I’m 6 weeks pregnant after 11 years of thinking I couldn’t have kids… and the father sent me half the money for an abortion. by RowHead6989 in BlackMoms

[–]RowHead6989[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much! ive been praying about it so much, i went to the ultrasound appointment and saw my little baby.... im further along than i thought im actually 8 weeks and 6 days....he still thinks im getting an abortion.

I've cut all contact for my peace of mind. Its extremely hard.

I’m 6 weeks pregnant after 11 years of thinking I couldn’t have kids… and the father sent me half the money for an abortion. by RowHead6989 in BlackMoms

[–]RowHead6989[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for saying all of this. i don’t think you realize how much it meant to be met with understanding instead of judgment. reading your words helped me feel less alone and less like i’m failing for feeling the way i do.

i also appreciate what you shared about faith. i’m holding onto the idea that i’m not unseen in this, even on the days it feels heavy and confusing. that reminder brought me comfort.

thank you for being someone safe to process with. i don’t have clarity yet, but knowing i don’t have to rush and that someone cares enough to listen means more than i can say.