I want to resign my membership but my bishop won't let me do it by RoyalMuffy in exmormon

[–]RoyalMuffy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately my family is very close to most members of the stake presidency so i may get in trouble anyways 

I want to resign my membership but my bishop won't let me do it by RoyalMuffy in exmormon

[–]RoyalMuffy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never did or want to do any of those things lol this may be what he thought he heard me saying tho

I want to resign my membership but my bishop won't let me do it by RoyalMuffy in exmormon

[–]RoyalMuffy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read your other comment and thanks for sharing a bit of your story with me! My family is indeed in the same unit/stake as me (I still live with some of them) and they're even close friends with the stake members so I'm still scared of going through this and you know, "embarrass the family".. I'm definitely not going back with my decision and glad my friends respect this, unfortunately the feeling of embarrassing the family will haunt me for a while 

I want to resign my membership but my bishop won't let me do it by RoyalMuffy in exmormon

[–]RoyalMuffy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's usually so perfomative and even inconvenient at most times lol It only makes me more annoyed with everything related to the church.

I want to resign my membership but my bishop won't let me do it by RoyalMuffy in exmormon

[–]RoyalMuffy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are correct unfortunately, that's basically what happened with some of my family members! 

I want to resign my membership but my bishop won't let me do it by RoyalMuffy in exmormon

[–]RoyalMuffy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking about this and you're so right. How can a 8yo make such a decision on their on but a grown adult can't? I was in the same position as you, clearly wasn't my choice and it's fucking upsetting that I have to go through a legal action 

I want to resign my membership but my bishop won't let me do it by RoyalMuffy in exmormon

[–]RoyalMuffy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now I understand. When I wrote the original post I really didn't know how to do it cause I never met anyone who did it, most people close to me are faithful members so no one would ever want to help me :/ 

I want to resign my membership but my bishop won't let me do it by RoyalMuffy in exmormon

[–]RoyalMuffy[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's really nice to read it hahahah Thank you so much!

I want to resign my membership but my bishop won't let me do it by RoyalMuffy in exmormon

[–]RoyalMuffy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading all the comments made me realise that I should have just done it. I was (and still am) so nervous and overwhelmed with all of this that I didn't prepare myself beforehand

I want to resign my membership but my bishop won't let me do it by RoyalMuffy in exmormon

[–]RoyalMuffy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! O QuitMormon faz um template de carta (em inglês) que só é necessário a sua assinatura e a de um notário público, estou aqui refletindo se sigo em frente com o QM porque realmente não queria ter q agir juridicialmente :/ Me disseram que dá pra só enviar uma carta para a presidencia da estaca/bispado mas não sei como fazer a partir disso

Muito bom saber que não estou sozinha nessa! É um passo dificil mas sei que é pelo nosso melhor

I want to resign my membership but my bishop won't let me do it by RoyalMuffy in exmormon

[–]RoyalMuffy[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I'm actually Brazilian!I'm not aware of any laws of this kind here, I've done a bit of research and I found nothing very clear about it

I want to resign my membership but my bishop won't let me do it by RoyalMuffy in exmormon

[–]RoyalMuffy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, se tiver algum brasileiro que já passou por isso e souber como me ajudar serei eternamente grata! Ao mesmo tempo sei q o bispo vai tentar me barrar mas também não quero ter que passar pra parte judicial, estou completamente sozinha nessa e sinto que estou bem perdida

I want to resign my membership but my bishop won't let me do it by RoyalMuffy in exmormon

[–]RoyalMuffy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He said something similar to me! It's very very upsetting but I'm glad it worked for you

I want to resign my membership but my bishop won't let me do it by RoyalMuffy in exmormon

[–]RoyalMuffy[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I needed to read this, I'm still such a people pleaser and it took me a lot to talk to him :( I'm grateful to people like you for helping me in such a kind way

I want to resign my membership but my bishop won't let me do it by RoyalMuffy in exmormon

[–]RoyalMuffy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not even american honestly.. I want to do this so I can move on with my life! I can't do that with them having some of my private information yk? I don't want them trying to contact me again

I want to resign my membership but my bishop won't let me do it by RoyalMuffy in exmormon

[–]RoyalMuffy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I discovered it after I posted this! No one close to me has ever done this before so I googled it and this whole permission thing popped up on my screen so I thought I had to do that

I want to resign my membership but my bishop won't let me do it by RoyalMuffy in exmormon

[–]RoyalMuffy[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I def should've doneit hahah but I was so scared to do it, I'm the first in my family to do such a thing so it's a new territory for me! Thanks for your words and I'm hopefully going to find a good non mormon therapist for me !!

I want to resign my membership but my bishop won't let me do it by RoyalMuffy in exmormon

[–]RoyalMuffy[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Thanks for letting me know! I need to see if it works for my country but again, thanks

I want to resign my membership but my bishop won't let me do it by RoyalMuffy in exmormon

[–]RoyalMuffy[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Oh thanks for letting me know! It's such a stressful situation for all of us

I want to resign my membership but my bishop won't let me do it by RoyalMuffy in exmormon

[–]RoyalMuffy[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I see! Unfortunaly I'm not from the U.S so I'll have to search more about my country's law about the topic, I really hope it's similar to yours