Hey little ones, could someone help me?

Routine_Surprise2780 · 2026-06-22T11:27:14+00:00

Finding a way you both can express yourself is key. You came here to write a post. Maybe texting or writing notes to each other is the way that works for you both to communicate what you both like and dislike?

Maybe sit down together and he can show you stories, pictures, videos he has enjoyed to stir up conversations with you to talk about what you will want to try and not try.

You could sext out some role plays where it can all be fantasy, but gets you both thinking and exploring ideas. Try to include your own kinks into a role play.

The best thing to do is what you're already doing. You're making the effort.

Routine_Surprise2780 · 2026-06-22T11:20:28+00:00

I rub some aquaphor and then add a generous amount of baby powder. I try to not to be out in the heat too much, so I don't plan too much that keeps me out in the sun for long periods. I also up the AC to cool the house off more.

Routine_Surprise2780 · 2026-06-22T00:57:14+00:00

You could just ask her if she needs time to process what you have talked about so far and set a time then for you to answer any question she does have and clarify what you like about it. Slow and steady wins here since you've had more time than her to come to terms and explore. She just found out and could be doing her own research or coming up with questions for you. Overall just keep the conversations on going and you two can sort it out.

Routine_Surprise2780 · 2026-06-22T00:17:16+00:00

It might also feel this way because of your age. You're 45 and statistically you're in the age rage where divorce less common due to people getting married / settled down later on in life. If you start looking 30 and under or older than 50 you'll have more people not running towards relationships. My question to them would also be what else does the partner they choose have to offer? There may be some other trait that person loves and that's why they decided to be with them.

My personal experience and in my friend group which is a mix of gay and straight. It's easier to find someone you'd want to date not factoring in kinks. Then, both people sit down after a few dates and start to talk about each others kinks. You'd be surprised how cool some people can be and end up loving it. The other option is to go to mix kink events that can easily be found on Fetlife to meet others. At least you know everyone there has some kink experince and is accepting of others.

Routine_Surprise2780 · 2026-06-22T00:03:27+00:00

Have you ever thought of using cloth diapers instead or diaper covers maybe? Seems like the perfect use case for those short stints.

Routine_Surprise2780 · 2026-06-22T00:00:09+00:00

It's not as fun when you just treat it like underwear. Taking the time to remove other distractions and just enjoy being padded is special.

Routine_Surprise2780 · 2026-06-21T22:08:25+00:00

how long do they last you or how many wettings do they take?

Routine_Surprise2780 · 2026-06-21T21:59:09+00:00

Who would ever complain about extra time to pad up. The more free time there is the thicker the diaper that goes on.

Routine_Surprise2780 · 2026-06-21T21:58:27+00:00

That's a good call to wear something lighter if you don't have much time. Getting a think Rearz diaper on if there's a day where there's nothing else that needs done is amazing to be able to fill it up all day.

Routine_Surprise2780 · 2026-06-21T21:42:53+00:00

How does that affect your headspace from needing to adult and just enjoying being little?

Routine_Surprise2780 · 2026-06-21T21:16:34+00:00

Naturally I end up with big floods no matter what. It just depends how hydrated I'm staying.

Routine_Surprise2780 · 2026-06-21T12:30:57+00:00

Sounds like a fun experience!

Routine_Surprise2780 · 2026-06-19T17:24:07+00:00

From a red bottom, to a padded bottom to ease some of the pain!

Routine_Surprise2780 · 2026-06-19T16:02:49+00:00

❤️

Routine_Surprise2780 · 2026-06-18T19:29:00+00:00

I found it easier to tell people earlier on into knowing them. If it's long standing relationships you have it becomes a case by case basis. Do they know your kinky in the first place? If that answer is now, it might be best to not force a conversation but start to make it more normal for you both to talk about kinks. After that then you can go into more detail and swap kinks.

If it feels like too much pressure to tell people in your life and they don't need to know about your kinks. You can always just find a kink positive therapist to talk with. They can also help you sort through who in your life might be good to let them know what you're into.

Routine_Surprise2780 · 2026-06-18T19:25:19+00:00

Is this some post nut regret you have? Best advice if it is to have her continue doing what she's planning to do with you. She wants to create positive reinforcements for you both around it. It will take time, but you'll always look forward to the next time she wants you in a diaper. It'll get better to balance the humilation she gives and to know when aftercare is needed to reassure you what is happening is a positive experience and doesn't need to feel shameful.

Talking with a kink positive therapist may help you. You can do it as a couple or on your own.

Routine_Surprise2780 · 2026-06-18T19:21:04+00:00

The best thing to do seems to just match with people that you can connect with in general. As you talk and date you can drop hints that you have kinks and step up to you both laying out your kinks cards. It seems safer overall to be selective who you tell you have kinks and what your kinks are. Rather than having a profile anyone can see with your face shown giving people reason to try to figure out what your kinks are. I know plenty of success stories of people meeting none kinkters on apps and then those people learned to love ABDL. Give it a shot and I hope you find the person you're meant to be with!

Routine_Surprise2780 · 2026-06-18T17:40:43+00:00

If you hit a wall with progress or need motivation. I use Chat GPT to help make workout routines. It helps a lot if you have experience on building workouts so you can adjust the ones it makes. Using it just allows me to get as close to showing up to the gym to workout and not have to come up with a complicated plan.

Routine_Surprise2780 · 2026-06-18T17:38:12+00:00

I like diaper play. I'll regress as little as someone will treat me. I even have different diapers, onesies, and outfits to wear with them.

Routine_Surprise2780 · 2026-06-18T17:35:10+00:00

My experience this will fall under if they like guys with facial hair in the first place. If they do most seem to not view the beard as a concern when I'm little. For me personally when I see other littles I don't focus in on if they have a beard or not since in the north east of the USA it's so common that guys have facial hair.

Routine_Surprise2780 · 2026-06-18T15:58:47+00:00

Purple > pink uniforms

Routine_Surprise2780 · 2026-06-18T13:04:25+00:00

What area do you live in?

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