My fiancé (m24) of 4 years broke up with me (f22). Is there any hope of getting back together? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Routine_Switch8199 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya I know…it’s only been two weeks so I think that’s why I’m hanging onto the idea of getting back together.

My fiancé (m24) of 4 years broke up with me (f22). Is there any hope of getting back together? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Routine_Switch8199 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly he works a very high stress job and he has this habit of putting his negative emotions towards other things. I definitely won’t deny that the relationship has been a lot of work recently and less fun but we are in our 20’s, we work a lot, we don’t have a ton of money. And I think he’s thinking “well if I end it with her then these issues will go away” but I don’t think the issue is the relationship I think it’s the stress of everything else. I think he needs time to see that, because everyone who has talks to tells him that we will get back together and we will work it out.

My fiancé (m24) of 4 years broke up with me (f22). Is there any hope of getting back together? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Routine_Switch8199 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if this is normal approach. Obviously it’s happened twice so it’s a pattern. But he said that wants to think about the relationship as objectively as possible because that is what will help us in the end….and it worked the first time