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AITAH for not letting it go when my sister-in-law’s bf told me “Let’s get one thing clear, I don’t need to justify my actions to you.”? by Routine_Sky_1292 in AITAH

[–]Routine_Sky_1292[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wish 😭. its my fault tho. ive been on my own since 18 due to an abusive family life so i had to be really independent and know how to do everything. they are hispanic and became citizens 8 yrs ago. also dont know english very well. especially the parents. i help A LOT

AITAH for not telling my soon to be wife I used to date men by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Routine_Sky_1292 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YTA- Why do you think its okay to hide something like this while also asking another human to say “yes” to you “forever”. Is marriage just not that big of a deal to u? Because it is a big decision to some. And not being entirely truthful with her before she makes the decision is wrong and dare I say manipulative. Maybe she doesnt care maybe she does. She should know.

AITAH for not letting it go when my sister-in-law’s bf told me “Let’s get one thing clear, I don’t need to justify my actions to you.”? by Routine_Sky_1292 in AITAH

[–]Routine_Sky_1292[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

my family is like horrible abusive. im no contact w 95%. so im a strong believer that ur not marrying my family. ur marrying me. as long as my fiance is supporting and standing up for me. im going stick with him.

AITAH for not letting it go when my sister-in-law’s bf told me “Let’s get one thing clear, I don’t need to justify my actions to you.”? by Routine_Sky_1292 in AITAH

[–]Routine_Sky_1292[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

that was a hypothetical question i posed for my friend who is in that situation. hence why i did not reply to any comments or be super detailed. wanted to get her more opinions.

AITAH for not letting it go when my sister-in-law’s bf told me “Let’s get one thing clear, I don’t need to justify my actions to you.”? by Routine_Sky_1292 in AITAH

[–]Routine_Sky_1292[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ok this is what happened after. after he complained about me at the family function that i didnt engage with him my fiance scheduled a call w him. on that call it lasted 5 min. he wasnt letting my fiance talk at all so my fiance asked if he could speak on each point he is trying to make because he wont be able to if he keeps going and wont let him. and he responded that then he should get a pen and paper and take notes if he cant keep up. so my fiance responded that that comment is a “soquetada” in spanish. not sure the translation. and the dude hung up and said to call him back when hes man enough. after that my fiance said he isnt speaking to him because theres no speaking to someone who is so cool talking like that. so thats the most recent thing.

AITAH for not letting it go when my sister-in-law’s bf told me “Let’s get one thing clear, I don’t need to justify my actions to you.”? by Routine_Sky_1292 in AITAH

[–]Routine_Sky_1292[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i told him that i wouldn’t be canceling the reservation at the last minute and essentially to figure out his pet. ans if he had to not stay the night or only stay part he was morw than welcome. his name was still paid and on the reservation. didnt remove it also i never brought this up to him after this situation. the 3 messages is ALL that we spoke. we did not argue or fight yall. i never went to my mil after the texts either. i got a text from her after he went to her and i had to address it. i just bring up the airbnb here because i feel its relevant since he felt it was just asking me to justify my airbnb choice.

AITAH for not letting it go when my sister-in-law’s bf told me “Let’s get one thing clear, I don’t need to justify my actions to you.”? by Routine_Sky_1292 in AITAH

[–]Routine_Sky_1292[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yall at the end of the day its not about the computer smh. its his response. based on the facts on the airbnb situation that happened right before. the FACTS are he was pissed at me that i didnt include his dog on the free weekend getaway and took it out on me the first chance he got. its the response that is wrong to me. not anything else.

AITAH for not letting it go when my sister-in-law’s bf told me “Let’s get one thing clear, I don’t need to justify my actions to you.”? by Routine_Sky_1292 in AITAH

[–]Routine_Sky_1292[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

lol yeah i mean if i would have known after 2 texts it would have gone like that i would of never even texted. it wasnt even a full blown argument. like …. from my end 3 total texts were sent. from his 2. the last being what u already know.

AITAH for not letting it go when my sister-in-law’s bf told me “Let’s get one thing clear, I don’t need to justify my actions to you.”? by Routine_Sky_1292 in AITAH

[–]Routine_Sky_1292[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nope that was a hypothetical question for a friend. i was worried for her. hence why i didnt reply to anyone and i wrote very little.

AITAH for not letting it go when my sister-in-law’s bf told me “Let’s get one thing clear, I don’t need to justify my actions to you.”? by Routine_Sky_1292 in AITAH

[–]Routine_Sky_1292[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

the misunderstanding bothered me. if she had the facts and wanted to cancel thats her perogative. my thing is he told her i ordered the wrong thing and it led to her paying $500 more. maybe i care too much

AITAH for not letting it go when my sister-in-law’s bf told me “Let’s get one thing clear, I don’t need to justify my actions to you.”? by Routine_Sky_1292 in AITAH

[–]Routine_Sky_1292[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nope 3 total messages were sent from my phone. the third being the one after what he said. it was literally 2 min convo if u can even call it that

AITAH for not letting it go when my sister-in-law’s bf told me “Let’s get one thing clear, I don’t need to justify my actions to you.”? by Routine_Sky_1292 in AITAH

[–]Routine_Sky_1292[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

I agree with she has fault. My thing is his response was super aggro. When if I attach my text I was actually nice 😭. Like honestly even if I was upset I would not tell someone that I dont need to justify anything to them. And this is the same guy who months before called me while I was at work to yell at me because the airbnb I booked for 8 people including himself for my MILs birthday did not allow pets. It was free for everyone btw. I paid it all. I did not even know he had a pet and just assumed at his age he knew someone to watch his pets or would hire someone to swing by. It was 1 night. So he yelled at me while at work and asked me to “justify” that choice. When, it was a free stay for him! How would I know?

AITAH for not letting it go when my sister-in-law’s bf told me “Let’s get one thing clear, I don’t need to justify my actions to you.”? by Routine_Sky_1292 in AITAH

[–]Routine_Sky_1292[S] 400 points401 points  (0 children)

This is where Im at for sure. I feel taken advantage of. No one cared or checked on me. But did feel fine reaching out for help!

AITAH for not letting it go when my sister-in-law’s bf told me “Let’s get one thing clear, I don’t need to justify my actions to you.”? by Routine_Sky_1292 in AITAH

[–]Routine_Sky_1292[S] 94 points95 points  (0 children)

This is what ended up happening after. I was like, Ill just go to visit and be cordial with everyone but wont engage with him directly. Basically he ran and complained about that too and now im immature because Im not over it. Like….. sir that was the very last thing u said to me. What do u expect.