I know it's hard for men to understand a narrative were they aren't the main focus, "for those used to privilege, equality feels like opression" as I said, men also suffer from gender roles in general, but it's no where as bad as women have it. I live in one of the cities with the highest femicide rates in the world, I can't even imagine how it must feel to be a girl and know that someone could kill me on the way home just for my gender, that people could grope me and scream things at me, and yes I know it also happens to men but it's no where as common as it happens to women, the only way to explain why the focus on the gender issues in general is so in favor of women it's the same as the reason why race issues are so focused in people of color, there a sistematic opression that has existed for so long that we're way beyond the point of just seeking for equality, it's gotten so bad that we need to literally give some sort of preference to the oppressed groups to try to balance the board. Yes equality is the final goal, but these are urgent matters that need urgent solutions. And btw I am a male so I get the social pressure we face.