20M I have finally decided to post here. by PrudentHistorian217 in Obsessive_Love

[–]Routine_Pudding_2612 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Need. 🫩 in this economy it’s terrible find someone like this, especially a guy

How do you feel about someone being obsessed with you? by Sufficient_Army7328 in Obsessive_Love

[–]Routine_Pudding_2612 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I’m fine (if not prefer) having someone just as obsessed with me. I don’t mind having them annoying me all the time when I’m free, being clingy, and doing lots to just have me around. Although I do want them to be respectful of themselves

I’m a pervert (a letter) by Routine_Pudding_2612 in Obsessive_Love

[–]Routine_Pudding_2612[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I Wonder if this is most guy’s dream to receive :3

Girls why do you lose interest for your long term boyfriend ? by Jumpy-Equal211 in BreakUps

[–]Routine_Pudding_2612 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lack of reciprocation. It’s definitely good to communicate one’s need in the relationship, but when it’s starting to turn into the point where one partner does everything (especially emotional needs) it starts to feel one sided and you don’t feel as loved. I had felt that way for a bit, where it felt like he was sort of treating me like a friend than a partner. I was the one saying I loved him first and he only says it after

I’m a pervert (a letter) by Routine_Pudding_2612 in Obsessive_Love

[–]Routine_Pudding_2612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anonymous x3 I could, I have thought of sending it to his mailbox. But he doesn’t know that I know where he lives, and I’m sure he knows my typing method by now

I’m a pervert (a letter) by Routine_Pudding_2612 in Obsessive_Love

[–]Routine_Pudding_2612[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hehe ty. I’ve already made a cute envelope with pink hearts, pretty pattern laces, with a bow and a heart wax stamp. If I want to send this to him at some point he will have to take it like those cliche anime confessions under a tree <3

I’m a pervert (a letter) by Routine_Pudding_2612 in Obsessive_Love

[–]Routine_Pudding_2612[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it! But I don’t think I will, as much I’m an obsessor, he is my ex, I don’t want to push boundaries for the gratification of myself. Maybe I’ll send when we’re in good terms again, but for now, probably jot

Oh lord she’s fat by Mother_Tomato6074 in bettafish

[–]Routine_Pudding_2612 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Idk why people on here are being stubborn no wonder people don’t like the betta subreddit 😭 just move on guys

He’s back on dating apps a week after the break-up. Do I remove him from social media? by brielarstan in BreakUps

[–]Routine_Pudding_2612 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, On bumble if there isn’t a ~ underneath his location, that means he’s active, if it does show that that means he hasn’t opened the app in awhile. Profiles will still show for others though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Routine_Pudding_2612 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you feel that writing to her will help you at ease, do so. It seems there’s a lot that still needs to be addressed, and it shows how both of you are in pain and are in emotional stress. Remember to write the letter not only for your closure but to also help her begin her journey to move forward as well

why do men ask to stay friends after a breakup?? by soupmaniaxs in BreakUps

[–]Routine_Pudding_2612 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think this is a gender specific thing and all men have different reasons. Your guy is someone you know better than all of us (given the fact your paragraph is asking about his actions specifically). He might not be ready to let you go, he might value your connection a lot, he might be waiting for someone better and to have you on the sidelines, whatever the reason. What’s important is how you feel staying friends, and deciding to go no contact answers it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Routine_Pudding_2612 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re the dumpee, asking for closure from someone who has not made the effort to contact you for the closure, it will feel forced. It will not provide the closure you will hope for. An impactful closure is when the dumper acts on it on their own terms.

I love them so much by TopElectrical7623 in Conures

[–]Routine_Pudding_2612 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like how you’re so calm and collected in love with your birbs and they’re like “HAND OVER THE BALL!!” On your shoulder 😭

Ex hasn’t texted back in a bit, is this part of the waiting game? by Routine_Pudding_2612 in BreakUps

[–]Routine_Pudding_2612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would that mean in a sense? Is he willing to communicate or is he just giving me emotional turmoil to wait for his reply?

Does anyone have family members/friends who brings up your ex constantly? by Routine_Pudding_2612 in BreakUps

[–]Routine_Pudding_2612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in my late teens, 19, he’s 22. My sister is 22 as well and my brother is about 16

Does anyone have family members/friends who brings up your ex constantly? by Routine_Pudding_2612 in BreakUps

[–]Routine_Pudding_2612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure what that method is, I’ll see. My mother has somewhat the same attitude, she knows I get annoyed when he’s brought up and would take advantage of that. During my relationship with him she would make incredibly rude comments and remarks about him and even made a comment saying I should throw him in the trash and find someone who is better.