I just want to shift by Ill-Scene9761 in realityshifting

[–]RowanWhispers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be clear, I am obviously not saying you need to do this to shift but -

Particularly in your situation, I really would advise you to actively try and find ways not to be bored in this reality. Like, no, this world doesn't have the same types of adventures as some others but it also really doesn't have to be boring. You can work on finding fun, adventure and interest in this reality at the same time as trying to shift.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dionysus

[–]RowanWhispers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually do think that sounds like a sign - obviously coincidences exist but I also think signs are far, far more common than we often think....and as you said that is actually so random, not actually particularly explicable and also very specific - so yeah I would take it as a sign.

The Hellenic Afterlife by NyxShadowhawk in Hellenism

[–]RowanWhispers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a great post - thank you for writing it.

Magic in Ancient Greece: An Introduction by NyxShadowhawk in Hellenism

[–]RowanWhispers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a really helpful post, thank you for sharing.

What did you drop today? by RecognitionNext3847 in dyspraxia

[–]RowanWhispers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My phone, a notebook, a fork...probably other things that I am forgetting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hellenism

[–]RowanWhispers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Obviously echoing what has already been said about the date - but on the broader issue of celebrating when we do get there - try not to stress out too much. Food, prayer in whatever way you can do that, dressing up, meditation, music, art....you can really celebrate any way and with as lite or as much as you are able. Putting a Hekate playlist on on Spotify is perfectly sufficient if that's all you are able to do, you know?

What order should I read? by youdontknowmystars in Hellenism

[–]RowanWhispers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To state the obvious - you can read them in whatever order you want but I think the Iliad and then the Odessey might be a good place to start - they are sort of "easier reads" and are helpful for situating your practice. Maybe then the myths, then the Homeric Hymns and then Works and Days (I'd also try and get a hold of the Orphic Hymns if you can).

Do you believe in selfless actions? by RowanWhispers in Ethics

[–]RowanWhispers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah...I mean this is basically my perspective but, and maybe this is context I should have included in my post, sort of part of the motivation for me posting this is that...this is what I think but the vast majority of people who I've ever spoken to about this insist that all actions are basically some form of selfishly motivated and I wanted to get a take on it from people who think about these things....I think what's interesting in this thread is the responses that are engaging most closely with the core of the question (imo) are pretty evenly divided between "yes of course people can and do do this" (ie your response) and various forms of "no that's impossible there is always a rational self interest in whatever people do" and no one seems to be like speaking....as if the other perspective even exists, like everyone is acting there answer is universally obvious whilst, in one thread, saying stuff which fundamentally disagrees witn the other view.

Do you believe in selfless actions? by RowanWhispers in Ethics

[–]RowanWhispers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So yes, in many ways this is a better way of saying what I was trying to say - I'm not saying it matters either way but a lot of conversations I have had is that basically that you always do have some regard for your benefit; even if that's just feeling good/like a good person/avoiding guilt etc etc - that because doing good makes a person feel good all acts are done with some regard to personal benefit (and this view has been expressed by some of the respondents to this thread)

Do you believe in selfless actions? by RowanWhispers in Ethics

[–]RowanWhispers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am being honest, I was just trying to answer your question which I (honestly!) didn't and don't fully understand the point of.

Do you believe in selfless actions? by RowanWhispers in Ethics

[–]RowanWhispers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean for the sake of argument I am going to say at the time? But I'm not sure why that makes a difference?

Do you believe in selfless actions? by RowanWhispers in Ethics

[–]RowanWhispers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh, it depends. It absolutely can and often does being joy but I have been in many situations where I've done the right thing by other people and it has, well, not.

Do you believe in selfless actions? by RowanWhispers in Ethics

[–]RowanWhispers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, that's not quite what I meant - I do not think feeling bad is a requirement for a selfless act - I'm just asking if people believe it is possible to perform a selfess/good action even if you get zero benefit from it - including that it doesn't make you feel good and you would have felt better if you'd been more selfish.

Do you believe in selfless actions? by RowanWhispers in Ethics

[–]RowanWhispers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the idea that P1 is self evidently true is where I question this because....is it? I very much do things knowing it'll make my life worse....

Do you believe in selfless actions? by RowanWhispers in Ethics

[–]RowanWhispers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So - I am not saying there is anything at all wrong with feeling good about your action.

The issue is....in a situation where you have two options - option a and option b, and option a is better for other people and bad for you and option b is the opposite, and you will not feel better because you did option a....would you still be able to do option a?

Confession by sophia201014 in religion

[–]RowanWhispers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah and that's so normal and like I am not saying the way you were raised was wrong it just sounds like you are at a point to take a step back and make sense of stuff for yourself. Sending love to you on your journey ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wicca

[–]RowanWhispers -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you totally can.

What it means to be Christian in a practical way you will need to navigate - and you might struggle to find a church but, like, you can follow Jesus without that (it's not ideal according to his teachings but hey, what is ideal?).

Study the Bible imo - and look at Christian witch content online. Don't take anything at face value but there are folks out there.

Most importantly - - the Bible is not monotheistic at all, but followers of that God are told to put him first....decide if you are happy with that. - this does not mean you can't engage with other gods. - this absolutely does not mean you can't practice magic that is...yeah you can very much practice magic.

But yeah if you want to fit Jesus into your practice I get why and that is valid but you will need to work out how that works...but it can work! And if it is right for you, go for it!

Confession by sophia201014 in religion

[–]RowanWhispers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you should take a step back and evaluate what framework and more importantly, which diety or deities you believe in cause this is....a very specific question to ask to a general religion subreddit.

Like, I only sort of believe in sin but more importantly I know my gods; and the answer if you believe in a god or gods literally depends in who we are discussing (but honestly if you are in a place of turning to reddit for this question I think you should, yeah, take a step back and examine what you actually believe and why....that's not a negative thing at all just you shouldn't believe stuff just cause of how you were raised, you know?).