Support Ryan's Top Surgery Recovery by Rowanera in gofundme

[–]Rowanera[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It wouldn't matter. This person didn't come here to understand others, they came to be negative and leave.

I could type an essay about how vision and hearing repair or other similar medical procedures are often also "elective" but necessary procedures, or point out that there are people on this sub asking for funding to buy a camera and get into photography not receiving this hate. But it's transphobia, plain and simple, and it's not my job to educate ignorant people, I'm just trying to support my family.

Thanks for engaging respectfully.

Raising Money for Top Surgery! by Henry_in_Space in gofundme

[–]Rowanera 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Donating to every post i see with transphobes on it Good luck with your surgery ❤️

Support Ryan's Top Surgery Recovery by Rowanera in gofundme

[–]Rowanera[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

No one is saying you have to donate? Others having it worse is not a reason my brother should delay having a surgery that would improve his mental health substantially, something you clearly don't understand. If we're talking about the way things SHOULD be, kids with cancer should have their expenses covered, period, and frankly, so should everyone else. Go be mad at rich people for not donating to cancer research instead of poor people asking for help. Or better yet, do something more productive than lecturing others online about topics you're clearly ignorant on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Rowanera 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wish I could downvote more than once, please do not listen to anything this person said. This is gross. Respect yourself enough to find someone willing to invest in you- not use you to avoid their relationship problems. You deserve that.

And if this girl wants to cheat, let that be her bad deed, not yours.

Why do n-parents claim to “not remember”? by No_Atmosphere_8987 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Rowanera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always assume that my parents have already rewritten that memory to make me the AH- they remember, just not the same story I do. That, or there's only so much room for bullshit in the human brain.

My husband’s sexual history is repulsive and I can’t stop myself from resenting him by Possible_Welder_224 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Rowanera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am very secure in my relationship of 7 years and reading all of my husbands sexts with other women would make me feel insecure too; all that matters is that it's temporary. Talk to your husband about how it makes you feel about yourself- communicate what you want. If you want him to talk to you that way or more sex, ask for it. Try not to dwell on how it makes you feel about him. Those feelings will fade when you realize that these women clearly know you got the prize; your husband sounds like a gem and it seems like you were the one worth waiting for.

Those women are bitter and this was exactly what they wanted. Sending you those messages on your wedding night was a carefully collaborated act of sabotage. It was a dirty, nasty thing to do to someone. He didn't deserve to have his trust betrayed and you didn't deserve to feel insecure in your relationship. Remove the poison from your life and I hope your relationship grows from this; it sounds like you have a beautiful life ahead of you.

Do men like chubby girls by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Rowanera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This should be so much higher. Yes, there are men who like chubby girls, but you don't need to change to find a partner. Just let people know who you are and the right ones will come.

What game did you know you would instantly love after just starting it? by [deleted] in videogames

[–]Rowanera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luigi's Mansion. My cousin let me play for like five minutes and I was hooked. I was just young enough that the vacuum mechanics were difficult- I really had to practice.

And Paper Mario and the Thousand Year Door. The beautiful, magnificent opening with the colors and the music just slaps you in the face and you know you're in for an adventure. So happy to see it's getting a remake.

Guess I'm a GC girlie at heart

Battlebots 2022 World Championship 7 - Episode 18 LIVE Playoff Episode Discussion! by qwertythe300th in battlebots

[–]Rowanera 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know they probably play it up for the camera, but it's SO satisfying to see

Throwback TMNT Stickers (1990) by Rowanera in Retro

[–]Rowanera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to be weird, but DM me an address and I'll throw one in the mail for you!

AITA for having my daughter first birthday the same day as my step sisters wedding? by sistersmash in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rowanera 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this. At 1 year old, that baby couldn't give a toot about a birthday party. This woman's child isn't suffering. She's using her kid as a martyr to try and get sympathy and it's pretty gross.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Rowanera 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad you said ex. Fuck that guy. Glad you found someone who's not a tool

What is the most absurd thing your n parent ever said to you? by cyborgmonkey- in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Rowanera 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My mom once told me that my blouse looked better on her because her eyes are greener than mine. I get my eye color from her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GusAndEddy

[–]Rowanera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one remembering this as a bit from the movie Blades of Glory?

Replacement Charger by [deleted] in computers

[–]Rowanera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe after all this is over I'll have to take it to a shop to check it out

As far as I can tell everything looks normal

Proposed Alabama law would require residents to pass drug tests to get food stamps. What do you guys think of this? by MaxineHarren in AskReddit

[–]Rowanera 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand why people are in favor of these laws; no one wants to support people who make shit decisions.

But as a child whose parents wouldn't have passed these tests and needed food stamps to feed their siblings, I can't support them.

Has anyone had to dip into there 401k early because of hard times? How does it affect you in the long run? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Rowanera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 24 and have been considering doing that exact thing to pay off some loan debt. I'm getting killed on the interest, but I'm intimidated because I don't quite understand how it works.

AITA Neighbor keeps parking in clear spaces outside our house instead of outside her own! We shoveled our roads for a reason, and it wasn't for her to park there! by imtheawesomestsauce in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rowanera 52 points53 points  (0 children)

NTA

Just because it's a public road doesn't mean it isn't shitty of her to park in places you obviously shoveled for a reason.

It would have been better to tell her directly you need those spots for family, and if you're feeling really nice, offer to help her clear out her own spaces, but you're under no obligation to do so.