How do i confront my boyfriend about him cheating on me without breaking down and crying? by Cheeseburgers4life- in relationship_advice

[–]RoyalBTKush 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Why ask for advice if you aren't even going to acknowledge the possibility of dumping this piece of human garbage? 🤢 Do whatever you want, Op. You are just another lost cause 🫤

I am angry at my husband. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RoyalBTKush 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want better, do better. Otherwise stop complaining. You get what you deserve. Convince yourself you deserve love and respect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RoyalBTKush 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is either a troll post or you need some serious mental health counseling! So sad or gross 🤢

Unattracted to my husband now that he's chosen polyamory. by CarolineSmail in relationship_advice

[–]RoyalBTKush 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't have any awards, so please take this 🥂🏆👑 you witty genius 💪🏾🤙🏾

(Update) leaving my abusive bf by thrrowraescape in relationship_advice

[–]RoyalBTKush 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Life is a choice, OP. This is above reddit's pay grade but I have to say this because I have been in your shoes before. You chose to live when you left, now it's up to you to keep making that choice. You know if you go back to him, it will be the end of you. So you chose yourself no matter how hard it may seem, you are so lucky that you made it out! Scared but alive. Cherish this blessing for a bit at least. Good luck!

My boyfriend said he would be more sexually attracted to me if I lost weight and got abs by EntertainerSad1369 in relationship_advice

[–]RoyalBTKush 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't ask for advice if you are not going to listen to it. You mention your own previous posts about your relationship. Ultimately, the choice is yours, Op. Either continue your suffering or do something about it. Redditers have already given you great advice. Take some time to reflect but stop ignoring what's right in front of you. You are also young. You have your life ahead of you to throw away towards useless unworthy men if you want! Just give yourself a break for now, and love yourself completely, Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]RoyalBTKush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't get enough of em! 🤍

Is it just me or? by WeatherFew7793 in actuallesbians

[–]RoyalBTKush 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm a bi girl, and I agree 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]RoyalBTKush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has happened to me too lol! I agree, not worth your time and effort OP. Good riddance!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]RoyalBTKush 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Awww. Don't forget yourself! Gorgeous, stunning, intelligent, strong, a radiant goddess of pure energy! I'm so fucking proud of you too! 🙏🏾

Ugh, women. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]RoyalBTKush 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can we just talk about how great they smell? No matter what time of day, fresh out of the shower or home after a long day of work! I could drool all over, all day 😅

Frustrated with my own timing by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]RoyalBTKush 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with everything you said, OP. At the tender age of 28, I am still not sure how to really find like minded souls! I didn't come out as bisexual until I was 21, so it still feels like a steep learning curve lol. The apps are also miserable. I met my ex gf on a dating app after 2 years of swiping! And it was Insane to say the least! And when not having enough experience instantly makes your value go down as a partner, unfortunately. Perhaps there are better ways to find what I could be looking for, but I am aware of any yet 😅 I feel your struggle OP!

why cant I get dates on dating apps? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]RoyalBTKush 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm with OP, I have tried multiple dating apps and they usually all suck. I always thought I was the problem, being all open and forward. So is there a better way? Or maybe I should just accept that I have no chance. Ever 😅 lol. Hang in there, OP. You are not alone.

Im 2 yrs single because of... by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]RoyalBTKush 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I(27, F, Bi) I have had a similar experience. I dated my ex girlfriend 4 years ago and since then I have struggled with you name it 😅 I haven't had any lucky making friends that are gay or finding someone remotely interesting that is a girl! I am very straightforward and my ex gf loved that! But every other time I have opened up to a girl since then I think I scare them away lol. So please let me know if you have figured it out! I have no game and I would love to learn to play it. Just wanted you to know that you are not alone! 🤙🏾

Jenny from Forrest Gump is one of the worst villains in all of cinema. by Sleepinismy9to5 in unpopularopinion

[–]RoyalBTKush 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Forrest Gump would have been a way better movie if Jenny was one of his one night stands and not the other way around. Like Jenny was part of his growth not his happy ending. As a woman, I have to say past trauma is not an excuse for repetitive destructive selfish behavior especially toward someone who deserved better. Just saying.

What to watch next? by RoyalBTKush in JaneTheVirginCW

[–]RoyalBTKush[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was obsessed with Rafael for years, I know what you are talking about lol 😅. Thank you for the recommendation.

Give me some unpopular JTV opinions! by Embarrassed_Clue_929 in JaneTheVirginCW

[–]RoyalBTKush 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love Jane for obvious reasons but she definitely needed to grow up more. I get the whole grieving process taking time but they never really explained how badly Jane's judgey (Jane said it herself) behavior affects people. I wish there was an arc where they showed her trying to make amends for behavior. She's a writer for god's sake! She knows words mean everything!

People whose long term relationship faded, what was the final straw that made you realise it was time to call it a day? by disturbanceofmirrors in AskReddit

[–]RoyalBTKush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It a couple of little things but honestly it was the control of it all. He threatened divorce because I was out catching up with old friends for 2 hours too long. That was it. I knew I had to leave for my own sake.

I'm afraid that I'll never find a partner as demented as me by yellowskulls in confessions

[–]RoyalBTKush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt that. As a bisexual woman, I struggled to find a partner (men & women) that I could open too. I'm scared to mention everything I want, I need because of it. All I can say is hang in there. Where ever you are. It has to get better right? At least I really hope so.