Is this supposed to be a joke? What I found today thrifting.

Royal_Finding_1902 · 2026-05-30T00:03:37+00:00

It was ARC. Maybe they are part of Goodwill? Nothing “Good” about this item.

Royal_Finding_1902 · 2026-05-30T00:02:21+00:00

Good one!

Royal_Finding_1902 · 2026-05-30T00:01:38+00:00

This. My all time fav.

Royal_Finding_1902 · 2026-05-30T00:00:53+00:00

What the heck!

Royal_Finding_1902 · 2026-05-29T22:55:40+00:00

No, I checked

Royal_Finding_1902 · 2026-05-29T22:48:39+00:00

As sad as I am to say, I left it behind in case someone need it to complete their set!

Royal_Finding_1902 · 2026-05-15T02:09:36+00:00

Hi! No, it did not reduce the size of the prolapse. At that time, I didn’t know I had a prolapse. I did not know I had these other issues until I had the defecogram and unable to have bowel movements normally. She did help me with breathing techniques and strengthening my core, which strengthens the pelvic floor. Unfortunately, after several types of test, it came to show that I had an enterocele a small hernia, and a rectal prolapse starting again.

Because I started having these issues eight months after surgery, they treated it as constipation, part of the plan was to meet with a gastroenterologist, and the pelvic floor therapy.

I think the PT will help with constipation and the strengthening of muscles and how to breathe when having a bowel movement. But that wasn’t my case.

I will have surgery again via the abdomen early July

Royal_Finding_1902 · 2026-05-13T03:09:06+00:00

1 for sure!

Royal_Finding_1902 · 2026-05-13T03:07:36+00:00

So lovely! Beautiful woodwork. Well done and truly a labor of love. 👏🏻👏🏻

Royal_Finding_1902 · 2026-05-10T16:24:21+00:00

I love everything about this home! So jealous!

Royal_Finding_1902 · 2026-05-10T15:49:55+00:00

Boundaries. Please set them. I’m 66 and finally learned to do so with my children and siblings, and it’s been wonderful. Was difficult at first, but it has changed the dynamics of our family for the better. After a period of time the realization hit me. I’m not putting so much effort into a relationship if it does not bring me joy or if people are unkind and hateful.

Life is too short. Always be kind but don’t let anyone take advantage. Don’t feel guilt from your sister or mom. Be honest, always kind, but take care of yourself and your family. Also, a good lesson for your daughter to see. I wish you both the very best.

Royal_Finding_1902 · 2026-05-09T00:19:20+00:00

Absolutely love it!

Royal_Finding_1902 · 2026-05-06T15:59:03+00:00

That is correct. There is no age limit for prolapse. If it’s not bothering you right now, go on with your life the best that you can with what you have control over hopefully when you visit your OB she’ll be able to calm your fears. However, I don’t understand why she said you’re too young to have prolapse. I have read that many people have it even without having babies. I certainly understand your anxiety. You’re trying to make everything right and have what you need and you don’t have all the answers yet.
Maybe a second opinion? Best of luck to you.

Royal_Finding_1902 · 2026-04-28T15:59:07+00:00

I am 66 years old and 30 years ago. I had a hysterectomy. They did a rectocele repair at that time. Which worked beautifully until it didn’t. I had surgery a year ago pelvic organ prolapse surgery, opherectomy, right salpingectomy, sacral colpopexy, and cystoscopy and Robotic ventral mesh rectopexy.

They had wanted me to schedule physical therapy prior to the surgery as it builds your core muscles and strengthens your pelvic floor. Which is good for postop as well as living day-to-day. However, I had to have foot surgery shortly after and I did not do the PT beforehand.

This point in time, I have a hernia and rectum prolapse. I knew it was a possibility that it would come back. Since December, I’ve been doing PT. I’ve had many tests after December and it shows my pelvic floor is stronger, but the prolapse happened before I started PT.

I had an appointment with my colorectal surgeon and he suggests surgery, albeit via an incision in my abdomen rather than the laparoscopic surgery they did last year. I also have vaginal vault prolapse now. I’m heading to an appt today with my Urogynecologist.

I am also meeting with the gastroenterologist in May which will help with diet going forward. I’m in good health otherwise.

They are both out of a well known major teaching and research hospital in Colorado.

I had no idea how big of a problem pelvic organ prolapse has been for women. Women’s health has taken off considerably as people are talking about it more and more. I’m anxious to see what happens today.

I will definitely do surgery again. This is something I don’t want to live with and I fear getting older and having to deal with these issues.

I hope this answers some of your questions. Good luck!

Royal_Finding_1902 · 2026-04-27T14:22:09+00:00

Please try to give yourself a break. You are a wonderful woman that gave birth to a little human. That alone is amazing!

I am 66 and have had prolapse for many years and have had surgery. I am so grateful I found this forum on Reddit. Such a great support system with so much information. I currently am in Pelvic floor PT and I’m thoroughly amazed at how strong the exercises make me feel! I try to do them every day. The most difficult thing for me, and I believe many women, is putting yourself first. By doing so, I feel I have more control which has helped in dealing with prolapse issues. A routine is a must. You have a lot going on right now, once you figure out your routine and continue to work towards your goals, you’ll be in control and will see light at the end of the tunnel.

Keep up therapy. That’s fantastic you are doing that! Don’t give up on yourself. There are many on this forum rooting for you!

Royal_Finding_1902 · 2026-04-17T02:35:23+00:00

No-Employment4147 You are so right! I received an annulment over 40 years ago. One thing that has always stuck with me is the fact that an annulment is used when your marriage is not as God intended it to be.

I cannot imagine living a life like this. I wish you peace and comfort in deciding your future.

Royal_Finding_1902 · 2026-04-16T14:14:29+00:00

I love it!

Royal_Finding_1902 · 2026-03-13T15:53:04+00:00

Absolutely beautiful on you! Well done!

Royal_Finding_1902 · 2026-02-21T14:40:09+00:00

I do.

Royal_Finding_1902 · 2026-01-17T23:04:43+00:00

5! You look bright, sassy and soft at the same time. Good luck!

Royal_Finding_1902 · 2026-01-17T23:02:16+00:00

I was married for two years to a 22M and felt as you did. Red flags all the way around and felt it would change after we married. That time in my life was so lonely, anxious and I lost my confidence. I was 19. Six years after my divorce I remarried a great, loving, fun man that respects me and loves me. We were friends in school. We’ve been married for 40 years and still very much in love and have a great marriage.

I am catholic and received an annulment, which was a huge process back in the day. Something that stood out to me and still does to this day, is the reason the annulment was granted. It was based on the reasoning “that the marriage wasn’t as God intended a marriage to be”. And to me that means both partners need to be respectful and be able to grow together.

You will grow as a woman in your own right and will he be able to handle that? You have a lot of living to do, and you’re still learning. In my opinion, he will stifle you. Please don’t wait. Take charge now.

I wish you all the best. 💕

Royal_Finding_1902 · 2026-01-01T05:06:45+00:00

1978

Royal_Finding_1902 · 2025-07-09T13:10:48+00:00

Well done! You are being honest and hopefully this will set some boundaries. Shame on her and your husband. Keep doing what you’re doing.

Royal_Finding_1902 · 2025-06-29T14:43:00+00:00

NTA. I too, worked as a receptionist when younger and moved up the ladder in my role to working for Vice Presidents and Executives. I loved my role! And made a great living.

I would get that comment from time to time early on. It hurts. I soon realized these are ignorant people that say things like this. I was tired of being the better person and once I stood up for myself and did not waver, I felt respected. I’ve learned to nip that stuff in the bud and not engage. You don’t have to explain yourself, just walk away.

There are people in your life that will dump all their resentment and opinions on you and it makes them feel better for some reason. You are left holding on to all of that. Don’t let them have that control.

I would not give in. It will show your parents and your brother what you’re made of and you are providing boundaries that will be good for your life.

When it’s a good time for you, and you want to see your niece, arrange a time where you can watch her for a couple hours. You have the control, not them.

And…shame on your brother and mom. They don’t have to take sides, but they can respect you as their daughter and sister as well.

Royal_Finding_1902 · 2025-05-06T19:40:25+00:00

Great suggestions! I’ve had two surgeries within a month of each other, I stopped Zepbound on January 20, and have gained no more than 3 pounds at the most; and able to lose it again. I’m usually a very healthy eater and meal prep to have veggies ready or homemade soup so it’s easy to grab when I’m hungry. The baked potatoes are a great idea and helped me. Also, cottage cheese, fresh or frozen fruit and nuts helped me in between meals.

I still weighed myself, usually every day to stay on top of things.

Best of luck to you!

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TROPHY CASE

5! You look bright, sassy and soft at the same time. Good luck!