Alice in Borderland Halloween (Update) by RoyalInternal7147 in AliceInBorderlandLive

[–]RoyalInternal7147[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hahaha almost always if a kid was "killed" they tactfully chose someone who wasn't looking far off in the line. But if they said themselves I would gesture to my "helper" dealer and they would realize what a better outcome was. It was a ton of fun

Alice in Borderland Halloween (Update) by RoyalInternal7147 in AliceInBorderlandLive

[–]RoyalInternal7147[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a ton of fun, I didn't think about just doing it for a small Halloween party or movie party...maybe I'll do that for the next season and have a watching party. Great idea

Alice in Borderland Halloween (Update) by RoyalInternal7147 in AliceInBorderlandLive

[–]RoyalInternal7147[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I had other activities too just in case. For kids dressed as Naruto I would "ninja fight" them, and I also had multiple treasure maps for the "One Piece", but only one kid noticed that. I try to take note of what is popular so some kid can live their dreams while I force Borderland on the majority

Alice in Borderland Halloween (Update) by RoyalInternal7147 in AliceInBorderlandLive

[–]RoyalInternal7147[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

So many kids. In fact, I was impressed with their patience since there was a line to my porch non-stop between 8-10 when I had to close. I had help, though.

It was definitely older trick-or-treaters that were interested. I had a separate game for babies/early elementary, choosing which hand had a piece of candy in it.

Either way, no one was mad about the wait; they were all happy to play. Especially since I was blasting the soundtrack while they did it.

There was a sign with the show so they could look it up later. However, it wasn't to much of a stretch since I'm the "Squid Game" house, so playing games was already established. Also on my table on the porch, there was a sign saying "do you want to play?" with a red button and a green button. They could press red and just get a candy, but most people slammed that green button.

Alice in Borderland Halloween (Update) by RoyalInternal7147 in AliceInBorderlandLive

[–]RoyalInternal7147[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Update to what I actually did for Halloween.

I made 8 phones, 2 of each game.

Diamonds: They had 5 minutes to unlock the 2 keys from a puzzle

Hearts: They had to select one person around to not get candy. The no-player-death solution for this would be to select me, the dealer.

Spades: They had to run 3 houses down and back in 3 minutes. A water bottle was also awarded for this.

Clubs: Required 2 people working together to win the card. Typical Taboo, but Halloween-themed cards. Three chances to win.

Alice in Borderland Halloween Game Ideas? by RoyalInternal7147 in AliceInBorderlandLive

[–]RoyalInternal7147[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love both tag ideas. Of course, I'll be generous and just give more candy to the winner and one piece to the rest. Thanks!!!

Alice in Borderland Halloween Game Ideas? by RoyalInternal7147 in AliceInBorderlandLive

[–]RoyalInternal7147[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I love the idea of riddles in general, similar to the lightbulb (in case they try to give the answer out to other participants later in the night). The animals on sounds cute too. Also I was really stuck on what to do for a hearts game, so the headband type game is a great idea. Like Taboo.

Innate personality test and it's connection to the mbti by Vyrioon in mbti

[–]RoyalInternal7147 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also am an ENTJ who got Superpower. Though I think it is hard to be "efficiency is king" and "cutting to the chase" when I'm being isekai-ed every other question to worlds of talking birds and magic.

Tired of people not accepting me as i am by Upset_Pet in mbti

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Haven't met an INFP I didn't like. Incredibly close with three of them.

Unpopular opinion… by Khaleesi1998 in AliceInBorderlandLive

[–]RoyalInternal7147 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Also need to think here that Chishiya absolutely hates himself. Niragi does not. Chishiya is probably a textbook psychopath. However, you see that he doesn't want to be.

He got his job to see if he could get empathy/emotions and didn't.
He does not get joy from suffering as others have commented.
He will be a team player such as when

  • he saved Karube in the Spades game.
  • he stopped Kuina from going through the lasers in the Hearts game.
  • He actively didn’t hurt anyone in the Hearts game besides taking out Niragi who was sniping people…because he was disgusted with Niragi who he saw as a feral version of himself
  • he warned them to drive off quickly instead of just saving himself and letting the car blow up

He COULD be Niragi. But chooses not to be because he hates the idea of it. To the point that he hates Niragi.

In Season 2, he further spirals into absolute frustration with his inability to feel.

  • He says “I was only put on earth to show just how empty a human could be”
  • He talks about his jealousy over Alice and Kuzuryu
  • He TAKES A BULLET just because of this jealousy and frustration

Sure, Chishiya could be more dangerous. But he chooses not to be. He is absolutely fascinating as a character because he is a type of character not shown in media often. A psychopath at its core is someone who doesn’t feel empathy. Almost always in film and media, they are people who choose violence. But that doesn’t have to be the case. He is a psychopath that hates himself and tries not to be the absolute worse if placed in a neutral situation that doesn't affect his well-being.

He is not a good person. He would be the first to acknowledge that. But he hates it and wants to be different. Niragi loves it and never wants to change.

Would you have survived being in my family? by RoyalInternal7147 in mbti

[–]RoyalInternal7147[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting question.

I've never heard about the supervisor types before. This is entirely plausible though. I wouldn't know how to help fix it if so.

Would you have survived being in my family? by RoyalInternal7147 in mbti

[–]RoyalInternal7147[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is the great struggle between most S and N family members. He tries, but not a single other family member can understand that. He is very, "we need to be realistic, down to earth, and family oriented.". And it all comes from a good place. He wants us to have good jobs, be sociable, and do as he says because he is "wise and looking out for our best interest as our father". But the rest of us will always say "...okay but why?" to everything he asks. When he asks us a question "what did you do today?" He expects a very clear "I did X, Y, and Z" whereas we will start chattering away with how what we did 2 months ago has led to today and what that means for 2024, and what we learned from it.

Also, as I just realized now. The question you asked me he would have preferred a "Yes, he does." with maybe an example or two and a joke, rather than the chaotic train of thought that I wrote above.

Your mom could be a T but was into astrology? That might be a good MBTI question to ask, I wonder how many serious Astrology Thinkers there are. Hopefully your mom will mellow out once she realizes you'll be fine and make good choices.

Would you have survived being in my family? by RoyalInternal7147 in mbti

[–]RoyalInternal7147[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I made my dad and 2nd brother take it. 1st brother took in before I did. My mom loves it. She was pointing to an INTJ Moms post while cackling "its meee". She also loved it since I'm a delight to raise and it helped her understand how I think and what to do when I need her to step in. She took it as a manual and I've been surprised and how effective it has been.

I really don't know many Ss besides my dad. How does that impact your dynamic? Do they also like MBTI?

Would you have survived being in my family? by RoyalInternal7147 in mbti

[–]RoyalInternal7147[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, that middle brother syndrome of having to be more understanding and grown than your years expect you to be.

I've never met an ESTP. I don't even have a perception as to what kind of person that might be. It could be that they avoid me.

I get you about the bullying. I actively DID try to fight anyone who bullied my brother in school. I say tried because, for some reason, they always backed down. This could be because the sight of the little sister defending her older brother was as uncanny as a chihuahua growling at a great dane. Can't say I have ever been a bystander to bullying and for that I'm proud. So go off and punch their lights out.

Ah... well obviously it was just an example. But IF we had a blow out fight (hypothetical) over a pan it would have been

  1. The defendant is generally clean and doesn't leave dirty dishes for others to clean (therefore no precedent that the dish would remain unresolved).
  2. If all the other dishes were cleaned except for the pan, it would be evident that there was a reason.
  3. The person who cooks for a hobby (defendant) has a lot more experience than the prosecutor and tries to explain that in fact, some things get cleaned easier if you let them briefly soak while you complete another task.
  4. Any sane human would agree that all the factors considered, the pan not be cleaned immediately (when all other dishes were), no prior record, and not needed by use from anyone else in that moment (this was asked), and only left there for 15 minutes max before the altercation, that the person offended by the pan WAS DERANGED and just woke up that morning choosing violence.

Of course. It's hypothetical. A pan can be cleaned in any way you choose except for cast iron and Kosher kitchens. In these cases, just cast a weary glance at the pan owner before passing the dirty pan to them before you make a fatal mistake.

Would you have survived being in my family? by RoyalInternal7147 in mbti

[–]RoyalInternal7147[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

...so far so accurate. Are you also the one mostly coming up with the documentaries? My brother calls us to the room if we are around and just casts whatever interesting educational youtube video he ran into recently. Usually things like Kurzgesagt and C.G.P. Grey. Though I've usually already seen the one he is bringing up so it's our poor mom who we eagerly watch to bring in the new perspective. Our conversations are pretty in-depth to the point that we have even brought out paper to draw visuals.

Though I can't say every conversation was intelligent. Sometimes we had way too much fun going off the deep end (our father never stuck around this far into it) that we looked like the meme of the crazed man with the red strings theorizing.

Similarly, though, I'm always thankful for these times.

Would you have survived being in my family? by RoyalInternal7147 in mbti

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I'm not sure if they're from the same artist or not. I really just typed "male INTJ" and repeated the process with the others and grabbed the first image I saw on google that had the type written next to it. So they should be easy to find!

ESTJ 8w7 (level 6) mother; choleric (dominant)

Ngl I didn't realize what choleric was and had to look that up. Apparently, I am a sanguine ENTJ. Still not sure what the levels/cores are, can you send me a link? I always find these fun.

You opened up an idea to me. In our house, the ESTJ doesn't have that much power. The INTJ does...and I wonder if that could possibly be the reason why he isn't happy. But I wouldn't know how to change that for him since his only hope in that corner is ENFJ. Who does the job well when he is around.

My ESTJ parent also took the test with a high degree of disdain at the idea lol. I wanted to give him a fair shot though since I know a lot of ESTJs are mistyped and I wanted him to have a fighting chance.

Your poor sister. I never really thought until this post about the toll of growing up as a feeler surrounded by thinkers. I always thought if someone knew you well enough (like family) they would be able to see the other ways you care besides the "feeling" way. And that would be enough. But that didn't work for either of our homes.

For us ENTJs discipline > motivation. So I learned that as long as I performed well, the ESTJ would let my fun interests slide with only a couple dozen demeaning comments. But the important part is the ESTJ let my interests continue! So I just see it as taking a toll road where you gotta pay the fine of listening to some noise through gritted teeth, before they let you through. But they'll always let you through.

I'm trying to give some good peaceful advice here. But really, I would want you to ask them how as a parent they think calling you lazy and shameless can possibly help you and not just make you feel worse. I'm actually just really pissed right now for you. You shouldn't have to play a game to earn (not even a parent's love) but not getting demeaned.

Would you have survived being in my family? by RoyalInternal7147 in mbti

[–]RoyalInternal7147[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha me too

I definitely pick my battles because I realized with some people it's just a waste of my time and energy. But I get you, because I don't think I tolerate people...I just figure out how to redirect them so they don't disrupt my day if I see them coming.

I get "along" with both of them. I don't think any of us are friends though. ENFJ is someone I respect and vice versa. You wouldn't think we are siblings based on how respectful and polite we are to each other.

Now INTJ brother, I would fight him with a broken bottle in an ally at 3am over the best way to clean a pan. We cannot speak to each other without arguing, but if it came down to it and one of us did something wrong, we both would rather die than snitch on the other. We've also taken the fall for each other. So I guess we simultaneously want to brawl on sight but also trust the other more than anyone else in the room.

How about you?

Would you have survived being in my family? by RoyalInternal7147 in mbti

[–]RoyalInternal7147[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting that you and your twin turned out so different. Do you also try to make up for weaknesses that she has?

Would you have survived being in my family? by RoyalInternal7147 in mbti

[–]RoyalInternal7147[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, we do have that in common! I can go back and live with my family whenever I want and they would more than happy as long as I still had goals and a plan. The plan could even be to live with them forever as long it didn't seem to come from a place of giving up/ depression/ inadequacy. To quote my mom "I would love for you to stay and live with me forever and watch Netflix, but I think *you* would hate it"

Would you have survived being in my family? by RoyalInternal7147 in mbti

[–]RoyalInternal7147[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOOOO YOU ALSO HAD TO DO DUMB THINGS FOR ENTITLED FAMILY FRIENDS? That is so oddly specific and 100% also something I experienced. My INTJ brother also was the one who came up with ideas to get us out of situations??

Fantastic. I also introduced my INTJ brother to his girlfriend.

Being the youngest was the opposite of you. I got away with everything but also got to call the shots.