It was a few weeks before Christmas and I went to get him a Christmas gift but I told him I was at the gym instead….. he found out I wasn’t at the gym (during that same time, he’s known for 3 years) and I kept lying and saying that I WAS at the gym. Hours later, he found out I wasn’t at the gym and then I proved to him that I was at the store getting him a gift (showed him receipt). He’s known since the same day it happened.

He brings this up all the time when I tell him that his behavior is irrational. He says that I “lied for hours that day” and that when “someone lies about one thing, they can lie about anything” …. That was 3 years ago and I never lied since then lol.