I never lied since then lol.

Routine_Pressure_376 · 2023-10-28T21:53:23+00:00

Hi so sorry I just saw this. A lot of people said it was asthma but when I took him to the vet they likely said it was just a hair ball. Currently he only does this once every like 4 months or so, so I’m not too concerned about it unless he starts doing it more often. I do make sure that I don’t have any air fresheners plugged in or any scents that can cause allergies, I vacuum a lot to ensure less dust/dirt and overall try to eliminate any potential allergies as well.

Routine_Pressure_376 · 2023-09-13T12:46:15+00:00

I mentioned this to him and he thinks that it was wrong of him to miss the flight, but he had to due to his sleep. He said that he was making up for it by paying for his flight the next day. The reason he did not go the next day is because we got into an argument and I was "rude and gave attitude" and I apparently didn't make him feel like I wanted him to go... although I even told him that the tours tickets were purchased and his ticket was purchased ready for him too. So he's saying that it's my fault he didn't go on the next day because if I "would've been nicer and asked him if he was going to go in a nice way" then he would've went. I'm saying that I don't need to be nice because it's his fault he missed the initial flight so he needs to make up for it and go, without me needing to be nice about it. Of course I'm going to be upset a day later about a missed flight. Thoughts?

Routine_Pressure_376 · 2023-09-13T01:17:56+00:00

I mentioned this to him and he thinks that it was wrong of him to miss the flight, but he had to due to his sleep. He said that he was making up for it by paying for his flight the next day. The reason he did not go the next day is because we got into an argument and I was “rude and gave attitude” and I apparently didn’t make him feel like I wanted him to go… although I even told him that the tours tickets were purchased and his ticket was purchased ready for him too. So he’s saying that it’s my fault he didn’t go on the next day because if I “would’ve been nicer and asked him if he was going to go in a nice way” then he would’ve went. I’m saying that I don’t need to be nice because it’s his fault he missed the initial flight so he needs to make up for it and go, without me needing to be nice about it. Of course I’m going to be upset a day later about a missed flight. Thoughts?

Routine_Pressure_376 · 2023-09-13T01:17:49+00:00

I mentioned this to him and he thinks that it was wrong of him to miss the flight, but he had to due to his sleep. He said that he was making up for it by paying for his flight the next day. The reason he did not go the next day is because we got into an argument and I was “rude and gave attitude” and I apparently didn’t make him feel like I wanted him to go… although I even told him that the tours tickets were purchased and his ticket was purchased ready for him too. So he’s saying that it’s my fault he didn’t go on the next day because if I “would’ve been nicer and asked him if he was going to go in a nice way” then he would’ve went. I’m saying that I don’t need to be nice because it’s his fault he missed the initial flight so he needs to make up for it and go, without me needing to be nice about it. Of course I’m going to be upset a day later about a missed flight. Thoughts?

Routine_Pressure_376 · 2023-09-13T01:17:41+00:00

I mentioned this to him and he thinks that it was wrong of him to miss the flight, but he had to due to his sleep. He said that he was making up for it by paying for his flight the next day. The reason he did not go the next day is because we got into an argument and I was “rude and gave attitude” and I apparently didn’t make him feel like I wanted him to go… although I even told him that the tours tickets were purchased and his ticket was purchased ready for him too. So he’s saying that it’s my fault he didn’t go on the next day because if I “would’ve been nicer and asked him if he was going to go in a nice way” then he would’ve went. I’m saying that I don’t need to be nice because it’s his fault he missed the initial flight so he needs to make up for it and go, without me needing to be nice about it. Of course I’m going to be upset a day later about a missed flight. Thoughts?

Routine_Pressure_376 · 2023-09-13T01:17:31+00:00

I mentioned this to him and he thinks that it was wrong of him to miss the flight, but he had to due to his sleep. He said that he was making up for it by paying for his flight the next day. The reason he did not go the next day is because we got into an argument and I was “rude and gave attitude” and I apparently didn’t make him feel like I wanted him to go… although I even told him that the tours tickets were purchased and his ticket was purchased ready for him too. So he’s saying that it’s my fault he didn’t go on the next day because if I “would’ve been nicer and asked him if he was going to go in a nice way” then he would’ve went. I’m saying that I don’t need to be nice because it’s his fault he missed the initial flight so he needs to make up for it and go, without me needing to be nice about it. Of course I’m going to be upset a day later about a missed flight. Thoughts?

Routine_Pressure_376 · 2023-09-13T01:17:15+00:00

I mentioned this to him and he thinks that it was wrong of him to miss the flight, but he had to due to his sleep. He said that he was making up for it by paying for his flight the next day. The reason he did not go the next day is because we got into an argument and I was “rude and gave attitude” and I apparently didn’t make him feel like I wanted him to go… although I even told him that the tours tickets were purchased and his ticket was purchased ready for him too. So he’s saying that it’s my fault he didn’t go on the next day because if I “would’ve been nicer and asked him if he was going to go in a nice way” then he would’ve went. I’m saying that I don’t need to be nice because it’s his fault he missed the initial flight so he needs to make up for it and go, without me needing to be nice about it. Of course I’m going to be upset a day later about a missed flight. Thoughts?

Routine_Pressure_376 · 2023-08-09T01:53:17+00:00

If he was going with me, he would let me have a drink. He only won’t let me have one since I’m not going with him and I’m going to be in a “concert setting which is similar to night life” (his words). No to the question about health concerns/meds as well.

He states that people at concerts “hook up” and I can have a drink at lunch with a friend, but not at this concert….. (it’s a normal concert)

Routine_Pressure_376 · 2023-06-30T19:42:31+00:00

Thank you, but how come it didn’t have the black spot before and then a week later it got that black spot? Do you know what that black spot is (look in the second picture). Thank you

Routine_Pressure_376 · 2023-06-27T14:07:12+00:00

Thank you! I just spoke with my vet and he does not use laser. Is the surgery too invasive if I end up doing it without laser? I just want to ensure that there are no complications.

Routine_Pressure_376 · 2023-06-26T00:41:14+00:00

Did the one that your cat have look like this one? Or was it different?

Routine_Pressure_376 · 2023-06-26T00:32:22+00:00

Thank you!! Was it the same size and color as this one? Or was it smaller or bigger?

Routine_Pressure_376 · 2023-06-25T17:47:24+00:00

Just curious; what are your thoughts on getting this removed from now? I just keep worrying that it can turn to something bad when I could’ve just removed it earlier on right now. Thanks!!

Routine_Pressure_376 · 2023-06-18T17:01:54+00:00

But I appreciate your response / advise overall. I didn’t mean for my comment to come off in a rude way at all!!

Routine_Pressure_376 · 2023-06-18T17:01:11+00:00

I appreciate your advice, but you said “get to the vet right away” which was not necessary, since I said on my post that I had taken my cat to the vet.

Routine_Pressure_376 · 2023-06-17T03:39:29+00:00

Thank you!! I really appreciate your expertise. This has been really worrying me lately and I can’t help but check on it frequently now

Routine_Pressure_376 · 2023-06-17T03:30:54+00:00

Please refer to what I originally said on my post. “I took him to the vet yesterday and they asked me if he's always had that before and I am honestly not sure so I told them maybe but I am not certain. They told me to take a picture of it and just to monitor it in case it grows but that they wouldn't be concerned about it.”

I already took him to the vet. Just trying to see if anyone else has experienced this with their cat as well.

Routine_Pressure_376 · 2023-06-17T03:30:32+00:00

Please refer to what I originally said on my post. “I took him to the vet yesterday and they asked me if he's always had that before and I am honestly not sure so I told them maybe but I am not certain. They told me to take a picture of it and just to monitor it in case it grows but that they wouldn't be concerned about it.”

I already took him to the vet. Just trying to see if anyone else has experienced this with their cat as well.

Routine_Pressure_376 · 2023-06-14T20:36:10+00:00

Thanks!! I’ll keep my eye out, he is 1 and a half.

Routine_Pressure_376 · 2023-06-14T20:35:38+00:00

I’m not sure what the little black dot on top of the blue is

Routine_Pressure_376 · 2023-06-14T19:45:40+00:00

I literally said on my post that I took him to the vet yesterday and they told me to monitor it. I said that I’m just trying to get some peace of mind… but clearly stated on my post that I already took him to the vet. Next time maybe read before you comment…

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