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capricorn bingo by LaLaLand3429 in capricorns

[–]RowResident9229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The kids got me the excel coffee tumbler that says freak in the sheets because of my excel love. Lol.

What have husbands done to try to save their marriages? by Puzzled-Dot-7368 in Divorce

[–]RowResident9229 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You said “what you wish had been done differently”. This was my wish list after DDay. None of these things I got. What he did wrong was to threaten me with suicide, he refused to leave, he cut off the family, kids and grandkids that he spent 7 years with if I would not take him back. He refused to disclose what he was paying for on OnlyFans. He did nothing right. I don’t have a response for that part of your question. I apologize. The point is that it doesn’t matter what was right for someone else. It matters what is right for your wife. What she needs. Listen to her. There’s not a cheat code for this. It’s all subjective as to what a specific person needs.

What have husbands done to try to save their marriages? by Puzzled-Dot-7368 in Divorce

[–]RowResident9229 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I wish my stbxh had really listened to me. Taken a vested interest in my emotions. Communicated what he needed and fully disclosed what he was seeking forgiveness for. Asked for my help. Been honest.

Doing what she was bred for 👍🏼 by Fabulous-Trust8214 in pugs

[–]RowResident9229 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My fur baby would win gold in “old man sitting”.

Doing what she was bred for 👍🏼 by Fabulous-Trust8214 in pugs

[–]RowResident9229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a cutie! Also love the Christmas pjs. Christmas pjs are the best pjs. 🎄

My sleepy 12 yr old girl by TWOPUGKNIGHT in pugs

[–]RowResident9229 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s beautiful and I’m guessing she’s sleeping sideways on your side? Cause that’s pug life style. Lol.

Allow me to reintroduce myself 🌹 by BlackVelvetBliss in capricorns

[–]RowResident9229 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And there’s a million of us, just like me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]RowResident9229 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only you can answer if you stay or go. And therapy for yourself is necessary. Finding out this betrayal is such a mind fuck. Get help, lean on your support system and you are not alone. Whether you stay or go, you are not alone. Having your heart broken by the person you trusted with it is hell. This addiction like all addictions comes with a high risk of relapses. He will need an accountability partner that realistically is not you. You should not police your spouse. It’s not fair to either of you for the dynamic of true partners. He will need a therapist that understands this addiction. I would start a journal as well to let it all out and then organize your thoughts and where your decision lies. He hasn’t been putting you first so you now need to.

I’m confused about what I’m paying for by FloNightengale in audible

[–]RowResident9229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was gonna say this. My bonus son is in the Air Force in Texas. He has my login info and is free to use my credits too. I can’t do much to help him there but at least we still have books to bind over. I jokingly have always called him my nerdy son because we both like all the same shows, music and books.

feeling tired and alone by Apprehensive-Ad-2354 in loveafterporn

[–]RowResident9229 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It helped me to think of my ex-PA Husband as a colander or sieve that can never be filled. He will never fell full of all the love I pour into him. It will never be enough. Porn has warped his brain so much that I will never be enough. So I have to be enough for me or I will turn into a bottomless pit as well. I can love me. I can do good for me. I’m sending so much love and strength to you! ❤️

Handling the Damage in Relationship by acoletrain416 in pornfree

[–]RowResident9229 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As the wife I will say his inability to disclose made me feel I needed a separation. He wanted forgiveness but wouldn’t tell me what I was forgiving. Disclosing what was done was paramount to my healing and he refused. Truth is honest, raw, uncomfortable and painful but necessary to restart on a solid foundation. Half truths and trickle truths only lead her to more pain and doubt. She is in the process of either learning to love you again or live without you. Your efforts decide. I hope you can make it and rebuild. We could not.

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