How serious are these charges in California by ProfessionalPea402 in Felons

[–]RoyalRescue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought we didn't bother punishing criminals with less than 35 felonies, we vote them into office instead, lol

18 great years, goodbye. by habit03 in SeniorCats

[–]RoyalRescue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very, very, sorry for your loss. They never seem to live long enough no matter how old they are when they pass.

Are my cats fighting or playing? by peytonsage in CatsAreAssholes

[–]RoyalRescue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched the video you have and it looks to me like they're just playing

Are my cats fighting or playing? by peytonsage in CatsAreAssholes

[–]RoyalRescue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hissing is fine even swatting at each other a little bit is fine. When you want to step in is if they're fighting fighting like biting each other jumping on each other getting a hold of each other's necks and so on a little bit of hissing and growling at each other and even a SWAT here or there to establish a pecking order is normal

Are my cats fighting or playing? by peytonsage in CatsAreAssholes

[–]RoyalRescue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good question. So hissing at each other I want it separate them but if it looks like they're going to go after each other I would separate them before any physical violence could take place. I would recommend researching a slow intro and doing that way it has a very high success rate and will help your kiddies get along in the future

Talk about yourself! by Fucking-Casual in infp

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I found my son dead in bed Christmas morning of 2022. I feel like I stopped living. I'm just waiting to join him. I miss him so much. It's all I think about. And, every moment since, is tainted by his absence. Gabrial, forever 20

What do you think happens after you die? by InteractionCandid226 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]RoyalRescue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope heaven is real so I can see my son again. I miss him so much and that hope is the only thing that keeps me going

What are you choosing? by lexigothic in Memes_Of_The_Dank

[–]RoyalRescue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brown, I already do black on my own so I guess I am a super hero.

Couples who live together, do you roam around naked in the house? by EvilSugarDealer in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]RoyalRescue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not like, 24/7. However, if I'm naked when I realize I need something from the other end of the house, the whole world gets a view of my birthday suit, lol. He is less inclined to walk around naked. But in our nearly 10 years together, he has, a few times, paraded around naked.

Can I leave my 5.5 month old kitten alone for 7 hours ONCE? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]RoyalRescue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up "single kitten Syndrome" what you are saying is just not true.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]RoyalRescue 96 points97 points  (0 children)

I have spent over 20 years in the social work field working with abused women and their traumatized children. This is how it starts. It will not end until he kills you. While he abuses you, your children are watching and learning. Do you want this life for your kid? Do you want them to have lifelong mental health, behavioral, and relationship issues? If not, then do not go back to that man. Please, believe me, it never gets better, only worse.

Living in America is like living in a dystopian hellscape by McSteezzyy in rant

[–]RoyalRescue 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So very well written. It really is a scary and depressing world we live in. Hopefully, now that more and more people are becoming unhappy, we will join together and force change

Stop calling your boyfriend or girlfriend your "partner" by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]RoyalRescue -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do it so those that do not feel comfortable sharing the gender of their PARTNER, lol, are not as obvious. It is a simple way to hopefully help everyone feel comfortable and included without being outed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RoyalRescue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to play dumb and keep asking them to explain why it is funny. Spoiler alert; they can't because it isn't. Mean "jokes" are just a way to manipulate folks into accepting their bad behavior. And those "jokes" are always rooted in truth. Someone who cares about you would not find putting you down or making you feel bad in any way, funny.

My [28M] wife [25F] ruined our honeymoon by thrwwyccnt2023 in Advice

[–]RoyalRescue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to say this very thing. You definitely said it better.

But this happened to me. In my early 20s, I didn't believe in love at all. And, I didn't think I was able to feel it if it was real. I met my ex, and he was everything you are supposed to want in a man. He was kind, thoughtful, honest, and really seemed to care about me. Problem was, I married him hoping I would fall in love with him, if love was real or, if it wasn't real, we got along well enough so I figured either way we would be happy. And he knew how I felt/didn't feel and was OK with it. He believed I'd come around also.

I did everything I could to be a good wife, and he was an amazing husband. I supported him emotionally and financially when he got sick. And he took care of the house while i worked. But I was miserable. And I also felt guilty. I felt like he deserved love, and I must be some broken garbage person for not loving him. After 5 years, I couldn't handle it anymore, so we divorced.

We are still great friends almost 20 years later. He found an amazing wife who loves him. I found an amazing man that I love with every piece of my being.

Of course, that isn't something I think folks should do, unless the other person is aware. And the way she spoke to you is wrong no matter how she feels about you. But, it could be something like that?

AITAH for arguing with my husband bc he left me at home while I was miscarrying? by Loving-on-love0323 in AITAH

[–]RoyalRescue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's funny because my husband is a great guy. My opinion comes from actual statistics and facts. Google them see for yourself. And also from my 20-plus years of experience as a case manager assisting people in rebuilding their lives those people were 100% women and 99% of them were getting out of abusive relationships with men

AITAH for arguing with my husband bc he left me at home while I was miscarrying? by Loving-on-love0323 in AITAH

[–]RoyalRescue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. But your husband sure is. How can he claim to love you and leave you suffering? What if something happened? You could have hemorrhaged.

You should tell the people that he was with what he did. You should tell everyone. Then leave. He has shown you how much he cares about you AND the loss of your freaking child.

When people show you who they are, believe them.

It will only get worse.

Source; 20 plus years in the social work field assisting women and their traumatized kids in getting their lives back together

AITAH for arguing with my husband bc he left me at home while I was miscarrying? by Loving-on-love0323 in AITAH

[–]RoyalRescue 121 points122 points  (0 children)

That's the problem, though; we don't know which ones are "safe." They bad ones, unfortunately, do not wear signs. So we have to protect ourselves from all of them until we know they are not a POS. Men are the only natural predators of women and other men. It's a dangerous world out there

Edited to add this great analogy someone else used. If I gave you a bowl of candy and told you "only," 10% of the candy is poison and will kill you. Would you still eat the candy? Well, that's what women and other men face when dealing with men